Easter

 

Happy Easter, my peeps!

Beyond Leather 2026

I'm excited. I just signed up for the Beyond Leather bdsm conference that starts April 30. And I got an Airbnb home with a kitchen and private outdoor lounge area and that's less expensive than the host hotel and looks nicer.

It'll be my 10th time going to this event. I skipped last year because the bdsm classes looked the same, but I went in 2024. It should be fun.

There is always something for everyone:

50 Workshop Choices (bdsm classes)

27,000 sq ft of event space (including dungeon)

DAY and Night Steamy Play Hotness

3 Nights Hospitality Delights (free snacks)

Thursday Speed Perving

Thursday Meet Presenters & Contestants

Thursday Pre-Beat Meet & Greet w/Marilyn Z

Friday IPE Contest Fantasy & Presentations

International Power Exchange Contest

Saturday FORMAL DINNER (meal plan required)

Friday Night Cigar and Chocolate Social 

Rope Theater

Lube Wrestling Theater (always funny)

Burlesque Theater 

Fire Theater

Sunday Littles & Pet Play (with coloring books)

Sunday Pool Party and BBQ

https://beyondleather.net

A Kinky Valentines

Happy Valentine's Day!

You're bound to be Mine. You're bound to be a good sissy for me. 

You have to wear red or pink today. It's the law. ;)

Roses are red

Your cheeks will be too

Once I'm finished spanking 

and strapon fucking you.

Happy Valentine's Day. You're Mine!

Crowns and fun weekend

A T-shirt I like...

Two pictures I took at Universal Studios' Mardi Gras event in Orlando during opening weekend. There was confetti in the air and they were throwing beads during the parade. 

I also went to a Disney art festival and saw this picture of the Queen of Hearts that I want:

I want to have an Alice in Wonderland themed femdom tea party one day. This would be good for the decor. You could bend over like the cards in the croquet game in the picture. Whack!

Happy Labor Day

4th of July

Happy 4th of July!

"Independence Day, in the United States, is the annual celebration of nationhood held on July 4. It commemorates the passage of the Declaration of Independence by the Continental Congress on July 4, 1776. This document announced the separation of the 13 North American colonies from Great Britain. In 1870 the U.S. Congress made Independence Day an unpaid holiday for federal workers, and in 1938 it became a paid federal holiday. Also called the Fourth of July, the holiday is celebrated across the United States with parades, fireworks shows, picnics, concerts, and other festivities. Independence Day is also notable for its displays of patriotism, as many Americans commemorate the day by flying the American flag and dressing in the flag’s colors of red, white, and blue."

Birthday Month

Hooray!... It's my birthday month. 

It's time to give out birthday spankings!

Whaaack! 

Related link:

-My Amazon wishlist.

National LGBTQ Pride Month

Happy LGBTQ Pride Month! — a time to honor the history, resilience, and vibrant diversity of the LGBTQ community. It’s a celebration of love, identity, and the ongoing fight for equality. From parades and protests to quiet moments of reflection, Pride is about being seen, being heard, and being unapologetically yourself.

Whether you’re in the LGBTQ community or an ally, this month is for you. Stand proud. Stand together. Love is love. 

Be authentic. Be you.

Related:

-The Smithsonian American Art Museum's LGBTQ pride family zone page

Finger sandwiches for my future tea party

Sissy/cd subs and male subs would serve during my future tea party. As they have done in my several past Femdom tea parties I had years ago. Both I and one of my married femdom couples describe one of my many femdom tea parties in Elise Sutton's book "The Femdom Experience".

I'm gathering ideas for a future party. Ideas for plant-based Finger Sandwiches for subs to make for my future tea party:

Mediterranean Hummus and Veggie: Creamy hummus spread on whole grain bread, topped with cucumber slices, roasted red peppers, and fresh baby spinach.

Vegan "Chicken" Salad: Chopped mock chicken (made from plant-based protein), mixed with vegan mayo, celery, and spices, served on crustless white bread or in lettuce wraps.

Peanut Butter and Banana: Smooth peanut butter spread on whole wheat bread, layered with sliced bananas, and lightly drizzled with agave, cinnamon or maple syrup.

Grilled Vegetable Wrap: Grilled zucchini, eggplant, bell peppers, and sliced tomatoes wrapped in a whole wheat tortilla with a spread of vegan garlic aioli, cream cheese or hummus.

Cucumber and cream cheese: Thinly sliced cucumber with vegan chive cream cheese on vegan bread.

Curried Chickpea Salad: A flavorful blend of mashed chickpeas, vegan mayo, curry powder, and chopped veggies served on whole grain bread.

Roasted Vegetable and Pesto: Assorted roasted vegetables (such as zucchini, bell peppers, and eggplant) with a spread of vegan pesto on multigrain bread.

Caprese: Sliced tomatoes, vegan mozzarella, fresh basil leaves, and a drizzle of balsamic glaze on ciabatta bread.

Vegan chickpea "egg salad": mashed chickpeas, vegan mayo, celery, onion, mustard, dill, Indian black salt, and pepper on white bread.

Or Vegan Tofu "Egg" Salad: Tofu crumbles mixed with vegan mayo, Dijon mustard, and diced vegetables served on whole grain bread.

Vegan chickpea "tuna salad": mashed chickpeas, vegan mayo, mustard, chopped pickles, lemon juice, red onion, and dill on bread.

Avocado and Sprouts: Sliced avocado, fresh sprouts, and a squeeze of lemon juice on whole grain bread.

Vegan BLT: Smoky tempeh bacon, lettuce, tomato slices, and vegan mayo on toasted bread.

Pesto, cucumber, tomato and avocado on bread.

I'll later pick about 3 or 4 of these ideas. But if anyone has other ideas for food then let me know.

National wig out day

Today 5/23 is National Wig Out Day. 

"National Wig Out Day was created in 2009 by sisters Kate and Alice Clark, the holiday went from a hometown celebration to a nationally-celebrated event. Residents of Bellingham, Washington were convinced to wear weird, crazy-looking wigs during the holiday’s first celebration."

Wear a crazy wig 

Or 

Pick out any new wig you want to try.

Cinco de Mayo party

Happy Cinco de Mayo! Party time! 🎉 

I made burritos with refried beans, jalapeno crema, salsa, cashew cheese and brown rice quinoa blend.

And you're the entertainment: a pinata to beat.

Sissy Easter bunny

It's not too late to be the Easter bunny. Lol. In fact, lots of bunny ears are on sale. Time to dress up.

A caged bunny 

(caged in chastity)

Transgender day of visibility

Today is Transgender Day of Visibility - a day to celebrate and support the transgender community.

Visibility is powerful – every transgender person deserves to be seen, heard, and live authentically in a world free from fear, discrimination and violence. And have the freedom to live how they want and be happy. 

Women's History Month

Women's History Month is an annual celebration in March that honors the contributions of women to history, culture, and society. It began as a week-long observance in 1978 and was officially designated as a month-long celebration in the U.S. in 1987.

These are just some of the things by women. 

Imagine your life without these inventions. 

Women should be celebrated. 

I think we should have Women's history month celebration festivals.

(Some art I created with AI)

The deletion of Women

Vanilla topic but important:

The Trump administration is trying to erase women. They're removing the words "women", "female" and others from government websites, documents, and called for discontinued use in many federal places, including in public school curriculum. And they're removing posts and photos of women, gays, blacks and others in the military, from historical to today. And health information for women has been deleted online. (And in case you don't know, DEI benefits white women the most and he is anti-DEI.)

Read:

https://thestoryexchange.org/the-trump-administrations-ongoing-effort-to-literally-erase-women/

https://apnews.com/article/dei-purge-images-pentagon-diversity-women-black-8efcfaec909954f4a24bad0d49c78074

Also, "women", "female" and others are among the many words no longer allowed in contracts and grants.

From a program officer at the National Science Foundation, a list of keywords that can cause a grant to be pulled. This is a crisis for freedom of speech, academic freedom & science:

They're basically saying that unless you're a straight white male, you do not exist or matter. Elon also supported the far right Nazi group in Germany and he recently admitted he wants to eliminate Social Security. And Trump wants to steal other countries' land and eliminate the Department of Education. Project 2025 wants all women to be pregnant instead of going to school. And they want to defund public schools. And get rid of FEMA disaster relief. 

What can be done to combat the Trump/Musk administration in the future? 

1) Protest and/or spread the truth.

2) Call Congress. To call your Congress representative and/or see the latest issues to fight for, download the app or use the website at 5calls.org

3) Boycott companies that are anti-DEI or who support Trump or Musk. (Example: Use Bluesky instead of X/Twitter)

4) Right now, the Republican party has majority control of the House and Senate in Congress and whatever Trump wants is being done. So democrats need to regain majority control over the House of Representatives to stand up to Trump and not let more Project 2025 things be implemented. So support the 2 democrat candidates who are running in the April 1st election in Florida that could flip Congress.

https://secure.actblue.com/donate/vwsplit-fbig

DEI programs benefit white Women mostly, but also disabled Americans, LGBTQ+ people, veterans, and all black and brown people.

Some companies that support DEI are Ben & Jerry's, Ulta Beauty, E.l.f cosmetics, Costco, Delta, NFL, Adobe, Kroger, Dollar Tree, Moe’s Southwest Grill, McAlister’s Deli, Auntie Anne’s, Jamba Juice, and Cinnabon.

National Barbie Day

Yesterday, March 9, was the anniversary of Barbie's creation.

"The history of National Barbie Day is the history of Barbie herself as the day marks her official birthday. Barbie debuted on March 9, 1959 at the American International Toy Fair in New York. She was a labor of love from Ruth Handler who was the wife of the co-founder of the toy giant Mattel, Inc. After watching children playing with baby dolls and paper dolls, she thought that the toy market needed something more."

Now there are alot of Barbies, including dolls for 250 different jobs. 

Here's the official music video for the "Dance the night" song from the Barbie movie. 

I might host a Barbie party next year where people can dress up in pink or dress up as any Barbie.