Crowns and fun weekend

A T-shirt I like...

Two pictures I took at Universal Studios' Mardi Gras event in Orlando during opening weekend. There was confetti in the air and they were throwing beads during the parade. 

I also went to a Disney art festival and saw this picture of the Queen of Hearts that I want:

I want to have an Alice in Wonderland themed femdom tea party one day. This would be good for the decor. You could bend over like the cards in the croquet game in the picture. Whack!

10 things subs crave

I read this below article and agree with it. 

"After more than 15 years in the kink world, and through hundreds of coaching sessions with submissives, couples, and Dominants, I’ve started to notice a pattern:

What subs say they want (spankings, cages, orgasm denial…) is often just the tip of the iceberg.

Beneath the fantasies are deeper emotional cravings: the need to be seen, held, controlled, reshaped.

These are the desires most submissives don’t post in their bios… but whisper to me when they finally feel safe.

So let’s bring them to light.

1) Structure, Ritual, and Rules

Being told what to do doesn’t feel like control, it feels like safety.

Rituals like kneeling, collaring, daily check-ins, or permission to cum aren’t just hot. They’re grounding.

They give the submissive a role to embody.

2) To Be Seen Beneath the Surface

Subs crave a Dominant who sees through the polite mask and into the raw, unfiltered self underneath.

Not just the fantasy, but the parts they hide from the world. The aching, hungry, yearning layers.

And accepts them all.

3) Consistency and Follow-Through

Say what you mean. Do what you say.

Dom drop is real, but so is sub disappointment.

Many subs quietly crave the kind of Dominant who doesn’t just show up for the scene, but shows up for them.

4) Attention: Real, Undivided Attention

Not just sexual.

Eye contact. Voice tone. Presence.

That feeling of being the only one in the room.

When a Dominant is fully present, it sends one clear message: “You matter to Me.”

5) A Little Mystery, a Lot of Control

Subs don’t want everything handed to them.

They want tension. Tease. Anticipation.

A glance that says “I know something you don’t.”

A tone that makes them squirm.

6) Permission to Let Go

Control is exhausting.

Out there in the world, subs lead, manage, handle everything.

But here, with You?

They want to drop it all.

To be handled, guided, taken care of, and taken.

7) Being Challenged, Not Just Indulged

Yes, subs want to be used.

But the deepest ones want to be reshaped.

They want to be trained. Conditioned. Transformed. To be held to a higher standard, and rewarded when they rise.

8) Psychological Play

It’s not just about bondage or pain. It’s the mindfuck. The whispered command. The slow build. The denial. The way you can make them squirm without ever touching them.

9) Intimacy Without Judgment

Subs crave vulnerability.

To share their darkest urges, their weirdest kinks, their strangest thoughts, and be met with curiosity, not shame. They want to feel safe in their filth.

10) Aftercare That Feels Real

Yes, even the toughest, filthiest, most pain-loving submissive wants to know you’ll catch them when they fall. The blanket. The kiss on the forehead. The “you were so good for me.”

Subs may crave degradation, but they need to feel valued.

Final Thought: (to dominant women)

Submissives may come to you for control, for fantasy, for kink. But the ones who stay?

They stay for the feeling of being understood.

Because when a Dominant learns how to speak to the unspoken needs…

That’s when obedience becomes devotion.

—by Oxa | Certified Sex Therapy coach".

I agree with her. I think males especially need structure and ability to feel vulnerable and understood. But it also goes both ways in that a lifestyle dominant female like me needs certain things first to inspire me into giving my energy and desire to someone. I'm not seeking a one time thing. I need time and the mental connection to help create desire and someone who I can trust fully and who is always respectful and wants to surrender and who can be reliable. Otherwise I get turned off and do not want to give my energy to someone not worthy. If you want me to give 100% then show up and give 100%. I do not give time and energy unless I think it's deserved. Character matters. Bring your best self.

-Mistress Lisa

A good submissive provides good service.

Coloring book on male subs

I got a new coloring book. It looks like useful male subs to me. So I love it! I believe males should be useful and productive.

Butt I believe I got the last one. 

It now says "out of print" on Amazon.

So I'm glad I got a copy of it.

Finger sandwiches for my future tea party

Sissy/cd subs and male subs would serve during my future tea party. As they have done in my several past Femdom tea parties I had years ago. Both I and one of my married femdom couples describe one of my many femdom tea parties in Elise Sutton's book "The Femdom Experience".

I'm gathering ideas for a future party. Ideas for plant-based Finger Sandwiches for subs to make for my future tea party:

Mediterranean Hummus and Veggie: Creamy hummus spread on whole grain bread, topped with cucumber slices, roasted red peppers, and fresh baby spinach.

Vegan "Chicken" Salad: Chopped mock chicken (made from plant-based protein), mixed with vegan mayo, celery, and spices, served on crustless white bread or in lettuce wraps.

Peanut Butter and Banana: Smooth peanut butter spread on whole wheat bread, layered with sliced bananas, and lightly drizzled with agave, cinnamon or maple syrup.

Grilled Vegetable Wrap: Grilled zucchini, eggplant, bell peppers, and sliced tomatoes wrapped in a whole wheat tortilla with a spread of vegan garlic aioli, cream cheese or hummus.

Cucumber and cream cheese: Thinly sliced cucumber with vegan chive cream cheese on vegan bread.

Curried Chickpea Salad: A flavorful blend of mashed chickpeas, vegan mayo, curry powder, and chopped veggies served on whole grain bread.

Roasted Vegetable and Pesto: Assorted roasted vegetables (such as zucchini, bell peppers, and eggplant) with a spread of vegan pesto on multigrain bread.

Caprese: Sliced tomatoes, vegan mozzarella, fresh basil leaves, and a drizzle of balsamic glaze on ciabatta bread.

Vegan chickpea "egg salad": mashed chickpeas, vegan mayo, celery, onion, mustard, dill, Indian black salt, and pepper on white bread.

Or Vegan Tofu "Egg" Salad: Tofu crumbles mixed with vegan mayo, Dijon mustard, and diced vegetables served on whole grain bread.

Vegan chickpea "tuna salad": mashed chickpeas, vegan mayo, mustard, chopped pickles, lemon juice, red onion, and dill on bread.

Avocado and Sprouts: Sliced avocado, fresh sprouts, and a squeeze of lemon juice on whole grain bread.

Vegan BLT: Smoky tempeh bacon, lettuce, tomato slices, and vegan mayo on toasted bread.

Pesto, cucumber, tomato and avocado on bread.

I'll later pick about 3 or 4 of these ideas. But if anyone has other ideas for food then let me know.

Women's History Month

Women's History Month is an annual celebration in March that honors the contributions of women to history, culture, and society. It began as a week-long observance in 1978 and was officially designated as a month-long celebration in the U.S. in 1987.

These are just some of the things by women. 

Imagine your life without these inventions. 

Women should be celebrated. 

I think we should have Women's history month celebration festivals.

(Some art I created with AI)

The deletion of Women

Vanilla topic but important:

The Trump administration is trying to erase women. They're removing the words "women", "female" and others from government websites, documents, and called for discontinued use in many federal places, including in public school curriculum. And they're removing posts and photos of women, gays, blacks and others in the military, from historical to today. And health information for women has been deleted online. (And in case you don't know, DEI benefits white women the most and he is anti-DEI.)

Read:

https://thestoryexchange.org/the-trump-administrations-ongoing-effort-to-literally-erase-women/

https://apnews.com/article/dei-purge-images-pentagon-diversity-women-black-8efcfaec909954f4a24bad0d49c78074

Also, "women", "female" and others are among the many words no longer allowed in contracts and grants.

From a program officer at the National Science Foundation, a list of keywords that can cause a grant to be pulled. This is a crisis for freedom of speech, academic freedom & science:

They're basically saying that unless you're a straight white male, you do not exist or matter. Elon also supported the far right Nazi group in Germany and he recently admitted he wants to eliminate Social Security. And Trump wants to steal other countries' land and eliminate the Department of Education. Project 2025 wants all women to be pregnant instead of going to school. And they want to defund public schools. And get rid of FEMA disaster relief. 

What can be done to combat the Trump/Musk administration in the future? 

1) Protest and/or spread the truth.

2) Call Congress. To call your Congress representative and/or see the latest issues to fight for, download the app or use the website at 5calls.org

3) Boycott companies that are anti-DEI or who support Trump or Musk. (Example: Use Bluesky instead of X/Twitter)

4) Right now, the Republican party has majority control of the House and Senate in Congress and whatever Trump wants is being done. So democrats need to regain majority control over the House of Representatives to stand up to Trump and not let more Project 2025 things be implemented. So support the 2 democrat candidates who are running in the April 1st election in Florida that could flip Congress.

https://secure.actblue.com/donate/vwsplit-fbig

DEI programs benefit white Women mostly, but also disabled Americans, LGBTQ+ people, veterans, and all black and brown people.

Some companies that support DEI are Ben & Jerry's, Ulta Beauty, E.l.f cosmetics, Costco, Delta, NFL, Adobe, Kroger, Dollar Tree, Moe’s Southwest Grill, McAlister’s Deli, Auntie Anne’s, Jamba Juice, and Cinnabon.

Women's Day starts Women ruling

Today is International Women's Day!

Due to International Women's Day and the reality of what's been happening in the world led mostly by men, the women of the world have decided that the long period of patriarchy is over. Women will now rule!

You will be contacted by one of our female agents and be assigned a dominant female to govern you and train you. You will serve her and call her Goddess.

Girl scouts enforcement

It's girl scout cookie season. What do you mean you didn't buy some cookies yet? You must need some encouragement!

Femdom marriage

If you had a chance to have a Femdom marriage, would you take it? (The best marriages I've seen have been femdom marriages.)

New Year's Resolutions

Do you have any New Year's resolutions?

Be disciplined and think about implementing new goals into your life in 2025. 

Some ideas:

-Explore a new craft or skill.

-Try a new plant-based recipe or food every month. Example: try plant-based sushi, burrito or tacos. (My Pinterest board has recipes.)

-Crossdress more.

-Try new styles. Try wearing something new.

-Read more books. 

-Learn a new language.

-Start a journal. 

-Try a cleaning schedule. (Example from Good Housekeeping)

-Exercise more outside, such as take walks.

-Volunteer or donate to the needy. 

-Comment on this blog more to show appreciation.

-Each day, try to do a random act of kindness. ("Each morning, set an intention to perform one act of kindness. It could be as simple as sharing a compliment, offering your seat on public transport, or sending an encouraging message. Reflect on how this act made you feel and the response it elicited.")

-Drink more water and less other stuff.

-Read or say positive affirmations often. 

For more ideas, see Good Housekeeping's 65 achievable new year's resolutions.

Surrender to Me

Some things I like...

Relationship iceberg

I'm seeking it all. The stuff below the surface is harder to find but I have patience for the right relationship. 

Not your body

Unfortunately in Florida, the extreme 6 week abortion ban was not overturned. So now women still have no control over their reproductive health of their bodies. Women with miscarriages and other pregnancy problems where the fetus isn't viable will still be denied an abortion to save their life or health. So since women can't have control over their reproductive health, then males shouldn't have that either. Mandatory vasectomies and also denial of prostate cancer screenings and treatments for all U.S. males would likely give a similar feeling as women are feeling but still not as extreme as women's lives & health being unexpectedly put in jeopardy quickly. 

Register to vote

Monday October 7 is the last day to register to vote in the U.S. so make sure you're registered. 

And then vote on or before November 5. I'm supporting Kamala Harris to be the first female president. It's about time we had a female president. Choose the prosecutor over the felon. Choose democracy over dictatorship. 

Watch the 10 worst things about the past Trump presidency: 

And Trump's vice president JD Vance has said that women in violent abusive marriages should stay in their marriages. And Vance believes that America's universities should be closed down and the properties should be sold to developers, and non-religious American businesses and culture should be "ripped out like a tumor" and they should install "political religion" and have a dictatorship. 

Save our democracy. Support Kamala Harris for president. You can read about her plan by clicking HERE. 

(Many celebrities such as Oprah, Taylor Swift, Willie Nelson, the Obamas, the Clintons, Jimmy Carter, Stevie Wonder, Mark Hamill of Star Wars, Spike Lee, George Clooney, Jennifer Lawrence, Pink, John Legend, Sally Field, Glen Close, Martha Stewart, Billie Eilish, Jennifer Aniston, Julia Roberts, and more celebrities, plus top military officials and over 40 of Trump's past top advisors from his first term support Harris for president.)

Matriarchy

 

Honor Her and show your submission.

Belong to Her.

Women should rule.

Paris Olympics 2024

The Paris Olympics start today. Athletes will start travelling in boats down the Seine River starting at 1:30 pm EST. 

In a historic first, half of the athletes at the Olympics will be female. About 5,000 women. And during the last Olympics, more women won metals than males. 

I also like their logo since it looks like a woman or a flame. 

Links:

-A list of American athletes competing by sport.

(I didn't know breakdancing was a sport. And it looks like there's only one athlete for the sport of rhythmic gymnastics. She's on Aug 8-10 in am.)

-Olympics schedule 

My femdom post about a past Olympics:

-Taken after the Olympics

My Blog Anniversary

It's my 14 year blog anniversary! Congrats to Me. And so far, my Femdom blog has 1,994,359 page views. (Almost 2 million views.)

(Ps- A virtual party will be coming)

Barbie and Ken

 

"Follow me into my dream house, Ken."

"Barbie, what are you doing?"

"I told you, Ken, this is my Barbie dream house and everything has to have Barbie pink including you! Don't worry...I'll make you pretty. I have lots of good outfits for you. Oh I found one that'll look great on you."

"Try it on, Ken. You know you want to. Don't you want to look fabulous for me?"

"Yes, Barbie."

And that's how "My First Crossdressing Ken" became the next Ken doll sold in stores and went on to inspire more boys to crossdress and some girls to grow up wanting to crossdress males:

(Do you wish this Ken doll really existed?)

Goddess Athena and Parthenon

The ancient Greek building in Athens, Greece called the Parthenon lay in ruins today due to the Venetians and what was a huge gold statue of Goddess Athena that was inside is completely gone. And most of the sculptures on the actual building were taken without Greek permission and then sold to the British Museum in London. And the British museum refuses to give them back to Greece. All of this is a tragedy. 

But luckily today we can see a full size replica of the Parthenon and the huge gold Athena statue that is now in Nashville Tennessee. It is the only thing in the world like this. Here's a video I found of it.

It would have been a wonderful place to witness the Goddess Athena in the real Parthenon in Athens. 

In ancient Greece, Athena was the goddess of wisdom, courage, inspiration, civilization, law and justice, strategic warfare, science, literature, mathematics, strength, strategy, the arts, crafts and skill. Athena was also considered the protectress of cities and was especially associated with Athens, her patron city where she had her own temple dedicated to her.

By the way, you'll see depictions of Medusa on her and her shield. Athena created Medusa (with her cursed snake hair who could turn people into stone by looking at her) in order to protect Medusa from violent males such as Poseidon. And Athena put Medusa on her shield to scare opponents. She is also said to be the creator of spiders and turned someone into a spider. She's very powerful. Don't mess with Goddess Athena. 

Athena is one of the most major and powerful goddesses in the Greek pantheon:

-She has eternal youth and immortality and is incapable of dying like all major gods.

-She does not require sleep.

-She is immune to any diseases or illnesses.

-Athena is the smartest and most knowledgeable person on Mount Olympus.

-Like Artemis, Athena is extremely resourceful. Athena has many talents, such as weaving, making ceramics and sword fighting to name a few.

-Athena is extremely lucky and wins nearly all competitions she takes part in.

-Athena is one of the greatest deities when it comes to casting spells.

-Athena, like Hera, has a psychic connection towards others.

-She is telepathic.

-Athena can morph surroundings with her mind.

-Athena is also immune to Aphrodite's powers of making people fall in love or lust after others.

-She can bless and curse people however she chooses.

-She can shapeshift.

-She can change the forms of mortals.

-She was also responsible for breathing life into humans. Turning Prometheus' clay figure of a man made of mud into a living being.

-She is a divine teacher, examples being when helped Heracles, Perseus, Theseus and Bellerophon slay monsters.

-As the wise goddess of warfare she always helps her father, Zeus deal with his enemies and is a formidable opponent in battle.

-She is said to have equal power and talent to Zeus. 

-Athena also guards Zeus' divine weapon, the thunderbolt, which she can also wield herself.

Game ideas for my carnival

I'm full of ideas. One is to have my own kinky carnival in my home one day. So I'm documenting some ideas for it. 

I came across this below image that looked fun for a game...

I already own the below prize carnival wheel with 8 spots too:

Spin the wheel and meet your fate!

And now onto the next game...

Target practice for me

And then advanced target practice

And another game idea...

A fun ring toss game where ladies have a contest to see how many rings they can throw on it while a male crawls with that butt plug in. It's a travelling ring toss.

Or a dildo ring toss...

You could be a unicorn. I can imagine male subs and sissies serving food and drinks while also being unicorns.

Or serving tacos.

Happy Taco Tuesday.....for your butt! Lol.

Taco holder butt plug. 

Because all carnivals have to have snacks.

Lol.

And body art areas such as...

I have glow-in-the-day wax play colors

And I have glow-in-the-dark body paints and crayons...

I can turn you into whatever I want.

You're now a zebra. You're welcome.