I read this online posted by a domme overseas and agreed with it. I thought it was well written. So I'm sharing it. I've always thought submissive males were the strongest males. Here's the text I read:
"Why we love submissive men...
It is with great respect to submissive men that I attempt
to write a respectful dissertation on this topic. This is just one
girl’s opinion and in no way is meant to define or offend anyone.
I feel that many of you have been wrongfully classified as weak men.
You have not had any role models as you’ve walked this path. Somewhere
along the line, you’ve been told that submission in a man is weak. It
is my humble opinion that you are the strongest of men…
A truly submissive man is a protector, a servant, a planner, as well
as a graceful reflection of his Mistress. He is conscious that his
appearance is reflection of her and therefore endeavors himself to
always be put together. He is a silent reflection of her strength and a
supporter of her dreams and goals.
The greatest submissive men act with dignity, in fact they act with
the dignity of the best butler…anticipating her needs because they know
her. They know she drinks a cup of tea before bed and strive to have it
waiting for her when she retires.
He strives to posses the best of manners, and what I mean by this
goes way deeper that what the general society believes. He pulls out her
chair every time, no matter the location. He stands when she leaves the
dinner table…even when they are alone. He realizes that his manners are
a reflection of his deep gratitude for her.
The greatest of submissive men are gentlemen first. They are
honorable… they don’t act out in order to seek what might be an
enjoyable punishment. In fact, a punishment is never enjoyable…it’s a
failing to please their Mistress. And it’s never fun.
The fun comes not only from the deep service they provide, but also when
they are alone…with his Mistress and a scene evolves. She knows him
well and because he is indispensible to her, she will make some of his fantasies
he has come true.
She values him tremendously. He is not less than her, but an
extension of her. He is invaluable because even though he is submissive
to her, he is not submissive to everyone. He serves her, and in that
service comes a sense of joy and purpose. It also defines him as a man…a
strong man…submissive man.
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Related links:
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Masculinity and submission
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The 12 traits of a good slave/husband
