Register to vote

Monday October 7 is the last day to register to vote in the U.S. so make sure you're registered. 

And then vote on or before November 5. I'm supporting Kamala Harris to be the first female president. It's about time we had a female president. Choose the prosecutor over the felon. Choose democracy over dictatorship. 

Watch the 10 worst things about the past Trump presidency: 

And Trump's vice president JD Vance has said that women in violent abusive marriages should stay in their marriages. And Vance believes that America's universities should be closed down and the properties should be sold to developers, and non-religious American businesses and culture should be "ripped out like a tumor" and they should install "political religion" and have a dictatorship. 

Save our democracy. Support Kamala Harris for president. You can read about her plan by clicking HERE. 

(Many celebrities such as Oprah, Taylor Swift, Willie Nelson, the Obamas, the Clintons, Jimmy Carter, Stevie Wonder, Mark Hamill of Star Wars, Spike Lee, George Clooney, Jennifer Lawrence, Pink, John Legend, Sally Field, Glen Close, Martha Stewart, Billie Eilish, Jennifer Aniston, Julia Roberts, and more celebrities, plus top military officials and over 40 of Trump's past top advisors from his first term support Harris for president.)

SNL Naughty Elves

Here's a Saturday Night Live video I like about naughty elves:

Such naughty elves! Don't they understand you gotta be nice not naughty during the Christmas season to possibly get something you want. 

Goddess Brigid and the Imbolc holiday

I came across this pagan druid dance honoring the ancient goddess Brigid and thought it was beautiful:

Who is Brigid? The Celtic goddess of Imbolc:

Imbolc is a pagan holiday celebrated on February 1 or 2 that's related to Spring...Or the beginning of the end of Winter.

Goddess Athena and Parthenon

The ancient Greek building in Athens, Greece called the Parthenon lay in ruins today due to the Venetians and what was a huge gold statue of Goddess Athena that was inside is completely gone. And most of the sculptures on the actual building were taken without Greek permission and then sold to the British Museum in London. And the British museum refuses to give them back to Greece. All of this is a tragedy. 

But luckily today we can see a full size replica of the Parthenon and the huge gold Athena statue that is now in Nashville Tennessee. It is the only thing in the world like this. Here's a video I found of it.

It would have been a wonderful place to witness the Goddess Athena in the real Parthenon in Athens. 

In ancient Greece, Athena was the goddess of wisdom, courage, inspiration, civilization, law and justice, strategic warfare, science, literature, mathematics, strength, strategy, the arts, crafts and skill. Athena was also considered the protectress of cities and was especially associated with Athens, her patron city where she had her own temple dedicated to her.

By the way, you'll see depictions of Medusa on her and her shield. Athena created Medusa (with her cursed snake hair who could turn people into stone by looking at her) in order to protect Medusa from violent males such as Poseidon. And Athena put Medusa on her shield to scare opponents. She is also said to be the creator of spiders and turned someone into a spider. She's very powerful. Don't mess with Goddess Athena. 

Athena is one of the most major and powerful goddesses in the Greek pantheon:

-She has eternal youth and immortality and is incapable of dying like all major gods.

-She does not require sleep.

-She is immune to any diseases or illnesses.

-Athena is the smartest and most knowledgeable person on Mount Olympus.

-Like Artemis, Athena is extremely resourceful. Athena has many talents, such as weaving, making ceramics and sword fighting to name a few.

-Athena is extremely lucky and wins nearly all competitions she takes part in.

-Athena is one of the greatest deities when it comes to casting spells.

-Athena, like Hera, has a psychic connection towards others.

-She is telepathic.

-Athena can morph surroundings with her mind.

-Athena is also immune to Aphrodite's powers of making people fall in love or lust after others.

-She can bless and curse people however she chooses.

-She can shapeshift.

-She can change the forms of mortals.

-She was also responsible for breathing life into humans. Turning Prometheus' clay figure of a man made of mud into a living being.

-She is a divine teacher, examples being when helped Heracles, Perseus, Theseus and Bellerophon slay monsters.

-As the wise goddess of warfare she always helps her father, Zeus deal with his enemies and is a formidable opponent in battle.

-She is said to have equal power and talent to Zeus. 

-Athena also guards Zeus' divine weapon, the thunderbolt, which she can also wield herself.

Why Worry

A music video I have always liked...

Sylver - Why Worry (official music video)

And a photo I like:

You belong to Me.

Crossdressed celebrities on Ew

On Sunday, I went on the Jimmy Fallon ride in Universal Studios in Orlando, Florida. It was fun. My favorite part in it was that Jimmy crossdresses as his character Sara from the Ew! skit that he used to do on his tv show with other celebrities. Here's a funny "best of ew!" video of some of his Ew skits. Such fun.

There's individual episodes on YouTube but here's a video of the "best of ew!" on the Tonight show:

https://youtu.be/yL1_EiEMXTw

Red flags of submissives

- Red flags of fake or toxic submissives (video)

"Do I do what I want or do I do what my dominant wants?"

Now valid reasons on some days (not a regular occurrence) such as you're really sick or not feeling well or you've had a bad, tiring or stressful day and you aren't in the submissive mood are okay. We're all humans with days where we're feeling off. But those need to be clearly communicated to the dominant as soon as possible so that misunderstandings or feelings of being disrespected by you for not following her orders do not happen. Talk with your dominant. Maybe new plans can be made. Open communication and transparency are very important. So keep that in mind. 

Intimacy: Into me you see.

8 traits of a healthy and empowered submissive

The 8 traits of a healthy and empowered submissive:

1. Humble. Can accept feedback.

2. Teachable. Has a desire to learn and grow. Surrenders control. 

3. Communicative. And trustworthy. Trusting you can be honest and reliable.

4. Aware of limits and boundaries.

5. Aware of their gifts and talents. And aware of areas of opportunity (areas for growth).

6. Desire to serve and support.

7. Feels empowered in their role. It's consensual power exchange. 

8. Interdependent (not codependent).

This was my recap from watching the two part videos from Ms. Elle X on YouTube:

- "The good sub test: part 1" video

- "The good sub test: part 2" video

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I initially heard of her from coming across this image online:

Flashback: My panty video

I got a lovely compliment on the past video that I made of me showing off some pretty panties that I own in my crossdressing room for subs. You can find the video HERE.

Male bellydancing

I have a website about male bellydancing. I've had it for a long time. So I am looking for new videos to add to it. So share if you find some good videos or other links. I've always liked the idea of males or cd's bellydancing and performers for ladies. And I once had an Arabian Nights themed party where I had the males watch an instructional male bellydancing video tape I have and then the male subs danced and performed for us dominant ladies at the party. It was very enjoyable.
Here is a new video I saw today of a male bellydancer:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCfxHe5Tfx0

Porn addiction causes brain changes, ED, anxiety and more

I'm not against porn but too much watching can cause an unhealthy addiction.

Here is an interesting video about porn addiction. I showed it to a friend in another state who is addicted to watching porn videos online. So I'm sharing it here as well since I think it's interesting.



The video clip is about 16 minutes long so I'll give you a briefing:

- It explains that porn addiction leads to Erectile Dysfunction (ED), especially noticed in young men with high speed internet. And viagra can't fix it. It takes young men 4-5 months of no porn to fix the ED.

- It physically alters the brain. As dopamine increases, the chemical Delta Fos-B accumulates which creates more cravings. And also leads to structural brain changes...which lead to numbed pleasure response, hyper-reactivity to porn, and willpower erosion. (all addictions can do this but especially porn addiction)

- It can lead to problems with women in real life. (unrealistic expectations, can't relate, etc.)

- Also the symptoms of porn addiction can mimic performance anxiety, depression, social anxiety and more. Eliminating porn can remove these symptoms and also increase a male's productivity in life.

How to quit?

-there are noFap (no porn) support groups online.
-find software. There is windows software called Self Vault that can block specific websites or other online distractions.
-or try it on your own, or with the help of a partner. (a male chastity device can help)

Manifesting your desires in life

I've been studying the "Law of attraction" for some time (as noted in my previous post explaining it), and recently I found the interesting video below that I came across regarding being in the vortex for attracting. It has a beautiful photo in it that I like, is a bit amusing and also has a tip for getting into the vortex. The "vortex" is like being in the state of your highest vibrational self...full of love, happiness, appreciation, positive expectation and is the state for attracting what you want in life. I'm offering this information in this post because I know the law of attraction works and I want everyone to be happy. (even though you're a bunch of perverts. ha.). ;)

Basically it's about appreciating and enjoying what you have.
"The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate." -Oprah.
Another Tip: Ignore the bad and focus on the good. Expect good.

Related links:

-Mind over matter: My post on the law of attraction.

-www.TheSecret.tv

Vanilla interest: Beautiful Italy

A little vanilla... For many months, my mind has been on Italy. I've been watching various travel dvd's on Italy by traveler Rick Steves. I've been drinking italian limoncellino, eating authenic italian gelato made everyday fresh in a local shop by a french man, listening to italian music, looking for an italian langage course, etc. My hope is to one day visit many areas around Italy. Today I watched another travel dvd and it featured the beautiful Lake Como area and small towns around it like Varenna. So I thought I'd share a little of what I've seen...

Drag-alicious attire

One of my kinky female friends regularly performs at a drag show and she knows several of the drag queens (males/trans) who perform there. So for the January event for the Kinky Ladies group I co-lead, one of the local drag queens will be coming and doing a fun arts & craft project with us ladies. The drag queen will be teaching us how to turn boring old t-shirts into hot sexy new garments.

So why a drag queen, you ask? Who else knows better on how to find something and make it fabulous than a drag queen? Drag queens all over have been crafting their own wardrobes so they can accentuate their best assets. I think it's going to be very fun. And she might just give us a private drag queen performance too. Confused? Check out this video below for some examples of transforming t-shirts.

My video of my sissy panties

Below is a video clip I made back in July 2010 when I first got my mini-camcorder and was testing it out. So far it's the only kinky video I made. In it, I am showing off some of the sissy panties I own. I've always enjoyed shopping for panties to see on male subs. I especially think that lace or pink is sexy on males. It turns me on. Enjoy seeing the panties. Maybe it'll inspire you to go panty shopping after viewing it. =)

Christmas Present

The lucky sissy awaiting his Owner's arrival.

And I saw this cute holiday music video recently...

Understanding BDSM

Now I haven't read the book "The 50 shades of grey" but I have heard several people say that it does not portray BDSM very well. That it mistakenly mentions abuse. Well abuse is certainly not the case in real life. BDSM's motto that most practice is "Safe, Sane and Consensual". Here's a good intro video on BDSM that I wish vanilla/regular people would watch so that they try to begin to understand.



Also,
Another interesting thing that I found today was this article by Dan Savage about a couple who had a regular/traditional marriage and it wasn't going well and they turned it into a FemDom Marriage involving male chastity and now it has been going great and has lasted. Basically the message is that it is up to the two people involved to decide what's right for them. Do what works for you. Do not let others dictate how your relationship should be or what is right.

Why I like sissies

Question from a blog reader to me:
"Hi Mistress lisa,
i really love your blog and your work too but sorry i really don´t understand why you like Sissyboys..hey i´m a female too but i don´t like them. i love to see a masculine sexy man on his knees and not a Sissy. Sorry if my words sounds hard but it´s just my taste and i´m really interesting about your answer. -Anonymous."

Dear Anonymous,

Just so you know, I did mention some of my reasons for liking sissies (crossdressers) on my blog post called "Crossdressing, purging and being yourself". There I said:
"some crossdressers look hot when crossdressed and I want to jump their bones. Also I especially love lace on a guy...it just turns me on."
Those 2 are my main reasons.

But there are many other reasons too such as:
- I like that he's confident enough in his sexuality/masculinity to explore and try showing his more feminine/girly side.
- I like that he's sharing a secret part of himself with Me, and exploring with Me. I'm a very openminded and accepting person. They feel safe to share and explore.
- I like shopping for clothes, panties and other things for crossdressers. That's why I have a crossdressing room in my home right now. I love shopping for feminine things to put on subs and have bought alot of stuff over the years.
- It's fun to play dress up! =) I'm all for adding more fun to my life.
- And it's fun to play with them in general when they're dressed up. It's fun to feel them up while in panties, lace, or skimpy short outfits, fake breasts, etc.
and
- I see in your comment above you wrote "i love to see a masculine sexy man on his knees and not a Sissy."

Well I love seeing BOTH. In the past, sometimes I have crossdressed a particular masculine male and sometimes I haven't. But usually I have crosssdressed most at some point during one of their visits. It's like having 2 people in 1. A male sub would arrive looking hot, sexy and masculine. Kneel, worship me and do as I say. And then later I would crossdress him into a sexy outfit such as panties, plus lingerie or a maid outfit or another outfit, plus put makeup on him, a wig, thigh highs, shoes, or anything else I may want at the time. Usually they look very good as a gurl and very sexy. For the majority that I have crossdressed in the past, I haven't feminized them during every single visit. I enjoy their masculine side/look and feminized/sissy side or look.
- Plus I'm bisexual and can appreciated beauty in males and females...and crossdressers that look like sexy submissive sluts/gurls for Me. =). (note: I do not dominate real women)
-I like seeing the contrast...ie: his male cock encased in sexy feminine panties.
-Also usually the male's demeanor changes to a softer more submissive mode. (And of course, the more submissive a male is to me, the more appealing/attractive he is to me.)

In conclusion, "anonymous" female commenter, I love playing with select crossdressers. But I understand your preference as a woman to prefer to not have crossdressers in your personal life for you. I've actually been surprised to find that most non-pro dominant Women that I've met are not into crossdressers. But I understand that everyone has their own preferences. Different strokes for different folks. But who knows...maybe you haven't seen guys who look hot as gurls, or you aren't bi like me or aren't turned on by lacy sexy things on guys. But if everyone was the same, the world would be a boring place. Fortunately there's room in the world for everyone. =)  -Mistress Lisa

By the way, there are several videos on YouTube.com showing males who are very skilled in makeup application and can feminize themselves extremely well.

Auction

"Ladies, the first item up for bid is slave #3, a male recently captured in south Florida. Due to his youth, he has many years ahead of him. Plenty of time to serve you and do whatever you require. And as you can see from his delicate features, he can be masculine or feminized depending on your preference once you enslave him. Of course, everything is up to you once he's your property. His fate is in your hands. As with all males, he's best under the guidance and training of a strong-willed Woman. What shall we start the bidding at?"

"I own you. Now worship my ass and show Me you're grateful."


Video clip of a slave auction from the old movie called Planet Earth:

Restrained to bed

Here's a video I enjoyed of a sexy guy restrained to a bed. It makes me want to get out my cop outfit and teach him a lesson for being such a naughty tease.