Beatings commence

Today's mood: sadistic. I really feel the need to get my hands on a leather strap and beat someone to cause some pain. And then force them on their knees and make them gag on my strapon cock until tears come to their eyes. It would make me feel better today.

Kinky Luau

I had a great time last weekend. I went to a Kinky Luau hosted by a domme friend of Mine. Lots of people showed up. About 50 and there was a big buffet of tropical inspired food to eat, drink and also wonderful desserts including tropical looking cupcakes. I also enjoyed a hula lesson in her dungeon and met more wonderful people. (a handful of people were also swimming naked in the pool. It's interesting to talk to friends while they're naked)

And since it was a few hours away from me, I stayed overnight. Then an old male sub friend of mine asked to sleep in the spare trundle bed near mine at my friend's house. So I let him sleep in the same room as me but he was made to sleep in a spandex sleep sack with ankle and wrist restraints on inside the sack and I also put a chain around the outside of the sack so he couldn't get away. =) Then I also tortured his nipples a bit and also sat on him. It was fun. Then in the morning he gave me a nice tongue bath on my toes. (We're just friends now but he did serve me one day as a sissymaid years ago.). Anyway, overall I had a fun time at the kinky luau and they said they're going to have them every year. =) Maybe next time I'll have a slave I can dress up and bring with Me.

Some desserts from the Kinky Luau...cupcakes and cake.

Someone later ate the nipples off the cake so that was funny. And I hope next time someone brings a submissive male version of the cake too.

Kiss My foot

Humble yourself before Me and kiss My feet as you should.
(ps-thanks to the admirer who sent Me those heels off my wishlist)

Submissive magazine ad

The guy in this magazine ad's photo looks submissive to Me. It looks like he was taking care of his Mistress' feet and now he's either listening attentively to her or watching her drift off to sleep. This photo also has a soft romantic feeling to it with the low lighting and him adoringly watching her. I wish more ads had males looking submissive towards Women.

Discipline

Some days you just need to be reminded of your place and taken down a notch. If I get any indication of insubordination, I'll nip it in the bud (or butt) before it has a chance to get worse. Regular discipline is needed and good for a male.

Shopping addictions

Okay I realize and fully admit I have a couple shopping addictions.

- I'm addicted to shopping for sexy panties to put on a male/sissy. (I do not care if they're masculine guys or like to be fully feminized. When a male is serving Me in My home, he's in panties. Just because I like them and they look sooo much better than male underwear. ewh. Bring on the panties that look and feel good. =) )
- And I'm addicted to getting sexy shoes. (frankly My feet look great so how could I not put them in something sexy to match? =) )

10 Quotes

Here's 10 Quotes I Like:
1. "If you look towards the sunshine, you will not see the shadows."

2. "Always do what you say you will do."

3. "Judge a man by what he has done; not on what he says he is going to do." ~Henry Ford

4. "A person who is nice to you but not nice to a waiter is not a nice person"

5. "Submission is not thinking less of yourself... but thinking of yourself, less."

6. "Success means that we sleep at night knowing that our talents and abilities were used in a way that served others."

7. "Being your slave, what should I do but tend upon the hours and times of your desire?" ~William Shakespeare (Sonnet LVII)

8. "To be nobody but yourself, in a world that is doing it's best night and day to make you like everybody else is the hardest battle any human being can fight, and never stop fighting." ~E.E. Cummings

9. "I told my wife that a husband is like a fine wine; he gets better with age. The next day, she locked me in the cellar."

10. "Only through complete surrender to a Woman can a man know peace, contentment, and happiness."

Sundown

Tonight's colorful nighttime sky as seen from my backyard. Southwest florida has some of the most colorful sunsets I've seen. The sunset looks even more beautiful when seen from the beach.

New songs I like

"Time is running out" by Muse. Sounded sexy to me. Mentions the words "asphyxiated" and "smother". nice.

I also like Muse's song called "Undisclosed desires":

Drink up

As My live-in slave, you'll learn to drink from Me whenever I want. I expect your mouth to remain open until I'm done with you, understood? That's it. Keep swallowing, slave, you hear Me tell you. And be sure to say Thank You afterwards. I bet it'll warm your mouth and belly right up. ;)

Focus

See...I told you that you'd learn to focus on Me more.

My dungeon goodies

Here's a peek into some of My dungeon goodies...

One of the walls in my dungeon contains lots of implements for discipline & punishment, and restraints.

and recently I found a fantastic deal on a Vac Bed and it arrived 2 days ago and had me smiling all day. Here's a photo of it temporarily set up in my spare bedroom after I put it together. It's a Vac Bed made up of latex rubber and when connected to a vacuum it sucks/vacuums the air out and keeps the sub immobilized in it. It has a hole for the mouth for breathing and a hole around the genital region. In this photo, I've put my new "inflatable ball gag breathing tube" in the mouth hole and a dildo in the genital hole so you can see it.

I have a lot of experience with vac beds.
and here's a photo I found on the web of someone in one...
It's going to be fun to play with.

Male Wife

I'm a busy woman so I enjoy the idea of having a "male wife". I've been hearing about this concept/phrase lately. Now as I understand it, this does not necessarily mean someone feminized. But mainly this is about the clearly defined role of the male in the household. He takes care of the home such as doing duties such cleaning, laundry, cooking, dishwashing, ironing outfits, clipping coupons, sweeping up, etc. He would also service Her sexual needs (such as licking and sucking her strapon cock or her clit) whenever She wants. Like a typical obedient old-fashioned 1950s "wife" doing her wifely duties.

Here's some text I read recently about someone's thoughts on a male wife role:

"Above all, I believe that as a male wife, your primary responsibility is to ensure the happiness of your spouse. This can only be achieved by letting go of the male-ego, and embracing the feminine-self within. In other words, you must think, act, clean, cook and love like a woman.

This is not to say that men aren’t capable of loving in the “flowery Grandiose” sense of the word. However, the truth remains that women simply and naturally pay much closer attention to all of those details that men frequently ignore. It is indeed the subtleties and details of love that reveal themselves to us gradually, over time. So, in making the conscience choice to serve your spouse's needs above your own, you willingly commit to finding the lost opportunities for love that remain hidden from your male-self.

Just remember, that the male wife is someone who understands that they are neither all masculine or all feminine but a hybrid of both."

--Basically anything that helps a male to focus on being more service-oriented, I'm all for. I know I could sure use help in my home since I have an active social and professional life. And personally I just do not think I should have to do menial domestic tasks. That's what males are for. To be useful to Women. And I actually read about a study recently that said that males who did the household duties in the home were happier and healthier.

Please Her outside and inside the bedroom.

4th of July toys

Earlier I forgot to post this graphic below about 4th of July that I made and which shows some of my things. Better late then never. I had fun seeing what I had that would go with the holiday.

Female Superiority

Here's an article I read in the past about Female Superiority so I thought I'd share it:

"I believe that Women are superior, because research has shown that Women are better leaders (studies have shown that companies led by Women are more successful than companies led by men), we learn faster, we are physiologically superior (men are prone to more diseases than Women), and we live longer than men.

I also believe that God is Female, and that Women are the embodiment of Her, and therefore, are superior to males and should be in charge.

Another reason I believe that Women are superior, is because males are so easily trained, that's why there are so many more men in the military than Women. According to zoologist Desmond Morris, males are more likely to fight in a war, not because they hate the enemy, or because they're fighting for a good cause, but to back up their buddies. An example of this blind obedience (as illustrated on the TV series "the human animal" by Desmond Morris) is in a mall in asia - security guard trainees were told to eat lunch while balancing a banana on their head, and if the banana fell, they had to do 10 pushups as punishment. None of them questioned this rediculous order, all of them obeyed. I believe that this kind of blind obedience is a greater weakness than any Woman could ever have.

Archeologists have not only said that there were no wars in Matriarchal societies, but there were also no weapons. I think that is the best proof that Women should be in charge. I have no doubts that if Women were back in our rightful places as leaders, there would be far fewer wars, if any.

And, yet another reason why I know that Women are superior, is that every human being starts off in the uterus as Female. (The glands that become the ovaries in Women become the testicles in men. The folds of skin that become the labia in Women, become the scrotum in men. The nub that becomes the clitoris in Women, becomes the penis in men). Women are created first. Female is primary and male is secondary.
That's right, guys, you all used to be Female. So, basically, males are a mutation of Females.

Women created only for procreation...
There are male chauvenists who argue that Women were created only for procreation purposes, and that therefore men were meant to be in charge, and Women should just accept that and learn to obey them. Let's follow that logic, shall we?
Now, we know that it takes a man and a Woman for procreation. A Woman is 50% of the procreation process, and a man is 50% of the procreation process. If Women were created only for procreation, then it follows, logically, that men were also created only for procreation purposes, since men and Women each make up 50% of the procreation process.

If men were created only for procreation, as logic would suggest, then that would mean that men are just sperm donors, since after conception, men don't serve any purpose, as far as procreation goes. Since Women have the larger job in procreation (carrying the baby for 9 months) that would mean that Women are more important. If Women are more important than men, that's the same as saying Women are Superior."

Play kidnap

Have you ever thought about being taken? As you can tell from some of my past postings about kidnapping such as this and this, it is one of my fantasies. Some days the urge to kidnap a male is stronger than others and lately it has been very strong since right now I'm in between slaves/subs and am seeking someone new to train to my liking. Maybe I'll take you.

Maybe you'll be kidnapped on your own. That is the best case scenario.

Or what if someone tried to stop Me from taking what I want, then I'd just have to kidnap him too. But once taken, I'd keep them separated so that I could train them individually and their whole world would be Me. I'm sure I could bring out their individual talents or train them in different duties.

A Forced Gag may be in order and Forced Kneeling to your new Owner for the first time. But soon you'll learn to behave exactly how I want and become a good slave for Me. Pleasing Me is what you're here for. It'll give your life some purpose and make Me happy.

That reminds Me...recently I read a description of a video game and it started with this text that reminded me of kidnapping someone:
"One boy will vanish from the safety of his boring existence and fulfill his destiny in a place of mystery..."
(It wasn't about kidnapping but it certainly sounded like it to Me. Mmmmm...)

The Gift of the Domme

Here's an essay I read online by a male sub that I enjoyed.

"The Gift of the Domme
by closetsitter1

In recent mentoring to a few male subs I have come across something which I think many subs fail to recognize. Not by any failure of heart, but simply failure to recognize the true gift a Domme bestows on her submissive. That gift is allowing the submissive the nobility that comes with service.

For myself, I am not a religious man. But like most humans I have the need to believe in something bigger, more noble than myself.
There is a major difference in suffering pain, humiliation, servitude, etc for the “kink” and in doing it in loving sacrifice to your Goddess.

The typical vanilla woman, although she constantly talks about wanting to be adored and worshipped, will very rapidly grow tired of this treatment. It is one of the main reasons a relationship between a vanilla and a lifestyler will fail.

The Domme will graciously and eagerly accept true worship. While the submissive is certainly giving a great gift to a Domme in committed service, the Domme is in reality giving an even greater gift to the submissive by allowing him to have something in his life which is greater than himself.

Just as the penitent Christian makes sacrifices to his God and therefore feels he has achieved some greater good in his life, and hopefully some future reward, the submissive, by serving his very mortal Goddess, has achieved this same euphoric state. But unlike a religious calling, the reward of feeling that “nobility of purpose” is real and quite tangible in the here and now. His pain, his suffering, his humiliation, his chastity, whatever he is giving of himself for the pleasure of his Domme, is giving deep emotional and spiritual meaning to his life.

Of course you may say in the lifestyle that the submissive should be grateful to the Domme for having him. That is simply a given. But in reality, for the dedicated submissive it goes much deeper than a mere lifestyle definition.

All humans have asked those questions……Why am I here?.....Why was I born?.....What purpose does my existence have?......Is my existence merely blind random chance?.....Does my existence have any meaning at all?

For most, the answers lie in religion or some deep philosophical studies taken over years of intense thought and hard work, if they ever gain an answer at all.

For the serious submissive, the answers to those questions are simple, direct, visible, and felt every day. Every time he makes his Domme smile, he KNOWS why he is here. He KNOWS his life serves a noble purpose. He KNOWS that regardless of any philosophical or religious debate over the meaning or reasons for existence, he has his answer in the here and now!

THIS is the ultimate gift of the Domme to her submissive.

To give the submissive an actual physical Goddess who rewards and punishes and guides the submissive in an ever deeper and more rewarding life in devotion and sacrificial service to her.

And the Domme has her answers to those same questions by knowing that in her use of her submissive she has given meaning to what might otherwise be a meaningless life. Therefore she is serving the greater good by allowing herself to truly be worshipped.

Few women hear such a noble calling. Few women can accept true worship. Few women can even accept the service and submission of the men in their lives even though they claim that is exactly what they want. Few women have the intellectual capacity to realize the true strength of character it takes for a man to submit in devoted service.

It takes a very special woman to be a Domme. Just picking up a whip and donning a pair of heels doesn’t mean squat!

The true Domme gives a great gift to a submissive when she accepts him as her own. She gives his life meaning, purpose, and nobility."

------end of his essay----------
My comment on it:
It is true that it does take strength for a male to truly submit totally in devoted service to his Goddess/Mistress. And that there is a major difference in suffering pain, humiliation, servitude, etc for the “kink” and in doing it in loving sacrifice to your Goddess in a long term relationship. Unfortunately there are too many male "subs" who are into it for their kinks and totally miss the deep connection and wonderful relationship that could be had if they were truly looking to unselfishly please a special dominant Woman and belong to Her long term. And I do think it does take a very special woman to be such a Domme. It takes a woman who is confident, has her life together and is in control of herself, self aware, creative, intelligent and who wants to accept the responsibility that comes with truly owning, disciplining and caring for her devoted sub/slave. -Mistress Lisa

Collaring poem

Here's a poem about a collaring that I enjoyed reading.
"Lady" by the male sub astna...

Your power satisfies
Your will beautifies

my weakness is before You
my strength is in You

You have chosen me
Above all before Thee

my heart serves Lady now
my will is possessed by Thou

i feell your tenderness
i wipe away your tears

my body trembles as You place the collar
i am joining Your being

Your sensual hands touch me
The collar locks i have joined Thee

Sensual toelicking

I love a male that can be very sensual. And I love having my pretty feet and toes slowly licked. They took down one of my favorite video clips of toe licking online on youtube but I found it again and updated my toe licking blog post. Click here to see it.

Breath control

Ssshhh...you don't need to breathe right now, do you? ;)

You know I'd rather watch you struggle and gasp for breathe. I want to control you...fully. It gets me hot and bothered. And you do so love being My little victim, don't you?

Ownership marks

I feel it is important to mark my future slave so we both know he's owned by Me and so does everyone else. Here's some photos that I like that I came across on the site slaveRegister.com. For those that do not know, the site assigns a number to a slave and anyone can go on there and look him up by number and see if he's owned. I like the idea of putting a slave number and my name on him once I have collared and owned a male slave. I'm "GoddessLisa" on that site by the way. And in one of my previous blog posts, I posted a photo I surprisingly found on the web of a tattoo that said Goddess Lisa. I'll post it again here since we're talking about ownership marks. Think to yourself: do you want to be owned and would you proudly wear the mark of your Owner/Goddess?

Ad - spanking

Now that's my kind of fashion ad. I just love a cute red bottom. They should show more of it. I also like imagining that he's obediently waiting for his Mistress to come back and won't dare move until she's through disciplining him. Mmm.

Aprons

I just love a male in an apron...whether he's looking masculine or if he's dressed up in a lacy sissymaid apron while feminized. Especially if his ass is exposed to my touch. I also like to trap him there so he can't escape and he feels me pressed up against him. Mmmm...time to take advantage of the slut. ;)

Milking device

I found these photos late last year of a homemade milking bondage device. The male is trapped in the contraption and his dominant Mistress is fingering his prostate in his little bitch ass and also stroking and aiming his little cock to drip into a small bowl below. I thought this was very amusing. She also takes him in the ass while he's trapped, as well as paddling him. Looks like fun. Needless to say I saved these photos on my computer so I can get a contraption like this one day. Can you imagine being restrained and helpless in it while your Mistress does just what she wants with you? Mmmm. ;)


And speaking of milking, I also think these 2 illustrations by femdom artist Sardax are amusing. I especially like the one that shows his face on the big screen. So humiliating for him but amusing for Me. Oh and that film also would have made a good movie to play in the background at one of the Femdom parties I used to have. =)

Back from Beyond Leather

I'm back from vacation. I attended the "Beyond Leather" 2010 bdsm conference in Fort Lauderdale and had a great time.
I took some fun bdsm classes including: "Interrogation and Abduction" by Hardy Haberman, "Foot Bondage" by Cherries Jubalie, "Evil, Mean and Nasty" by Lqqkout, "CBT (cock and ball torture)" by Hardy Haberman, "Consentual Non-Consent" by Sybil Herman, "Suspension" by Lqqkout, "Roleplay" by Utah Rox, "Military Bondage" by GrayDancer, "Rustic Furniture: Objectification" by Cherries Jubalie, "Bondage 101/201" by Leon Grossman, and "Cerebral Copulation" by Hardy Haberman.

(By the way, I've been attending various bdsm conferences and classes since 2002 so if you want to see a more extensive list of classes I took or taught, then view my stats page on my website.)

And I just loved the energy at the bdsm conference and that everyone is so openminded and knowledgeable.

"Legend of the Seeker" videos

Some hot video clips from the "Legend of the Seeker" tv show. They show the Mord Siths which are some dominant looking (and evil) women. I wish they would show more of them on that show but alas they usually don't. Anyway enjoy. ;) I just love seeing a male helpless.

Beyond Leather

It's official. I'm now registered for the "Beyond Leather" bdsm conference on April 23-25 in Fort Lauderdale, Florida and am excited and looking forward to it. ;) Lots of kinky vendors to buy things from, watch nightly performances like a bigger "Lube Wrestling" match with males, many bdsm classes and more. And among the many classes, I hear there's "consentual non-consent", "roleplay" and "interrogation and abduction" classes so those should be interesting.

What's important

There is nothing more beautiful and right to Me than a male submitting to a Woman. One who is focused on pleasing Her and not mainly focused on his kinks. (And I may have many kinky interests but the quality of a male, his character and his willingness to be helpful are more important to Me. And that he knows he sincerely wants a loving female-led authority/relationship in his life.)

“A true submissive gains pleasure from serving the needs of his Domme”