Okay I'm talking about Cupping but he does kind of remind me of the Stegosaurus dinosaur below. =)
So what is Cupping? Basically it's vacuum suction of the skin. This can be done via a handheld suction pump (regular/air cupping as in the first pic above), or by using fire (fire cupping). With fire cupping, an alcohol soaked cotton ball on a pair of forceps is ignited by fire and put underneath a sterile glass cup. The glass cup is rapidly placed on the skin surface. The flame expels air from the cups, causing a negative pressure which creates the internal vacuum suction on the skin.
Cupping is said to increase circulation, relieves swelling, and is used for many conditions, including back pain, shoulder pain, neck pain, common colds, influenza and more. (I would say the sensation experienced by cupping and any results of cupping depend on the individual.)
Cupping has been practiced for thousands of years as part of ancient Chinese medicine and some other cultures. It is said to release rigid soft tissue and stubborn knots, drain excess fluids and toxins, loosen adhesions and lift connective tissue; and bring blood flow to stagnant skin and muscles.
The bdsm/alternative community has also used it. And also hollywood celebrities such as Gywneth Paltrow have had it done. Actress Gwyneth Paltrow caused media frenzy after a cupping session when she showed up on the red carpet with marks on her back from a fire cupping session to improve her health. See a short video about her and hear a good explanation about cupping at:
http://www.ostenzen.com/newsflash/cupping-marks.html
Some massage therapists or spas offer cupping and you can sometimes hear them call it 'Massage Cupping' or 'Medical Cupping' but it's all the same. And marks from cupping are very common. This can last to a couple minutes to several days. I would say that harsh marks are more common with fire cupping because there's a chance of getting burned. As for me, I just use the regular handheld suction pump(air) because a cupping set was given to me as a gift by an admirer long ago and it can be fun to see a submissive's skin suctioned up or see some circular marks left. And so far I haven't seen any severe marks with the handheld suction pump so it's probably safer.
I will say that if you're a person who is going to do cupping on someone else then try to be knowledgeable about placement and realize that cupping to one person may feel differently to another. Some experience pain and some don't. And some mark more easily than others. Follow the directions that come with your cupping set. For example, mine says to start with up to 5 or 6 cups with someone new and place them on the person from a few seconds to up to 5 minutes. (Note: I did go to a Cupping class at a bdsm conference one year and most of the people having it done to them liked it and said it felt good but I was curious how Fire Cupping felt so I had the instructor try it on my back and Fire Cupping was very painful to me but that may be because I have back problems and therefore didn't like the heat/suction on it. But I have done regular air cupping on my arm and had no problems.)
I'm basically doing this blog post about Cupping because I recently stumbled across a webpage promoting a bdsm porn video that had fake bad information on it. So I thought I'd clear things up.
Related links:
-MassageCupping.com
-The art of massage cupping therapy
-Video on Gywnyth Paltrow and reporter's explanation on cupping.
Monday, March 12, 2012
Sunday, March 11, 2012
Saturday, March 10, 2012
Mardi Gras Party recap
I hosted a Mardi Gras Masquerade Party at my home last night for the kinky Ladies group I co-lead and it went fantastic! Fun times, great food, decorations, music, beads, sexy women in sexy masks and outfits, and I did a hot wax play demo on someone in my dungeon. The only bad thing is that I have some cupcakes left over and now they're begging me to eat them...and I do like to hear begging...and eat chocolate. =)
The invitation I previously put together for the party
Monday, March 5, 2012
Good boy
I just love seeing a male being useful in the kitchen or doing other domestic chores. Mmm...So sexy. =)
Sunday, March 4, 2012
Bring your male slave to work
Reminder: Ladies, Monday is "Take your male slave to work" day. =)
Related posts/Other days of the week:
- Monday is Take your Male Slave to Work day
- Tuesday is Sexy Nude Male Carwash Day
- Fridays are for extra Foot Care
Related posts/Other days of the week:
- Monday is Take your Male Slave to Work day
- Tuesday is Sexy Nude Male Carwash Day
- Fridays are for extra Foot Care
Labels:
bondage,
days of the week,
office slave,
strapon
Saturday, March 3, 2012
A good male wife knows to worship her feet
A male wife worshipping his dominant wife's feet while she relaxes after dinner.
Wednesday, February 29, 2012
Hot wax demo
I will be doing a hot wax play demo during an upcoming mardi gras party I will be hosting for the kinky ladies group I run and am seeking more people to experiment on before the day of the party comes.
Monday, February 27, 2012
Her Sweet Slut
The reason that I like this photo is because to me it shows some vulnerability from the male. And it's not a typical pose of masculinity. To me, it shows a tender intimate moment and maybe some light teasing from the Woman...telling him that he's such a pretty sweet slut for Her. They look like a close loving femdom couple to me which is nice. I also like his large tattoo. I can't tell exactly what it is but to me it looks like an illustration of her planting an american flag onto him...claiming him as Hers. There is no mistaking that he is owned and belongs to Her.
Friday, February 24, 2012
Fridays = Foot Care Extraordinaire
Relax your Mistress after a long day and week with some pampering. Friday's are for Foot Care...the extra special pampering kind. Here are some things to do...
Rub lotion into the feet and massage them.
Kiss them... Admire their beauty.
Give her a pedicure if she wants one or just paint the toenails carefully. (Remember practice makes perfect)
4 Photos of My feet:
So they look good painted.
"Come here, slave, and take off my shoes now."
Kneel and prepare to bathe My feet.
Massage the bubbles into my feet and clean them.
Like a good servant. =)
Related posts/Other days of the week:
- Monday is Take your Male Slave to Work day
- Tuesday is Sexy Nude Male Carwash Day
Rub lotion into the feet and massage them.
Kiss them... Admire their beauty.
Give her a pedicure if she wants one or just paint the toenails carefully. (Remember practice makes perfect)
4 Photos of My feet:
So they look good painted.
"Come here, slave, and take off my shoes now."
Kneel and prepare to bathe My feet.
Massage the bubbles into my feet and clean them.
Like a good servant. =)
Related posts/Other days of the week:
- Monday is Take your Male Slave to Work day
- Tuesday is Sexy Nude Male Carwash Day
Labels:
days of the week,
Foot worship,
pampering,
photos of me
Tuesday, February 21, 2012
Humbled
A male slave bowing in a humble slave position respectfully to his Mistress/Owner, as he should.
"I adore you mistress, I will lay at your feet, obedient and humble, submissive to your wishes." -- Mark Antony to Cleopatra 69 - 30 B.C
"I adore you mistress, I will lay at your feet, obedient and humble, submissive to your wishes." -- Mark Antony to Cleopatra 69 - 30 B.C
Foot fetish guys' Anti Creepy Training Video
This is funny...
Foot Fetish Guys' Anti Creepy Training Video:
http://www.countboogie.com/footfetish
How to approach a woman in the right way and wrong way if you have a foot fetish.
Foot Fetish Guys' Anti Creepy Training Video:
http://www.countboogie.com/footfetish
How to approach a woman in the right way and wrong way if you have a foot fetish.
Sunday, February 19, 2012
Websites updated
Listen up, boy!
I updated two of my websites so check them out...
- http://www.CapturedMales.com
(I added another kidnapping story/part)
- http://www.BdsmTravel.com
(I updated the "Destinations" page and the "Tours" page on my site which lists bdsm friendly places where you can take your slave or domme to.)
I updated two of my websites so check them out...
- http://www.CapturedMales.com
(I added another kidnapping story/part)
- http://www.BdsmTravel.com
(I updated the "Destinations" page and the "Tours" page on my site which lists bdsm friendly places where you can take your slave or domme to.)
Ads
Hmm...What exactly are these ads promoting? Women taking charge in the bedroom at home? Well I hope so and hope regular magazine ads show women in charge more. I think magazines can help influence a society. If I pick up a women's magazine, it's usually full of ads. Plenty of space opportunities for "female in charge" ads I like to see.
Strapon songs
1) Usher's song "Trading Places"
Part of the lyrics:
>"I'm ALWAYS ON TOP, TONIGHT I'M ON THE BOTTOM
>Cause we are trading places
>When i can't TAKE no more, tell me you ain't stopping
>Cause we trading places..
>No, PUT IT ON ME baby till i say, ooh wee!
>And tell me shut up before the neighbours hear
>This is how it feels like when you do it LIKE ME
>We trading places"
Listen to "Trading Places" HERE.
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2) "Back it up, boys" by Peaches
Listen to it HERE.
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3) "Do you take it?" by The Wet Spots.
This one is more general but it mentions strapons and shows some in the video.
Part of the lyrics:
>"I'm ALWAYS ON TOP, TONIGHT I'M ON THE BOTTOM
>Cause we are trading places
>When i can't TAKE no more, tell me you ain't stopping
>Cause we trading places..
>No, PUT IT ON ME baby till i say, ooh wee!
>And tell me shut up before the neighbours hear
>This is how it feels like when you do it LIKE ME
>We trading places"
Listen to "Trading Places" HERE.
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2) "Back it up, boys" by Peaches
Listen to it HERE.
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3) "Do you take it?" by The Wet Spots.
This one is more general but it mentions strapons and shows some in the video.
Saturday, February 18, 2012
Pee break
A Mistress takes a break from her computer work to use her toilet.
(Aah so convenient. I love it when a male is useful to Me)
(Aah so convenient. I love it when a male is useful to Me)
Friday, February 17, 2012
69 Songs I Like
Since more people have been asking me lately what kind of music I like, I updated my music playlist showing some songs I like. (I made it on playlist.com back in 2007 but updated it so today it now has 69 songs). I have a wide range of tastes in music so it's better to show you so you can easily hear some songs I like for yourself.
> Click to Listen to My Music Playlist (opens new window)
Can't hear some of the songs in my playlist above?
Here's some video clips with some of the songs in them:
-Stripped by Shiny Toy Guns (femdom tv show video)
-Down boy by Yeah Yeah Yeahs (singer is in fetish wear)
-Miss Independent by Ne-Yo
-Possession by Sarah McLachlan
-Wake me up inside by Evanescence (femdom video) Or see official video here.
-Forsaken by Disturbed/David Draiman
-Rocketeer by Far East Movement
-Firework by Katy Perry
-Come Undone by Duran Duran
-Sweet Dreams by Eurythmics
-Boys of Summer by Don Henley
-Have you ever really loved a Woman by Bryan Adams
> Click to Listen to My Music Playlist (opens new window)
Can't hear some of the songs in my playlist above?
Here's some video clips with some of the songs in them:
-Stripped by Shiny Toy Guns (femdom tv show video)
-Down boy by Yeah Yeah Yeahs (singer is in fetish wear)
-Miss Independent by Ne-Yo
-Possession by Sarah McLachlan
-Wake me up inside by Evanescence (femdom video) Or see official video here.
-Forsaken by Disturbed/David Draiman
-Rocketeer by Far East Movement
-Firework by Katy Perry
-Come Undone by Duran Duran
-Sweet Dreams by Eurythmics
-Boys of Summer by Don Henley
-Have you ever really loved a Woman by Bryan Adams
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
CFNM party recap
I finally got back my leather paddle that I left at a previous "Clothed Female, nude male" (CFnm) party. I like that paddle since it was one of my earlier ones and had a thick heavy piece of metal inside it so it packs a whollop for a small space. It reminds me of a leather ruler but it fits in my purse. =) Anyway as soon as I got it back while I was at the recent CFNM Valentines Party, it immediately went to Me spanking a dozen nude males' butts with it and my hand. yeah! I got some nice pink and redness on their butts. Good for the party theme. And some guys jumped when I paddled them so that was fun. The guys lined up and me and the handful of ladies got to discipline them.
We also had a fun slave auction (we used candy hearts as money to buy specific guys for use during the night), we also previously decorated the nude males in the valentines theme (heart stickers, roses, bows, clamps, wrappings, etc. The dungeon owner liked my decorated guy the best. I kind of made him look like a pretty bride. lol.), and we had them do a singing contest where the males broke off into groups and sang "you are my sunshine". Some of them sang very well so I was pleasantly surprised. And another nude male danced for us up on a pink box. He reminded me of cupid and looked cute with all his valentines decorations on him and ass shaking. So overall it was a very fun valentine cfnm party...about a dozen males we could do anything we want to and about 6 leading Ladies. =)
Speaking of a dozen males, here's an interesting pic I found online:
We also had a fun slave auction (we used candy hearts as money to buy specific guys for use during the night), we also previously decorated the nude males in the valentines theme (heart stickers, roses, bows, clamps, wrappings, etc. The dungeon owner liked my decorated guy the best. I kind of made him look like a pretty bride. lol.), and we had them do a singing contest where the males broke off into groups and sang "you are my sunshine". Some of them sang very well so I was pleasantly surprised. And another nude male danced for us up on a pink box. He reminded me of cupid and looked cute with all his valentines decorations on him and ass shaking. So overall it was a very fun valentine cfnm party...about a dozen males we could do anything we want to and about 6 leading Ladies. =)
Speaking of a dozen males, here's an interesting pic I found online:
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Valentines and Love Monkey
My feet looove being kissed. Imagine kneeling here and doing so.
A message for anybody who needs a pick me up.
And a video on love that touched me...
Interesting link:
-Lucille and Pat Rizzotto's Love Story of 70+ years and their 10 Wise Tips for making it last.
A message for anybody who needs a pick me up.
And a video on love that touched me...
Interesting link:
-Lucille and Pat Rizzotto's Love Story of 70+ years and their 10 Wise Tips for making it last.
Monday, February 13, 2012
Sunday, February 12, 2012
New strapon pics
For the sluts out there, here's some new strapon pictures I found...
"I hope you lubed up your asspussy good like I told you to do, slave. I'm just aching to get inside you."
"I hope you lubed up your asspussy good like I told you to do, slave. I'm just aching to get inside you."
Thursday, February 9, 2012
Slave Auction
I'm going to another CFnm party soon. This one will have a slave auction so it should be interesting. Speaking of auctions, here's an auction image I like. He waits humbly while the Leader tells about the item up for bid...him.
another secret auction in another city...
Frankly in today's world there's no reason to have auctions since available slaves contact me daily. But it is a bit fun for all to see naked males auctioned off and described. I hope it makes more males realize that they need great qualities or skills in order to stand out and be chosen. I think a male is better off belonging to a Woman, don't you?
another secret auction in another city...
Frankly in today's world there's no reason to have auctions since available slaves contact me daily. But it is a bit fun for all to see naked males auctioned off and described. I hope it makes more males realize that they need great qualities or skills in order to stand out and be chosen. I think a male is better off belonging to a Woman, don't you?
Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Sculpture of Worship
I saw this image online and thought it was very beautiful so I thought I'd share. It shows the proper place of a male...respectfully on his knees and worshipping her. I think we need more artwork in our culture like this. (By the way, if you know the artist, let me know)
Here's another sculpture I like that I do know who the artist is... "Eternal Idol" by Rodin.
Here's another sculpture I like that I do know who the artist is... "Eternal Idol" by Rodin.
It is said that Rodin once lovingly kissed one of his models on her bare belly - 'Eternal Idol' seems to reflect this affectionate gesture.
(I must admit that when I see that Eternal Idol sculpture, I imagine shackles on his wrists.)
Also by Auguste Rodin, "The Kiss"...

I saw The Kiss in person at Atlanta's High Museum of Art in the past. It was in the "Rings: 5 passions in world art" exhibit in conjunction with the 1996 Olympics I went to. =)
(I must admit that when I see that Eternal Idol sculpture, I imagine shackles on his wrists.)
Also by Auguste Rodin, "The Kiss"...

Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Caged
Due to school budget cuts for building new schools, dorm rooms are getting smaller and smaller. Some males don't even have rooms at all. But they don't seem to mind since each male's cage is kept in a beautiful woman's room. And for her inconvenience, the new school policy says she can do anything she wants in her room and make up any rules for him.
Sunday, February 5, 2012
Monday is Take your Male Slave to Work day
In order to help make Mondays at work more interesting, I propose that Monday is "Take your Male Slave to Work" day for the Ladies.
Don't you dare move. I need to read this and then you're going under my desk.
Ladies, bring your masculine male or your pretty sissy to work and have him do whatever you want.
Related posts/Other days of the week:
- Tuesday is Sexy Nude Male Carwash Day
- Fridays = Foot Care Extraordinaire
Don't you dare move. I need to read this and then you're going under my desk.
Ladies, bring your masculine male or your pretty sissy to work and have him do whatever you want.
Related posts/Other days of the week:
- Tuesday is Sexy Nude Male Carwash Day
- Fridays = Foot Care Extraordinaire
Labels:
CFNM,
crossdressing,
days of the week,
office slave
Thursday, February 2, 2012
Female pirate with male captive
Ladies, get him!!!"
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