Bondage table for head

Over the past 15 years I've been collecting photos I like. (as you've seen from the many photos posted on this blog). One folder is for BDSM Furniture I like. Here's one of the pics showing something I want...a bondage table just for the head and wrists. I want one longer for a dining room table though.

"Hold still, sissy. You need more makeup to look like a pretty little whore for Me. Oh that's right...you're not going anywhere, are you bitch?" the Mistress says. "Now next time you serve Me, you're going to make sure you apply your makeup in the sissyroom fully or else I'll make you sleep in this table all night. I expect a pretty sissybitch. Understand? As for today, I'm going to apply more blush and lipstick to my whore and then I'm going to strapon fuck your mouth a bit before you start making dinner."

"Ooh..you love My cock, don't you? Now show Me you want to be a good sissyslut for Me and please Me."

Tenderness

I thought this photo was delightful. I just love her smile. And I too really love tender kisses and soft touches to my body with lips or fingertips. So wonderful.

I like the contrast in this photo...that he's lightly touching her while She can do as pleases to him. He knows to only barely and gently touch her unless she gives him permission otherwise. He's under her control. ("Mistress, may I use my hands fully?"..."Not yet, my pet".)

"The quality of strength lined with tenderness
is an unbeatable combination." - Maya Angelou.

Funny

A couple amusing things to share...

(She's got a point there. So go on...Go grow some vaginas in your garden. ha.)

I'm not religious but I'd attend that sermon. =)

What is a real man?

Some people think being a "real man" means being macho or behaving badly or stupidly. (ie: Real men don't cry. Real men eat big steaks not salads. Real men don't listen to their wives or girlfriends. Real men don't crossdress. Real men don't share their feelings, etc. All stupid crap and based on stereotypes.) To me, real men are those who treat others well especially the Woman in their life. Real men to me are those that are honest, loyal, have integrity (are true to themselves), have good character, care, can talk things out, can keep their word, and are strong enough to submit themselves and put their total trust in their partners. A real man treats the woman in his life like gold or like a Queen. I actually think society should stop using the phrase "real man" and instead use the term "gentleman" more often because that's what the world needs...more gentle men.

Take it all

Current state: Lately I've been really wanting to see a submissive on his knees sucking my strapon cock and struggling on it while I force him to take more down his throat. So open up and say "aaah". ;)

Homage to the Elven Queen

I came across this oil painting and it reminded me of when I dressed up as an Elven Princess one year for halloween and looked a bit similar to this. I'm posting it because of that and also because I just love the romantic nature and love seeing a male on his knees before his Queen.

"Homage to the Elven Queen" by LindsayArcher.com
Artist's description of oil painting:
"It is summer in the elven wood. Everything seems to grow taller and greener here. A human wanderer stumbles upon the elven queen singing in the wood, enjoying a moment of freedom from the affairs of court. The wanderer kneels in reverence to the station and the beauty of the elven queen. His eloquence though enamored with her, touches her heart. She welcomes this stranger to her beautiful kingdom by graciously extending her hand. He thanks her by kissing her ivory knuckles."

Turned into a sissy slave

Where am I? How did I get here? Last I remember I was at a bar drinking with two ladies. Now I can't move. What's happening?

Sshhh...We've taken you fair and square. At the bar you said you liked us and wanted to come home with us. Now you have your wish. But enough of that...We have to prepare you. We've just sold you to a new owner who would rather have a pretty sissy slave.

And that's how "Amanda Jane" came to be. =)

(to be continued. Read Part 2 here.)

Happy National Hugging Day

Today, jan. 20, is national hugging day so here's a few related images for you to enjoy.

Honor: Having a code to live by

My New Year's resolution is to get fitter and stronger. So I joined a gym, met with a fitness trainer to get a plan set, am exercising more and I read nerdfitness.com articles sometimes to help with motivation.(plus it's amusing) I read one of his latest articles called "The Chuck Norris Guide to Life Domination". In it he says:

"Chuck Norris began his martial arts career by studying Tang Soo Do. However, he eventually decided that he wanted to improve upon what he learned, so he created his own fighting style: Chun Kuk Do. Yup, the dude just made up his own martial art. Here’s the code that he and his Chun Kuk Do disciples live by: (with my comments)

1. I will develop myself to the maximum of my potential in all ways.
2. I will forget the mistakes of the past and press on to greater achievements.
3. I will continually work at developing love, happiness and loyalty in my family. (and towards my Goddess/Mistress and life in general)
4. I will look for the good in all people and make them feel worthwhile. (I will strive to make my Goddess proud of me)
5. If I have nothing good to say about a person, I will say nothing. (or else I will be gagged. Or else I may bring dishonor to my Goddess/Owner for I am a reflection of Her)
6. I will always be as enthusiastic about the success of others as I am about my own.
7. I will maintain an attitude of open-mindedness. (and listen to my Goddess without complaint)
8. I will maintain respect for those in authority and demonstrate this respect at all times. (respect those worthy of respect such as my Goddess).
9. I will always remain loyal to my God, my country, family and my friends. ("to my Goddess")

10. I will remain highly goal-oriented throughout my life because that positive attitude helps my family, my country and myself." (and improving myself and my service skills will help my Goddess)

I think that's a good code. (especially with my comments in green italics). Do you have a similar guiding code of honor and integrity in your life?

Playfulness

I like this image since it looks full of playfulness and joy. And it brings back a good memory.

Angel paintings and Aftercare

While I was on a Bahamas cruise a couple years ago, on the cruise ship they had an art auction/show I went to and I found a new artist I like: Thomasz Rut. He has a classical style of painting that I love but also some of his paintings are about loving couples and some show the male in a more submissive pose. (well at least to me). Since my last blog post showed a male angel, here's some of Rut's paintings involving female Angels that I liked.

To me, it looks like intimate Aftercare treatment after the male sub took some intense pain for his Domme. A beautiful expression of renewed closeness.

Aftercare: Affectionate care and attention following any type of traumatic or mentally challenging event. Aftercare can involve physically comforting the brave submissive, kisses, cuddling, being wrapped in a blanket, words of praise from his Mistress, etc.

Related links:
-Thomasz Rut's website
-Aftercare definition on wikipedia
-The BDSM Scene and Aftercare

Fallen Angel

A fallen angel saved by Womankind.
I saw this pic on another site. Here's someone else's proposed caption:
"Ah, the spider-ladies have caught a fly in their web. And he will soon be supplying their nourishment (evil laugh)."

Her smile and pegging

A sub should strive to do whatever he can to please his Mistress. In the end, it's all worth it. She's pleased. I just love it when a male sub is a good personal slut for Me. I can take him when and where I want.

A boy and his Mistress.
In recent years, the term "pegging" has come up with regard to a male receiving anal penetration by a Woman. Now I like that there's a term to cover any kind of anal penetration since I like to use strapon dildos and also double ended dildos, but I am just not a fan of the term "pegging" in particular. My Femdom cock is not a peg. To me, a peg is a small clothes peg. And my femdom cock is never that small. See what I mean...here's a photo of my anal penetration toys.

This photo on my toys was taken in june 2011 so I have a couple other things that aren't pictured. And I used to have more on the bigger end but had to get rid of some due to material issues. I'll have to go shopping again sometime for more such as another big black cock (strapon). =)

So in conclusion, for now I use the terms "strapon" or "strapon sex" instead of "pegging". If a sub asks to be pegged, the response would be more like this...

I think he needs a little bit more decoration.

Happy Sexy Tuesday

Tuesday is Sexy Nude Male Carwash Day. All males are forcefully stripped by the Ladies and the Ladies get a free carwash by the naked male subs. =) They're also fed grapes and chocolate covered strawberries by other naked male subs on the side while they wait. Okay...so it's a virtual carwash in my own world but it still counts. =) I think my female web visitors will still enjoy seeing this picture.

Hurry up, boys...my car is next. ;) All these nude males remind me...I have to find out when the next CFNM party is in south florida and also get back my paddle I left at the dungeon during the last cfnm party. (cfnm = clothed Female, nude male). Hmmm...I'll have to bring up this above idea to the party organizers next time I see them.

male shower bondage

There's a rope bondage class this week for the kinky leather ladies group I help lead. So I dug out some of my rope bondage books to review and found this delicious photo in my 'male bondage' book. damn. Now I'm horny and in the mood to tie a male up in the shower like this, turn on the water and slowly watch it drip off his body and then force him up against the wall and take his restrained little ass with my strapon cock while he moans like my bitch.
(Note to self: practice this look in rope on a male in order to make this fantasy a reality. Second note to self: when I run out of room for kidnapped males, start putting them in my large walk in shower. ;) )

Collar and its meaning

According to wikipedia: "A collar is a device of any material placed around the neck of the submissive partner. It is also a term used to show ownership of one partner by another. A person wearing a collar to symbolize their relationship with another is said to be collared."

There's more to it than that.

Being "owned"..becoming the property of a dominant Woman...being "collared" by her...what does it mean? what does it consist of? (I'm not talking about a temporary leather collar during a scene. I'm talking ownership.)

They make a commitment to one another long term.
- The submissive male pledges to only serve and be loyal to the dominant Woman. He strives to do his best to obey and put a smile on her face. And to make her proud of him in all that he does. he belongs to Her.
- The dominant Woman pledges to accept his submission, cherish it and take the responsibility of truly training him to her liking. She acknowleges that he is now part of her..her property..a reflection of her. He is under her care.

Possible outward signs of their union:
-signing a slave contract specifying their roles and responsibilities
-marks of ownership (ie: tattoo of her choosing on him, or special jewelry to be worn always such as a special collar, necklace or bracelet to symbolize their relationship, special piercing, etc.)
-possibly registering her slave on slaveregister.com.
-possibly a collaring ceremony (a commitment ceremony in the bdsm community usually among close kinky friends. I have also known of a few couples who just held the ceremony themselves with no witnesses...just for them.)
-if they are in love, possibly also an engagement later.

The submissive male should be proud to be owned by her and the dominant Woman should be proud of owning him.

As one male said: “the collar is really a symbol of devotion to one whom you have agreed to partner with. The exchange of power between a Dominant and submissive is a mutually agreed upon unbalancing of control. It is a akin to the traditional wedding ring in non-BDSM or ‘vanilla’ relationships, except a bit sexier.”

Also when at bdsm events/parties, the collar represents that he is owned and not to be touched without his Mistress' permission. And collared subs are envied by other subs still searching for their Owner.

Feelings and meaning associated with the actual Collar:
"Many times Dominant gives the collar with pride. The Dominant might view the collar as a symbol of ownership or surrender of the submissive or slave. It can become a symbol of their union, agreement, and their dedication to a common goal. Submissive often wear it in devotion. Submissives can feel strength and security in the collar - thus in their power exchange. It can evoke in a slave the profound depth of service to their Owner. It can evoke feelings of their calling into slavery. And serve as a reminder of place and status in the power exchange. For others it might feel just as a toy - such as a flogger or something else used in a scene. And alternately a collar might feel like protection and love for others. It can be freeing to have that collar around one's neck because it means that you are not denying your authentic self."

Related links:
-A collar is more than strip of leather/cloth/chain
-What is a collaring ceremony? Includes sample collaring vows
-More links on collaring

A slave ownership tattoo with his Mistress' name
and a SlaveRegister number

A collared male slave with ownership tattoos in the kanji japanese writing language. The symbols at the top mean "submission". There's also the bdsm symbol. And the tattoos at the bottom mean "slave and servant". His Mistress also put a tramp stamp decorative design on his lower back too since as you can see, he's her slut.

As it should be

As it should be.
Every male guided and owned by a woman and him worshipping her.

Vampiress lurking

It was delicious. The way his body struggled and he finally gave way to my hold on him. Not that he'd be going anywhere anyway. I'm used to the male mortals attempting to struggle. It amuses me now. But he soon finds out my forceful grip on him is strong. he won't be going anywhere unless I say so. And now it is time to feast, I say as I sink my sharp teeth into his flesh...mmm...such a delicious neck. And his blood is delicious and sweet. I can hear his heartbeat. Hear him frightened a little. he doesn't know how much I will drink from him tonight. Will it be all of him?....quickly draining him as I feast on my meal with a hungry passion as I hear his mumbled moans and pleas. Or will I take just a little taste of him right now...sampling him...determining if this one will be best off as my slave...to take to my lair and do my bidding as my forever slave...the one I keep and drink from little by little over time. Ah...decisions...decisions. Who knew mealtime could be so complex? ;)