Happy Halloween

I love Halloween since it's a chance to bring out costumes, decorations and creativity. Here's a photo of my kitchen stove on halloween one year in the past when I decorated each room of my home in a different theme and had a femdom party. The kitchen was a Witch's kitchen with an unusual, slithering supper being cooked up. =) Mmm...looks good, doesn't it?

Skills to learn

I think that sub/slaves should be continually learning and improving themselves. Learn skills to make yourself more valuable as a male sub to your current or future Mistress/Goddess. What skills should you learn? Well since every Woman is different, that really depends upon what the Woman in charge likes and is looking for in a servant. Below is an example of my wishlist for a sub's skills.

Some skills I personally would love in the PERFECT live-in male sub for me would be:
-cleaning and laundry (how to care for delicates)
-giving great massages (highly valued! especially back, neck and shoulder massage)
-spa pampering (pedicure, aromatherapy, lotions)
-sewing (I used to have a sub that would mend my garments)
-preparing cooked vegan food and/or raw vegan food. I have books. (Update: I became vegan on 2/1/15)
-making a nice breakfast in bed
-fixing things around the house/handyman skills
-tea service (I used to host femdom tea parties and hope to again in the future)
-building some things
-learn a language (ie: spanish, italian, etc. Useful for travel/vacations)
-male bellydancing (I have a website for this and instructional dvd). This can include actual bellydancing or a performance with fake big knives. (I used to host Femdom Harem parties for the Femdom munch I used to run and the males performed for the Ladies and they were enjoyable to watch.), or pole dancing to amuse and excite me.
-knows his way around a gym (keeps fit)
-how to grow sprouts at home (ie: sunflower sprouts, wheatgrass)
-how to change a flat tire; car maintenance
-being romantic and showing appreciation.
-poetry
-gardening (growing fruits and veggies, and watering flowers)
-learning how to be a good urinal for me as my live-in
-learning slave positions

I would want a personal submissive/slave of Mine to learn some new skills before and while in service to Me.

Mistress Lisa

Below me and taken

Not Me, but it does show one of my favorite positions to use a strapon cock or double ended dildo. On top, me holding him down with my body pressed up against him while I take him and get pleasure.

Steel collar and cuffs

I noticed this photo shows the locking stainless steel collar and matching wrist and ankle cuffs that I own for a male sub/slave to wear. So I thought I'd share it and some quotes.

"So long as man remains free he strives for nothing so incessantly and painfully as to find someone to worship."
-Fyodor Dostoyevsky

"Freedom was the desolate street i walked, until i was delivered to Her field." -anonymous

Submission

Some images I like and interesting quotes.

"Boyfriends need to understand that if women are worshipped, the world will be a better place.” -Nicole Kidman

"Submission is not thinking less of yourself...
but thinking of yourself, less." -anonymous

"Success means that we sleep at night knowing that our talents and abilities were used in a way that served others." -anonymous

Stocks to keep you in place

A piece of bondage furniture I like. I may have to get the local kinky craftsman to make me one of these.

Right now I own two individual stocks for ankles and wrists, and a custom made stockbox to put them in. I had them design something special according my box design. Sort of like this but better:

And I do enjoy it.

When Barbies get kinky

Some photos I found on the web in the past...

The real reason why Ken has a permanent smile on his face.

You never know what goes on in people's homes.

It looks like Barbie also has a crossdresser/sissy too. "Suck it, sissy!"

Link of the day: NerdFitness

Link of the day: NerdFitness.com
Want to get fit or need motivation to improve your life? Or do you want to get in the best shape possible for a current or potential Mistress? Check out that site since it has many motivational articles and success stories. It has certainly inspired me. It also is funny at times. You can find the top posts on that site at:
http://nerdfitness.com/blog/top-posts/

And Ladies, be sure to check out Staci's success story on that site:
http://nerdfitness.com/blog/2011/07/21/meet-staci-your-new-powerlifting-super-hero/