Flashback: My panty video

I got a lovely compliment on the past video that I made of me showing off some pretty panties that I own in my crossdressing room for subs. You can find the video HERE.

Feminine sissymaids

 

You should be a sissymaid to a dominant woman. It helps give the sub some purpose and lets you please another person. Let your submissive girly side out and serve as a maid like a good gurl.

Be useful. Be an asset. Be obedient.

How lovely.

"Mistress Lisa, would you like water, tea or me? Tee hee." :)

You're unconventional

 

Embrace your girly side! It's wonderful to be unique. Normal is boring. Let's bring out your girly sub side, and my domme side will love and encourage it. I want to dress you up and feminize you. Be my gurl.

Makeup time

 

A Mistress taking time to make her sissy gurl pretty for her.  She lovingly helps bring out the sissy side in her sub.

Another Mistress after applying makeup to her blonde sissy gurl. "Oh my gurl, you look so hot when feminized. Let's make out. Kiss me soft like a girl."

Wake up fem

 

If you go to bed in something feminine, you get to wake up and start the day off right by en fem. So sissy, get yourself some feminine panties, pajamas, nighties and other lingerie. There's so many different looks and lovely fabrics. Personally I love feeling something silky or satiny on me. How about you?

Penis park

Haeshindang Penis Park in Korea. I came across these photos online of it from a woman and thought they were funny.

Shrine to the Virgin - Such an interesting backstory: a young betrothed woman drowned in the bay and the fishing village stopped catching fish soon after. One night, some drunk fishermen pissed in the ocean and the next day, fish were abundant. They reasoned her virgin ghost was craving cock and haunting the bay, so they started, "erecting" penises all over the bay and Haeshindang penis park was born! 

She had a big penis in more ways than one. Lol.

Now I think they also need a vagina park for balance. And they do already have a different Erotic Sculpture Park in korea too, which I posted about in the past HERE.

Strapon Saturday

Welcome to Strapon Saturday! Bend over, my little bitch! Get ready to feel it deep in you.

Foot massage for My feet

Here are some photos of a past sissy sub lucky enough to massage my lovely feet in my home as a reward for good behavior...

"Take care to hold my foot gently as you massage my feet, sissy."

This sissy did a good job of relaxing my feet. 

A sub should know how to give a great foot massage. There are plenty of massage videos on YouTube and massage books so there's no excuse not to learn. You should want to please your Goddess. 

Ancient Festival of Strapons and Sissies

Here is something I read online a long time ago by someone else:
"Did you know, that the ancient greeks who worshipped Dionysus, the god of wine and festivity, would have celebrations in which the men dressed as women, and the women would strut around clad in strap-on cocks? We read about it in my history class in college, I'm not sure I have the citations on me, but I believe it was related to a fertility festival of some sort."

That sounded interesting so I'm wondering if any readers have any information on it?

Time to consummate after the festival. He's excited that he's going to take her strapon cock.

The hand I was dealt

I'm a little pissed at the hand I was dealt. That I have pain and suffering sometimes. That life isn't fair. I just need to give out some aggression or pain sometimes to feel better. So this image seemed appropriate to my mood.

Serving drinks

 

"Yes, you look so lovely, sissy. So well put together. And such a good curtsey. Now my friend is coming over today. I'm excited to see her and also to see how good you can serve us as my sissymaid. Now go prepare some tea and desserts like a good gurl."

"Oh my such wonderful offerings from your maid. I can't decide." 

Mistress replies: "Yes, I'm really proud of her. You should get a sissymaid too."

Suddenly bound for her

 

"Yes, just as I thought...he'll do nicely. Put him in the van, boys. I'll train him to my liking. Mmm...I can't wait to see my marks across his back and hear him whimper. Soon he will recognize his place."

Remote controlled plug

This graphic that I found yesterday about a remote controlled vibrating butt plug in a sissy sub amused me. Plus I love having control over a sub. I like how the sissy sub is reacting.

Donate to my favorite charity

I would never ask for money from strangers for myself, but I would ask for it for my favorite charity, Water for People. They help bring clean water and sanitation services to poor areas in the world that do not have it. And today August 25 is the day that your donation to them will be matched/doubled. So please consider donating.

-Video about them.

-Donate now.

Thank you. I think everyone deserves clean water. Some young girls have to skip school to walk miles to get clean water for their families. It's not fair. Let's help.

Skirt tent

 

Another reason why chastity devices are needed on sissy subs: So there's no skirt tents. Lol.

Surprise

 

"Oh don't be so surprised. Why did you think I told you to get on your hands and knees? You're going to be my little bitch."

Taken and changed

 

"Sssshh... just breathe in the chloroform. Stop struggling. You will be Mine soon. I saw you get off the hotel elevator with your bags and I knew I wanted you. I saw you foolishly left the door open as you brang them into your room... which was the perfect opportunity for me to snag you. Ssssh..just breathe in."

Then he's taken in a van to her place...

"We must get these male clothes off you. You won't be needing them anymore. Although I do like pink on you. But I have something else in mind."

Later....

"Oh my new sub looks so sexy dressed in pink and restrained for me. So much more tailored to what I want and like." (devious laugh)

Later...

"I hope you enjoy your new sissy room and look. You won't be going anywhere anytime soon, my pet. And you're wearing a locked chastity device and locking sissymaid uniform. So get used to it. You're Mine and your training will start soon. You will learn to serve me very well. Your focus will be on Me and what I want. I give your life some purpose. You really should be thanking me. Now when I come back in here, I expect to see that you have picked out a pretty nightie for your bedtime. And get that pout off your face. You're going to learn to love it here."

Snuggling

 

Snuggling with Mistress. Happy to be hers.

New Southern Belles

It's so amusing to me that the once impolite males are now such polite pretty southern belles. Their hypnosis and training has gone very well. 

Quote

 Here's a quote I like...

Definition of a submissive

I read this online and thought it was a good definition of a submissive:

>"Get your terminology correct. DO NOT say you're a "sub" if you only want to serve on your terms.
If you wish to find a woman that you can worship, adore, love, sacrifice to, serve with honor and passion, belong to, offer your allegiance, give her your power in order to nourish her dominant spirit, and exist for the pleasure of said dominant woman with your own sacrifice for her pleasure bringing you joy in abundance, THEN you are a submissive."

A "do me sub" is not considered a real submissive to me. A "do me sub" when approaching a non-pro dominant woman foolishly is focused only on himself and tells her what he wants her to do to him and possibly when. He does not care about her needs and desires.

Show respect

 

You should be proud to be my sub. So show Me.

Compliments and comments received

I just noticed today that there were tons of comments made over many years that were awaiting approval to make live on my blog. So that a bit of a surprise because when I initially set up this blog, they would automatically post without my review or approval. Anyway I just approved alot of them. Thank you to those who commented on my blog posts and who wrote compliments to me and my mindset/thoughts. I appreciate the positive feedback. :)

Law of attraction and self talk

Here are some good points that I liked from an article I read on the law of attraction...

"The law of attraction: Whatever you hold in your mind on a consistent basis is exactly what you will experience in your life.” In short, what you focus on, you attract.

If you put negativity into the world, you’ll feel like you're living under a cloud. But if you practice gratitude and put positive energy into the world, you’ll attract positivity in return.

If you believe you are capable of achieving your dreams, you’re inspired to pursue those dreams. But if you believe you’re incapable, there will be no impetus to inspire you to action.

How to put it into practice...

IDENTIFY YOUR LIMITING BELIEFS

Beliefs are things you are certain about, whether about yourself, other people or the world.

Limiting beliefs are the stories we tell ourselves: “I’ve always been shy”, "I'm difficult" or “I’ll never learn to love working out.” They come from past experiences and results, your environment and the knowledge you’ve picked up over the years – and they affect every aspect of your life. Identifying them is the first step.

REWRITE YOUR STORY

“We will act consistently with our view of who we truly are, whether that view is accurate or not.” What we tell ourselves is what we believe.

Changing your self-talk is essential to learning how to use the law of attraction  – and also one of the hardest parts. In order to attract positivity, you must not only speak and act outwardly in a way that manifests your goals. The law of attraction starts within: You must stop negative patterns and truly believe in yourself.

SHIFT YOUR FOCUS

“Where focus goes, energy flows". Don’t focus on failures  – focus on the lesson you learned. Don’t focus on your past  – focus on all the potential your future holds.

CREATE HEALTHY HABITS

But how can you make sure your body and mind operate in peak state? You can start with goal visualization, meditation and gratitude – three practices of highly  successful people.

Visualizing your goals for 10 minutes each morning sets a positive and empowering tone for your day. Meditation can increase your mindfulness and help you find your center and focus your thoughts. And practicing gratitude helps you live in the moment and radiate positivity."

Smooth submissive

 

In my opinion, a sissy sub is best smooth shaven, in stockings and garters, and locked in a chastity device with Mistress holding the key. Her locked property ready to serve.

A chaste sissymaid making a nice dinner for Mistress.

Sissymaids should clean up afterwards, of course. Chores are for subs. Be useful. 

Kiss your Mistress' feet in gratitude for the chance to have served her. 

Chastity is your future

 

It's appropriate for sissy clitties to be all snug and locked away. Accept it.

"The only thing chastity takes away is access to your penis. In return, it gives arousal, contentment, confidence, makes feminity and submissiveness bloom, and lets you fully enjoy sex in the receptive role. All things you love. Is that really such a bad deal that you want to take off the cage?"

Forgiveness

 

Sissymaids

Here are some photos of sissymaids that I like...

Do as you're told.

Reviewing the sissymaid's look and curtsey.

Riding Mistress' strapon (after Mistress got turned on by the sissymaid bending over while cleaning in a short skirt.)

"Mmm...your ass is Mine, my sexy gurl."

Mistress and her sissy

 

A Mistress and her owned sissy sub. She's proud to own her sissy who has taken to her training very nicely and is a good gurl for her.

Blog tips

In 1 month, it will be the 12th Anniversary of My Femdom Blog. So I thought I would give a few tips on the blog.

1. If you click "web version" located at the bottom (instead of mobile version) then you can "follow" my blog, and also see the many categories of my blog. Example of categories: "Photos of my stuff" or "Black and white photo".

2. As of August 1, I believe email notification is discontinued by Blogger. But I believe following is still available.

3. If you like my blog posts then write comments on the specific posts you like. You can even write anonymously. Seeing comments helps me to want to post more. And also lets me know there's people out there reading them. 

My Vampiress story

 

An admirer asked me where to find my erotic vampiress story that I wrote in the past. It is on my Captured-males.com website. It is the 4th story on the page and is called "Dark Predator". Enjoy!

Sensual strapon lovemaking

Current mood: I'm feeling very sensual and feminine today. And I'm in the mood for some sensual strapon lovemaking. 

First connecting over a romantic meal together.

Then at home after dinner:

"I want you now. You ready?" 

"Yes, Goddess."

"That's good. Lick my femdom cock, my pet."

Finally inside him...slowly penetrating him and slowly moving in and out and enjoying the moment together. Moaning in pleasure together. 

This video clip is a good example of the sensual pegging I am in the mood to give today.