Mrs. Claus' sissies

While Santa is away,  Mrs. Claus' is busy with her sissies.

Maybe this holiday, Mrs. Claus will dress you up and you can serve her cookies and milk.

ICE in Florida

Hooray...I found the Grinch's hideout in Florida. 

My little minions tracked him down. :)

He stole Christmas and then I stole it back. So Christmas and the Grinch is at my place now. You're welcome. Now go find a festive outfit. :) 

Wrap up your packages

My decorated Christmas tree in the Grinch and Whoville theme:

I like my Grinch/Whoville tree this year.

Be good this year.

Be sure to remember to wrap up your packages this year and put up your stockings. Lol. 

Festive time

Current mood: naughty festive mood.

I'm going to a kinky holiday party tonight and everyone is welcome to bring bdsm toys for a show and tell, or demo. (I picked out my holiday outfit and toy already. What are you wearing? I have a few ideas.)

Dressed in secret

"Ooh...Look at you. I love when you’re dressed up like this for me, especially when you wear it under your work clothes. Only you and I know, and it excites you to have a secret that the whole rest of the world doesn't know of. No need to be nervous right now, you’re so sexy. I love coming home to you dressed all sexy for me."

Funnies on toys

I thought these were funny...

Caning

Current mood: stern and sadistic.

My photo of some of my canes. Several of them are from a local friend who is a popular cane maker. One of my favorites is the Whangee cane in the middle with several notches because it stings alot. 

Here is a photo below of the Whangee cane being used by a Belgian domme.

She's caning him with the Whangee cane in an authentic medieval dungeon, which is part of the Fetish Cafe in the historical center of Antwerp, Belgium.

"Come in. I know the perfect spot for you."

(That's another photo of that same medieval dungeon in Belgium.)

Worship

A goddess and her devoted adoring sissy

Some people say that Monday is a hard day but I think if you do these types of coffee breaks then it's different and much better.

Why Worry

A music video I have always liked...

Sylver - Why Worry (official music video)

And a photo I like:

You belong to Me.

Benefits of getting spanked

Many people believe that if someone likes to get spanked, it is all sexual. That is not true in many cases. Even though getting spanked has some sexual effects or enhances sexual arousal, there are many non-sexual benefits from getting spanked. 

1. Getting spanked provides discipline, direction and correction.

2. Getting spanked relieves stress. It can help relieve built up emotions. (This can be for the male being spanked and for the woman who is spanking him.)

3. Getting spanked can generate endorphins and can put you in a euphoric state.

4. Getting spanked can generate adrenaline and can give an adrenaline rush, especially if you are getting a very harsh paddling.

5. Getting spanked changes your mood. 

6. Getting spanked is a great activity for bonding. Spanking can help create physical and mental closeness.

7. Getting spanked can restore feelings of youth.

8. Getting spanked can create a feeling of accomplishment, like you were man enough to take a very painful spanking.

9. Getting spanked adds focus and clarity to your life. It keeps you grounded and humble. (I think all males should be spanked regularly.)

10. The marks left by a spanking can be an art of its own. Spanking can leave an impression.

11. Spanking can help relieve conflict sometimes and clear the air with the woman and help set the male on the right path again. The path to refocus on her and behave better.

12. In one study, spanking made people smarter. Their memory improved during tests.

13. Spankings can create memorable times together.

So spanking has many benefits. And I bet you're long overdue for a spanking.

Have you had your spanking today, sissy?

I have many implements to spank with.

And I also enjoy giving an over the knee spanking with my hand... the more intimate hands-on approach and closeness. 

The source of some text is below, but I edited it above and added to it.

SpanksGiving

I hope everyone had a Happy Thanksgiving SpanksGiving!

Bend over now!

Afterwards it's ThanksGiving time.

He's my personal slut

Here's some strapon drawings that I thought are sexy. As for the act, I love the intimate connection/closeness and pleasure of it all.

My submissive slut to take however I want.

Her sissy sub

 A photo I like...

I love it when Mistress touches me. Her touch excites me. I love it when she feminizes me and treats me like her gurl and her property. I'm so lucky.

CD Funnies

Some crossdressing funnies...

True. They started it. Lol.

The solution to ANY problem?

Okay, all, you heard it. Now implement it. Lol.

I did grow up watching Bugs Bunny and saw him crossdress more than once. We need more cartoons like that.

True for several people. But I guess people in the middle are super thin. People must be jealous.

Crossdressing and religion

Today I accidentally came across a Christian religion website that said that crossdressing is a sin and women should tell their man that they do not want him to do it. That the Bible says for people not to crossdress because it's an abomination. I guess I should never wear pants or I'm going to hell. Lol. The Bible was written by many males over a long time, was trying to suppress people and it's not fact. Even biblical historical researchers say this. In parts of it, it also encourages stoning people to death and condones the rape of women. Alot of hate, wars, and violence have been done because of idiots citing religious reasons. 

I do not think that women should say that their man is sinful and should stop expressing himself. I think more women should support and encourage the softer feminine side of him. And putting on fabrics that look and feel good and help make a person happy is not a sin.

In support of crossdressing, here's some photos of loving couples where the male is crossdressing and the woman supports and encourages it:

Enjoy exploring your feminine side.

Whether a male crossdressed on his own or I make him crossdress for me, it is not a sin. It's fun and sexy. And I love crossdressing a male and shopping for sexy feminine things for him to wear. It makes me happy.

Link on religion:

- George Carlin talks briefly on religion.

Queen to adore

There is no question of MY place, 

you simply have to know yours.

Kneel and honor your Queen. 

Always be open, loyal, honest, useful, obedient, consistent, reliable, polite, kind, and understand it's a privilege to serve me. Know that you are submissive and serving will bring you some fulfillment before contacting me. Show me that you want to please me and that you value me. 

Can you relinquish control, strive to obey and please? The more unselfish and submissive you are to me, the more attractive you become.

(Note: The photo of me is from 2010 but I do not look that different.)

Gifts received

Thank you to the secret admirer who sent me the Fetish boots that I had listed on my Amazon wishlist. I like them alot. They look great and are surprisingly comfortable. 

And thank you to the foreign admirer who made my name out of watermelon hearts. It's a very nice and thoughtful gesture. :)

Artistic side

My artistic side meets your reddened side.

I expect anyone in my life to understand that I'm an artist at heart and need to express myself when I have the desire to. It makes me happy. 

By the way, long ago back in a college art class, one of my male figure drawing teachers said something like "It's too bad you don't have a guy at home always kept in your studio so you can draw him everyday. You'd become a master artist." This above image reminds me of that. (I think that helped fuel my imagination of kidnapping a male back then.)

Holiday time

It has begun. Halloween decorations are coming down and Grinchmas decorations are going up. I want to do a fun Grinchmas/Whoville party for my kinky friends this year. I did one many years ago in 2013 and they loved it and so did I.

Naughty is the new nice this year, 

according to the Grinch.

But this year I want to have lots of green food. If anyone has ideas then let me know your thoughts. 

Daylight savings time

Daylight savings time ends at 2am on Sunday. 

That means we get an extra hour in bed.

At 1:45am, she tells him "You can handle it, my little slut. I'm just going to peg you until 2:01am". 

(But he doesn't know that at 2:00am, clocks go back an hour and become 1:00am. Cell phones automatically change the time. He's in for more than he expected. Lol.)

"I'm not done yet. It's only 1am."

Service oriented submission

A good article to read...

"Service Submission: What does service submission really mean? By female sub LunaKM.

"Service is any activity or function that you fill to make your dominant partner's life easier. This could be as simple as preparing their coffee, laying out their clothes for them or performing domestic chores."

"Service....While it's quite clear that the definition means that we are helping or doing work for someone, performing a kindness or favor, when we apply that term to D/s it tends to take on a more indepth role. Service, to me, definitely means I'm doing something for my Dominant partner, something that they find important to have fulfilled and have given me that honor to perform."

For alot more of her articles to read on service submission:

https://submissiveguide.com/skills/series/series-service-submission

For a male sub's perspective, "Some thoughts on domestic service from a male submissive":

https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/some-thoughts-on-domestic-service