Service and femdom society story

I imagine it's a Mistress being massaged by her devoted sub.

"Ask not what your Goddess can do to you, ask yourself what you can do for your Goddess."

I think lifestyle femdom should be "female centric" meaning the male should concern himself with how he can serve her better, rather than his thoughts being focused on his kinks or what she can do to him. ('male centric').

Sure she may have kinky fantasies and interests of her own, but I think it's best if the sub strives to think of how he can help make her life easier, more enjoyable and show that he appreciates her, as well as doing as She says. 

About a good fictional story I read:

Long ago, I once had a writer privately share an erotic femdom story he wrote about a private femdom society on an island where women ruled and males were always submissive. They also allowed select visitors such as males who were interested in living there but were vetted first. This isn't a society based on male fantasies such as the common stereotypical one of a place of cruel leather wearing dominant women with whips degrading males who are like naked extreme slaves and treating them like animals or objects to order around, humiliate or beat. 

(The OWK that was in the Czech Republic was an example of a place/compound that claimed to be a "real private state" where women ruled but looked to be based on male fantasies of cruelty, cfnm, and degradation, most likely to make money off the men visiting and off their videos and photos. And no group of women, couples and males permanently lived there.)

No, the femdom island society I am talking about in the story I read is more upscale and focused more on what most females really want. A real female-led society where males are submissive yet intelligent, well dressed according to what she likes, and very focused on her and doing things to be of service or show appreciation.

In this society, there was a rule among the loving femdom couples that the women were in charge of sex and sexual desires, and the males were in charge of romance...being romantic. And this worked extremely well in the femdom society. The dominant women felt appreciated and in control, and the males also felt appreciated for their efforts of doing romantic things and acts of service, and enjoyed being under her control. 

Another understood rule on the island was that all males were to drink the golden nectar from the woman that was in charge of him. This helped to keep him humble and understand his place. And that drinking from her was expected but an honor. And before coming to the island, a single male would have to be invited by a woman who lived there and who wanted to be his Mistress or Governess and he would be vetted in a hotel room where he would be talked to, tested for obedience and also told to drink from her body. This also helped to stop some fake male subs who were actually news reporters trying to sneak on the island for a story covering this mysterious unique island that was said to be matriarchal and full of loving Female-led couples and also very peaceful. 

(I wish I could find the exact story of this femdom island but it was very long ago.)

On a slightly related note, you might enjoy my website of my idea for having a real matriarchal cohousing community for those in loving Female-led relationships. Visit FemalesRule.com