Her sissy sub

 A photo I like...

I love it when Mistress touches me. Her touch excites me. I love it when she feminizes me and treats me like her gurl and her property. I'm so lucky.

A couple's date night

The couple enjoy a lovely evening out.

Then back at home, he submits to her.

Respect

Show some respect. 

I like seeing you at my feet being humble and submissive to me.

Loving arms

A tender moment and a loving embrace

Love can exist between a dominant woman and a submissive male. In fact, I believe that a loving Female-led relationship with a mixture of bdsm, romance, and everyday vanilla activities together is the best. 

You want someone who can accept, love and encourage both sides of you: your bdsm and your regular everyday self.

He's taken

"Good boy. Hold your legs open so I can slide my fem cock deep into you, my little slut. You'll take it for me."

Surrender

 

Her submissive.

Let go of the tough side you may show to the world and instead surrender to me in my arms. Just relax and let go. I want to see your vulnerability and submission. It is a treasure to me. 

Suddenly bound for her

 

"Yes, just as I thought...he'll do nicely. Put him in the van, boys. I'll train him to my liking. Mmm...I can't wait to see my marks across his back and hear him whimper. Soon he will recognize his place."

Snuggling

 

Snuggling with Mistress. Happy to be hers.

Forceful strapon wife

 "Stay right there. I have a surprise for your pretty little mouth".

"It's nice to be able to shove my femdom cock into
my slave's mouth after a long hard day. Take it, bitch!"

Her boy

I love black and white photos like this that show male submission.

Closeness

he belongs to Her.

At peace in her arms.

Submission

Happy Sensual Saturday

It's sensual Saturday. Here are some photos of some sensual kisses that I like...

Karma

I've been admiring black and white photos lately. Here's a photo I like...

"The Lotus flower symbolically represents karma in many Asian traditions. A blooming lotus flower is one of the few flowers that simultaneously carries seeds inside itself while it blooms. Seed is symbolically seen as cause, the flower effect. Lotus is also considered as a reminder that one can grow, share good karma and remain unstained even in muddy circumstances."

"Karma: means action, work or deed; it also refers to the principle of causality where intent and actions of an individual influence the future of that individual. Good intent and good deed contribute to good karma and future happiness, while bad intent and bad deed contribute to bad karma and future suffering."-wikipedia.

Her newly acquired pet

Here are some black and white photos I like...

She found a way to get whatever she liked, including him.

"Kneel for your collar, my new pet.
You belong to Me now."

"Stay! Good boy.

You may look at my feet but don't touch.

First, I will explain your new place in life.

I have decided to take you for my own now. You exist to live a life of service and to constantly hard work to see to it that your Owner, Me, is always satisfied. As a male, you should understand that your true pleasure in life is the pleasure of knowing you have pleased, obeyed and served a Woman such as Myself. And not just to My standards, but above them. I expect the absolute best service. And you will be punished harshly if I do not get it."   "Now kiss My feet if you understand and accept your place."

"Yes, Mistress, I am yours." (kiss)

Pinup girl photoshoot

The next event we're having for the kinky ladies group I co-lead is a photoshoot for creating a classic pinup girl look. Should be fun. I'm going to see if I can channel my inner Bettie Page and other pinups.

Challenge for crossdressers: Use a search engine such as Google.com to search for the words "pinup girl" and look for interesting poses you would like to be in.

Integrating your worlds in a partner

I found this quote online...

I find that the best relationships are the ones where both the vanilla side and bdsm side are integrated. Basically the best of both worlds. Someone you respect, care for, love and can be open with and share your secret bdsm life with. I believe that's the best way for a happy fulfilled life. In fact, the best examples I've seen of great long term relationships have been those friends I've known in loving female-led marriages or relationships. They share a close bond, love, happiness and openness.

I recently read something from a male sub online that is an example of this. He wrote:

"I think age, emotional maturity and self acceptance takes time to develop. I know when I was younger I kept the two worlds completely apart.(bdsm and romantic/vanilla). I was ashamed of my submissive side. I was vanilla in relationships but when I would get single I would visit pro dommes. Eventually going to a professional lost its appeal because its not the activity that I crave, it's the power exchange which occurs between two people who matter to each other. As time went by I began to accept my sexuality for what it is and my two sexual worlds integrated. I became more whole. After that when I would start a relationship I would be open and honest with the women I dated and almost all were willing to play. The real challenge was find a woman who was naturally dominant who wasn't just trying to please me. (someone not faking it and pretending to be domme because I said that's what I want.)"

"Now that I have finally found my Goddess I feel complete and fulfilled. When she humiliates me or causes me pain, I take for her. When I am allowed to to pleasure my Goddess I can show my absolute adoration of her through my actions. I have surrendered to her and our relationship. This has brought me a freedom and power that I have never known. It is an intimacy that I have never experienced. We also comfort, love and respect each other. These are not mutually exclusive and as a matter of fact I need to be connected on a deep emotional level for my submission to mean anything. I am now lucky enough to worship the woman I love and she both owns and loves me." -a male submissive.

Her special slut

Current mood: Horny to strapon fuck and also wanting to kiss.

"Give it up to Me, my little whore. Satisfy My desires."

Drink from Me

A collared slave drinking the golden nectar of his new Owner.

Related link:

-Collar and its meaning.

Captured and raped slaveboy

"Ssshhh...you are My captured slave now and that's all that needs to be said. You will give Me pleasure. I have captured you fairly. You are now Mine to do with as I please. There is no escaping. All of the doors are locked tight and my bodyguard is guarding the front door. So just shut your pretty little mouth and do as you're told."

"This is Mine too. I have watched you for awhile now and I want it."

"You are an instrument of my pleasure now, slaveboy.

Start slow and don't cum or you will be whipped severely."

"Yes, Mistress", he replies.

"Now it's My turn. Open up your tight hole

and take my strapon cock like a good whore.

Every part of you is Mine. Oh, you'll learn to like it."

With more training, he became the perfect slave for his Mistress, and learned to love his place. It was like he was meant to serve Her.