I'm a busy woman so I enjoy the idea of having a "male wife". I've been hearing about this concept/phrase lately. Now as I understand it, this does not necessarily mean someone feminized. But mainly this is about the clearly defined role of the male in the household. He takes care of the home such as doing duties such cleaning, laundry, cooking, dishwashing, ironing outfits, clipping coupons, sweeping up, etc. He would also service Her sexual needs (such as licking and sucking her strapon cock or her clit) whenever She wants. Like a typical obedient old-fashioned 1950s "wife" doing her wifely duties.
Here's some text I read recently about someone's thoughts on a male wife role:"Above all, I believe that as a male wife, your primary responsibility is to ensure the happiness of your spouse. This can only be achieved by letting go of the male-ego, and embracing the feminine-self within. In other words, you must think, act, clean, cook and love like a woman.
This is not to say that men aren’t capable of loving in the “flowery Grandiose” sense of the word. However, the truth remains that women simply and naturally pay much closer attention to all of those details that men frequently ignore. It is indeed the subtleties and details of love that reveal themselves to us gradually, over time. So, in making the conscience choice to serve your spouse's needs above your own, you willingly commit to finding the lost opportunities for love that remain hidden from your male-self.
Just remember, that the male wife is someone who understands that they are neither all masculine or all feminine but a hybrid of both."
--Basically anything that helps a male to focus on being more service-oriented, I'm all for. I know I could sure use help in my home since I have an active social and professional life. And personally I just do not think I should have to do menial domestic tasks. That's what males are for. To be useful to Women. And I actually read about a study recently that said that males who did the household duties in the home were happier and healthier.
Please Her outside and inside the bedroom.
Wonderful post. I could not agree more. I am a successful, well-educated, well-traveled businessman, but nothing I've ever done in my life has been as fulfilling and satisfying as being a male wife. Kathy's needs come first. I am grateful to her for allowing me to embrace my feminine side.
ReplyDelete. I think that men can still be obedient househusbands and still be masculine. The man in th e "Cleaning Hunk" video that you showed was defintly not "feminen. He was masculine and muscular.But obedient and submissive at the same time. So are the men in the two great photos in this post.
ReplyDeleteI think that an obedient man shouldnt be considered a "wife". I think that what were once "wifely duties" should now be considered "husbandly duties" .And that housework should now be considered "mens work"
I think that men should still be "manly". I think that most women want thier husband to strap on a tool belt and go outside and build thier wives a wooden back deck . But i think that nowdays they also want the man to come inside after he is done and take off the tool belt and put on an apron and cook dinner for the wife.
While growing up I had always wished the gender roles were reversed. I was shy and submissive by nature (though I had no idea about D/s at that point in my life). I wish it were the girls who would ask out the boys and that it would be my role to support and help my partner to be the best they could. I always found the idea to be the “wife” and help the woman I love to be successful in the world would be the most reward thing I could do.
ReplyDeleteThankfully I have found that I am not alone in such desires and that there are women who share such desires as well.