Things important to me

Things important to me in a relationship:

-Obedience from a submissive. (If a sub says no, or whines about a task I have set, or procrastinates on a task I gave, the sub chips away at the very foundation that makes the relationship strong, that makes us us.)
-That a sub be happy in the relationship (If he's not happy serving me then why serve? I'd rather have someone who loves serving me and not do anything to mess that up. If I am with a sub, he must remember that I have chosen him out of many admirers.)
-Loyalty. (Ideally when a sub bows before me, I want to consider him a precious gift...the gift of giving himself totally to me)
-Trust. (vitally important. Me of him and him of me.)
-Honesty and Communication. (The basis of everything.)
-Attraction. (If there is none in a relationship then why bother? I am looking for attraction, love, romance, and passion/intensity.)
-Thoughtfulness. (I want someone who will remember me on my birthday and holidays. Those are important to me. Someone who takes time to plan something special in advance in order to help make me smile...even if it is a homemade gift. The time spent is important. It's the thought that counts.)
-Politeness. (someone who says please or thank you. Especially if I give him something. Someone who always replies to my questions or comments as soon as he can.)
-An emotional connection. And admiring similiarities and respecting differences in traits.
-Playfulness/fun.

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Halloween is my favorite holiday and I've been very busy transforming my home into a haunted house for Halloween by decorating many rooms in a different theme. So check back later on this site. I probably won't be posting until after Halloween. And have a happy halloween, everyone! -Mistress Lisa.
P.S.- You could always look through the 585 past posts of mine in the meantime.
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