My art of a troublemaker

I'm artistic. Here's some art I made for my idea for a cartoon character. I call him "The Troublemaker".

"Mistress Lisa drew me alive so I'm taking over this blog now. Heh heh heh." Lol.

Owned sissy sub

 

You need to be owned by a great Mistress (Me) who will desire you and guide you to be Hers. It'll give you more purpose and help satisfy your need to please, submit, be accepted, feminized, trained and appreciated. I understand gurls like you.

My feet in fishnets

 

My lovely feet in fishnets. 

"Come into my web", she invited her prey.

Challlenge accomplished

 

"He was defiant. He challenged me and said there's no way I could kidnap him and force him to be my submissive sissy gurl. He was wrong! Soon he'll learn I'm always right. I know what's best for him. Sometimes that little male ego just gets in the way. That's why he'll be trained as my permanent sissy slave now. He'll learn to accept it. He has to. Anyway, the tattoo artist is coming over tomorrow so that I can mark my new property with my name. "Mistress Lisa" will be on his ass by tomorrow night. Hmm...maybe you're next! In the meantime, I'll see you in your sissy dreams."

Service and femdom society story

I imagine it's a Mistress being massaged by her devoted sub.

"Ask not what your Goddess can do to you, ask yourself what you can do for your Goddess."

I think lifestyle femdom should be "female centric" meaning the male should concern himself with how he can serve her better, rather than his thoughts being focused on his kinks or what she can do to him. ('male centric').

Sure she may have kinky fantasies and interests of her own, but I think it's best if the sub strives to think of how he can help make her life easier, more enjoyable and show that he appreciates her, as well as doing as She says. 

About a good fictional story I read:

Long ago, I once had a writer privately share an erotic femdom story he wrote about a private femdom society on an island where women ruled and males were always submissive. They also allowed select visitors such as males who were interested in living there but were vetted first. This isn't a society based on male fantasies such as the common stereotypical one of a place of cruel leather wearing dominant women with whips degrading males who are like naked extreme slaves and treating them like animals or objects to order around, humiliate or beat. 

(The OWK that was in the Czech Republic was an example of a place/compound that claimed to be a "real private state" where women ruled but looked to be based on male fantasies of cruelty, cfnm, and degradation, most likely to make money off the men visiting and off their videos and photos. And no group of women, couples and males permanently lived there.)

No, the femdom island society I am talking about in the story I read is more upscale and focused more on what most females really want. A real female-led society where males are submissive yet intelligent, well dressed according to what she likes, and very focused on her and doing things to be of service or show appreciation.

In this society, there was a rule among the loving femdom couples that the women were in charge of sex and sexual desires, and the males were in charge of romance...being romantic. And this worked extremely well in the femdom society. The dominant women felt appreciated and in control, and the males also felt appreciated for their efforts of doing romantic things and acts of service, and enjoyed being under her control. 

Another understood rule on the island was that all males were to drink the golden nectar from the woman that was in charge of him. This helped to keep him humble and understand his place. And that drinking from her was expected but an honor. And before coming to the island, a single male would have to be invited by a woman who lived there and who wanted to be his Mistress or Governess and he would be vetted in a hotel room where he would be talked to, tested for obedience and also told to drink from her body. This also helped to stop some fake male subs who were actually news reporters trying to sneak on the island for a story covering this mysterious unique island that was said to be matriarchal and full of loving Female-led couples and also very peaceful. 

(I wish I could find the exact story of this femdom island but it was very long ago.)

On a slightly related note, you might enjoy my website of my idea for having a real matriarchal cohousing community for those in loving Female-led relationships. Visit FemalesRule.com

Big cock

Mistress, how big is your cock?

Answer: Here I'll show you...

It's a pretty big cock. Lol.

Self improvement

 

Noone is perfect. We're all on the road to self improvement.

Love endures

 

Every rose has its thorns. If you can't handle any thorns that come up and try to navigate around them and hold on, then did you really deserve the rose? 

Love endures. "The only way to endure is to forgive, over and over, to give back that openness and possibility for new beginning which is the very essence of love itself. And in such a way love comes full circle."

I believe one should be open to forgiving and attempt to understand others. Sometimes it can take some time but it's good to try.

Sissymaid dress up fun

Sissy shopping helps make me happy. I love shopping for feminine things for a sub and imagining putting it on him. I bought some new nails a few days ago to apply to a sub. I've never tried applying nails on a sub but I think it could be fun. Hmm...will they get to be on you?

The 2 on the right are new. The 1 on the left I had and that one is easy stick-on nails. 

They seem to all match the pink sissymaid outfit I own:

One of the 8 sissymaid outfits I own. This one is my most elaborate, most satiny, and frilliest. I also love pink on a sub. Can there be anything more sissy? :)

Do you need some titties too? Ut oh...your nipple is peaking out. Lol. ;)

I also love pink chastity devices and some delicate lace-topped thigh high stockings on a sub. Whether in white stockings 

or black ones...

So sexy and so sissy! 

I love helping to transform and encourage a sub to bring out their softer feminine side and explore together in person. Dress up is so fun!

Sissy bitch

 

You are a sissy sub. Deal with it.

You'll still get plenty of fucking...done to you.

"Ride it like a good slut."

"I'm balls deep in you. You're my sissy bitch. I own your ass. You'll take my fem cock whenever I want!"

Surrendering

 

Only by surrendering control can you discover freedom.

And real submission to Me is so incredibly attractive and sexy and helps fulfill my needs and desires for dominance, worship and control. 

Caged subs

 

(Mistress checking that her sissy sub is in panties and chastity.) "Lift up your dress, sissy, and let me see."

All males should be in chastity and under control of a woman. And having control helps bring out her smile.

"Do not worry, sissy. You'll get used to it."

You want to be locked in chastity. All snug and under lock and key and have a Mistress to surrender to. 

Mistress cares and puts you in chastity, lingerie and makeup to bring out your sissy best and be sexy and pretty for her. And you know you'll love the feeling of being her sexy gurl.

Serving me at home

 

"I'll take some iced tea and a foot massage now, sissy. And then you can back to your chores like a good gurl."

Dressing up

 

That would be me: I love crossdressing subs and think it's hot, sexy and fun. I love having a sub model different outfits or lingerie for me. And I'd love to go shopping with a sub for outfits, lingerie, shoes, makeup, etc. I also think it would be fun to go to the spa with a sub one day. Let's get girly together.

S & M and Caning

For the masochists and unruly males out there in the world...

Some males just need a severe beating sometimes to reinforce that their place is on their knees. And I do love caning and have a sadistic side...

Some of my canes.

The Whangee cane with the many notches is my latest favorite since it stings and hurts alot. Bend over, slave! (Devious laugh)

I own it. Chastity helps you

 

That little locked up clitty cock belongs to Me. You really should be thankful that chastity is helping you please Me. You've had the power over it for too long. It's My turn!

Now let me explain the situation:

Now go put on the chastity cage now!!

Alice in Wonderland party

One of my ideas for the future is to have a kinky Alice in Wonderland tea party for kinky ladies and served by a sissy sub or two. Maybe I'll do it for a future big birthday party. It'll be great fun.

Here is the Alice in Wonderland outfit that I already have for a sub. I have it all...the dress, petticoat, wig and stockings:

Do you want to dress up cute like Alice and serve tea and snacks at a future party? I also have a pink Cheshire cat costume for a sub and a Queen of Hearts costume for Me.

Some interesting themed finger sandwiches that are cool to make and serve to ladies.

I like to have fun imaginative parties. It's been a few years since I've had theme parties for my kinky friends but I hope to do parties again in the future.

On a related note, if you want to see one of my past themed parties, check out my post about my "Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory" birthday party for me with my kinky friends. That was so much fun!

Marked and Owned

 

A couple of male subs written on by their dommes they have served.

If you serve me in person very well and prove you're a great sub for me then one day I may decide to write on you stating that you're my sissy slut.

And then over time those temporary marks may just turn into practice for the real thing. The day will come when I decide to see you prove how serious you are and I'll place a permanent tattoo or brand claiming you as Mine. It will please me to see you marked as my little sissy bitch for us and anyone to see. You'll be my collared owned sissy gurl for life. It's your destiny. You want this. It's an honor to show you belong to Me.

Topping from the bottom - articles

 Here are some good articles to read on "topping from the bottom". 

- 5 ways to recognize topping from the bottom.

-Ways in which feeding dominance is not topping from the bottom.

Procrastinating on your domme's commands for no valid reason can be a form of "topping from the bottom". If I give a sub a command or assignment then I expect it done soon, not when the sub feels like it some day in the future at his leisure. The sub really needs to decide if he does want to be in a Female-led relationship with the domme and also value what she wants and wants her control or not. A submissive being obedient to her wishes is also a show of respect to her. Strive to do your absolute best for Her.

Laboring for Mistress

 Happy Labor Day, everyone!

Sissy kitty gets taken

I imagine it's Halloween night and they've both dressed up as sexy kittens and came home at night after a party for some of their own fun...

"Meow for me, my cute sissy kitten."

Strapon sucking

 

It's a sissy sub's duty to suck Mistress' fem cock whenever She wants. 

Whether freely as above

Or restrained and forced...

"That's a good gurl. Suck your Owner's fem cock to show you love it and accept your place."

Sissymaid training

 

A lovely sissymaid taking care of Mistress' home like a good gurl.

Hugging

I'm human and sometimes I just need a warm hug from someone who cares about me, and it's especially heightened due to all of the social distancing I've had over the past 1.5 years. Also, I believe I heard that humans are best with at least 3 hugs a day. That means I'm due about 1642.5 hugs. I'd like to cash in please. Lol. One good hug would be nice for starters.

Mmmm...