Here's Some Solutions:
1) Take a class in person or learn online. This can be creative, mental or physical. Do you have a hobby or interest that you've wanted to try? Or can you work on a new skill or interest that may help you be more valuable/beneficial to a dominant woman?
Examples:
- Learn a language (this could prove beneficial for travel for example. You can learn any language for free using the Duolingo website or app. Spanish would be a good one to learn.)
- Self Defense or Martial Arts (Some YMCA's offer adult karate, TaeKwonDo, judo, tai chi, etc. This can help develop discipline, self control, strength and your new skills could help you to be a better body guard for your Mistress).
- Sewing (Some craft stores such as Joanne Fabrics offer sewing classes, and some towns offer adult education classes at local high schools. Or learn on Youtube.)
- A hobby (example: learn to play a musical instrument. That could entertain others)
- If you're a sissy/crossdresser, you could go online on youtube.com and look for videos on makeup tips.
- Get some instruction in fitness.
- Learn something new online (For example, a skill such as how to cook something...ie: whole food plant-based recipes. Don't know where to look to learn new things online? See "Top 40 useful sites to learn new skills")
-There are alot of classes online on many things.
2) Volunteer your time. There are plenty of places that need volunteers. For example: Can you help the elderly or homeless in some way, such as getting them food?
3) Exercise. (ie: weight lifting, running, cycling, walking, exercising to videos online, etc.)
4) Read. (especially books or webpages that will help improve your life or skills. Ie: giving massage, pedicures, tea service, etc)
5) Clean or organize things in your home.(practice make perfect and one day you may be cleaning your Mistress' home)
6) Write. Write stories, articles, thoughts (keep a journal or blog), write poetry, etc. (Possibly something to show to others or your Mistress).
7) Plan activities with the dominant woman in your life or plan how you might show a special dominant woman in the future that you appreciate her. (ie: a trip or something romantic, etc.)
8) Learn about Nutrition and watch useful videos. (since most conventional doctors have never taken a class or have had time to do research). Take control of your own health. Topics to research: Nutrition, how to juice, how to grow sprouts, how to prepare raw food dishes, how to make green smoothies, how to grow a vegetable garden, etc. You can learn through books, through instructors, dvd's and/or through online videos. (NutritionFacts.org posts one new nutrition related video per day. RawTeacher lists some living food instructors. YouTube.com has videos on everything. You can even find some full length documentary films on health there or videos on how to grow your own food.)
9). Practice being more feminine. (makeup, walk, manners, voice, etc. There's tutorials on YouTube.com.)
10.) Practice slave positions. You can find a link to them in the right column of my femdom blog if you're viewing the web version.
11.) Learn about your Mistress or a person who you want to be your Mistress. Learn to ask questions about her as a person/woman, not just her dominant side.
12. Learn about 5 love languages. Do you know what your love language is or your partner's? There's a quiz on the 5 love languages website.
Those are just a few things off the top of my head. I'm not against masterbation. I just think some people do it too often and most could use their time more productively. And haven't you heard that you can go blind if you masterbate too much? lol.
PS- Reading and masterbating while viewing my femdom blog is allowed. Other than that, see the list above. =)
Good tips. I notice guys drink a lot at my bar while waiting for their mistresses. Although good for business, it's counterproductive to a good session. Often their mistress gets angry at them for being drunk, too.
ReplyDeleteAlcohol affects how a person behaves, the speech, their walk, and it also affects the amount of sensation their body can feel. Which are all counter-productive to a Mistress. They should either stay out of the bar or bring something else to do such as a journal to write in, something to read or maybe even something to do on their smartphone if they have to wait at one place and can't go anywhere.
ReplyDeleteI can’t help but Ps then. Your words are like milk unto my soul, and the photos you bless me with like a meal unto my existence.. I can’t help but feel selfish in this endeavor, hoping to one day repay the debt I am currently creating with my eyes reading each word you type.
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