Paddling

Here's another photo from the web that I like. In my dungeon, I also have some paddles like hers.

Some boys just need a good incentive to behave better next time. I believe a punishment has to hurt so that it's remembered.
It also reminds me of a good quote I read online from a domme:
“To me, a sensual, loving domme recognizes her lover's need to be guided and reprimanded. Some men have way too much freedom in this world and run wild within that and they need a strong woman to remind them of what is good behavior.”

When was the last time you've been over a Woman's knee?

"Oh...Stop squirming, sissy,

this is for your own good!"

Some Funnies

Some funny things I came across that are related to strapons...

Sign says "Do not disturb. It's disturbing enough."

I like to keep kinky things around my house but this is a little too much even for me. =)

(I of course think she shouldn't stop but should make him her obedient bitch instead.)

Link of the day: Worshipping your wife

I found another blog I like (besides Mine of course), so here's the
Link of the Day: http://worshippingyourwife.blogspot.com/

“If you want your wife to be a Goddess, worship her.”
— Clairette de Longvilliers

(by the way, I'm looking for a long fan like that. I just have big handheld fans right now, which are good but I do enjoy many ways of being pampered.)

Her new property

(My thoughts of kidnapping a male are strong today.) ;)

Her new acquisition has arrived. Her associate has done well this time. "Shall I take him to his new cage?" she says. "Yes do so. I will mark him and then I have to return to my office and then will use him tonight. Be sure to make sure he's throughly checked out medically while I'm gone."

Time to brand her mark on him. He's now part of her household.

He's restrained tightly while she inspects every inch of the new slave. "You're very tight. Your Mistress will delight in the fact that you have a virgin ass for her to take."

"Come with Me, slave, so I can try you out my new property and see how well you behave."

His first lesson: sucking his new Mistress' cock. "Do well and show Me that you have a skilled mouth and accept your new place. And then I'll keep you and let you cum. But if you don't do well, you're really going to wish you had. Now open up wider, my little slut."

"That's a good boy."

One husband's daily routine

Hello,
I read this wonderful account of one submissive husband's daily routine with his wife so I thought I would share it. He wrote:

"My submissive life is just beginning so I am still developing a daily routine; following is what I get to do so far. I would really appreciate any ideas anyone has for new ways to treat my beautiful princess.
The alarm clock is on my side of the bed so I wake my love at whatever time she has instructed. I wake her by gently rubbing her neck, back and shoulders. Once she is awake I go and start her shower after it is nice and warm I return to the bedside and let her know her shower is ready. I then take a towel and pop it into the clothes dryer and turn it on wrinkle release, a quick warming cycle. While her towel is warming I go and prepare something light to eat, yogurt, a bagel, toast or a muffin. I get my queen a cup of coffee, a little sugar and a little cream. I hurry back to the bathroom with her warm towel and light breakfast, I don't want her to finish with her shower before I return. I sometimes get to help her dry but generally I just leave the items. I make the bed, pick up her pajamas from the floor, fold them and place them on the counter in the bathroom for the next days use. My love always sleeps in the nude and drops her pj's on the floor as she is getting into bed at night. When my wife has finished getting ready for work, I pick up her towel and straighten the bathroom. I take her dishes back to the kitchen; I wash the dishes after she has gone. I start her car and make sure the temperature controls are set at a comfortable level. If she has indicated she wants, I pack something for her to take for lunch. I walk her to the door, I kiss her, tell her how beautiful she is, I address her as my queen and tell her how much I love her. I also thank her for allowing me to serve her needs. After she leaves I go the computer and send her an email that will be waiting for her to arrive at work. In the email I greet her as "My Beautiful, Beautiful Princess" and I open with a "Good Morning", I again tell her how beautiful she is (I don't think I can say this too much), I tell her that providing happiness is my purpose, I state that my desire is to serve her. I always share my hope that she has a great day, I tell her that I love her and I close by addressing myself as "your loving, obedient husband". I do this everyday without fail. I do all of the laundry, I do most of the housework and I cook most of the meals. Every night my queen gets a foot massage; I like to set aside at least an hour for this pampering. I am so happy in this new lifestyle, I love serving my dominant wife. Life is Good!"

--Such a good boy. To all: If you live with the special woman of your life, how do you show her you care and are her adoring servant?

Related article: "What is service?"

More Sardax femdom art

More femdom illustrations I like by Sardax. These particular ones involve feet in some way.

A submissive male admiring the feet of his domme/wife.

"Oh I told you if you'd come home with Me, I'd let my beautiful feet touch you and tease your cock. I always keep my word."

A Woman relaxes while surrounded by her adoring slaves.

Fetish Con and Latex Vacuum Bondage

Sorry I haven't posted in awhile but I've been busy. One of the events I went to was FetishCon in tampa, florida. While it's not my favorite bdsm conference I go to, I do enjoy browsing the toys and corsets of the kinky vendors, as well as educating myself through their various bdsm classes. This time my favorite new classes were Plastic Wrap Suspension (yes people can be suspended via plastic wrap) and also a Latex Vacuum Bondage class. The latex vacuum bondage was taught by KinkEngineering.com and featured their Vac Beds and Vac Cubes.

The uniqueness of the stuff that KinkEngineering produces is that they can create just about anything you want (colors, decals, unique pieces) and all their stuff doesn't require a vacuum to be hooked up and turned on all the time. Now as some of you have read in my past blog post, I currently own a VacBed but not made by KinkEngineering. Mine is still good though and features a hole for the mouth/breathing and a hole for a cock to peek through. I did love playing with a couple guys in their VacCubes so I hope to get one of those some day as well. I had fun flipping the VacCube over so that I can access different parts of a guy's body and me and a domme friend applying ice, spanking and tickling to some guys while they were in it. It was fun. =)

Kowtow slave position

If you read my post on slave positions, you'll know that I like to see a male greet Me in the Kowtow position. Here's another photo of that position.

I feel it shows the proper level of respect and humbleness that a sub/slave should show towards his Goddess.

A little history lesson:
"Kowtow is the act of deep respect shown by kneeling and bowing so low as to have one's head touching the ground. ...In Han Chinese culture, the kowtow is the highest sign of reverence. It was widely used to show reverence for one's elders, superiors, and especially the Emperor, as well as for religious and cultural objects of worship. In modern times, usage of the kowtow has become much reduced."
-wikipedia

(I'm doing my part to help bring the position back. ;) )

A strapon collage I made

A strapon collage I made using photos I like. One day I hope to have a live-in male slut/slave/partner in a loving Female-led relationship.

Loving Femdom couple

Tenderness and masculinity displayed in an unusual way. (It makes me think he's sitting on her lap with her strapon cock deep inside him as they lovingly kiss.) Usually you see photos of women sitting on men so I found this image particularly refreshing. Plus I just love black and white (and sepia toned) images.

A loving couple enjoying a tender embrace. (he's such a good boy for her. And he feels safe in her arms, like a warm blanket enveloping him...knowing he belongs to Her)

Foot worship

I just love receiving foot worship. Even the cartoons are doing it. =)

Masculinity and Submission

It seems to me that some people (usually males) have the stereotype that most submissive males are weak or doormats and I think that could be the furthest from the truth. From my 15 years of experience of being into Femdom and from running a Femdomme/malesub munch for 8 years, I can tell you that the male subs that I have met have been wonderful individuals, not weaklings. And personally I think it takes good self-awareness to realize who you are and it takes strength for a male to go against what mainstream society says they should be (the stereotype of males being macho or in charge all the time), and instead put aside all that crap and fully submit to the Woman in his life. That he embraces a confident Woman's guidance and strength and wants to please Her.

Here's some quotes I've collected over the years from various people on the topic of male submission and that I agree with or like:

* "There is little in this world more beautiful than a male submissive, confident in his sexuality, desire and choice." (quote written by a woman)

* "There is nothing more beautiful than a man who will give some of his light so that you may shine." (quote written by a woman)

* "i know a lot of male submissives who are only submissive to one person.(depending on their inclination male or female) to the rest of the human race, they are totally male and many of them are alpha type guys. to be submissive to a person in a relationship doesn't mean being submissive to the rest of the world." (quote written by a male)

* "I am a male slave and have been off and on for years (am a switch but lean more towards the submissives side with the right Mistress). However, I am extremely masculine - I was taught to be a gentleman and Chivalrous to the lady I am with (and that most defiantly includes the Mistress that owns me). I will go out and fight for my Mistress and bring her back what ever it is she wants and then kneel at her feet and let her take anything else she wants as my body and mind is hers to do with as she sees fit.” (quote written by a male)

* "Remember that submission is not thinking less of yourself... but thinking of yourself, less. And what could be more beautiful than a male really wanting to please a woman and do whatever it takes to make her happy." -Me (Mistress Lisa)

* "A smart woman does not judge her man by society's standards. The only standard that matters is if he makes her happy." (quote by a woman)

"I adore you mistress, I will lay at your feet, obedient and humble, submissive to your wishes." - Mark Antony to Cleopatra 69 - 30 B.C

Tender moment

I've always loved black and white photos. This one I like also for the fact that it looks like a tender moment where she's embracing him while partly laying on top of him...her arm over him and he looks like he belongs to her. They both look like they're having a tender moment and are both satisfied. (Now in my kinky mind I also think it's because She's just got done pegging his cute butt and they're both worn out, happy and content now as they enjoy a close embrace together.)

She owns his ass

This is Mine.
Side note: I just love seeing a strong masculine back and cute ass. And I love how She looks like she's confident in knowing that he belongs to Her. She's showing off what's Hers.

Today's mood

Today's mood: feeling pampered and happy.

Worshipping his Goddess

A femdom drawing I came across that shows a male worshipping his african Queen. It's actually unusual for me to find african american women in femdom related art (not sure why that is) so I thought I'd post it. And coincidentally her goddess clothing reminds me of the photo of me from 2009.

Categories added

fyi...I just added Categories to my blog. You'll see them in the right column. That way you can find my blog posts by topic (ie: strapon, foot worship, photos of me, photos of my stuff (like toys/playspace), bondage, kidnapping (a male), pampering, etc.)

CFNM Party

I'm excited. I'm going to my first CFNM party later this week. CFNM means "Clothed Female, Nude Male". According to the party invitation: "This party is for the ladies: to tease, taunt, and otherwise torture the nude male attendees. The men are there to serve and amuse us ladies; ladies are gathered to subject the men to our whimsical desires. We will have a couple of fun organized little party games meant to humilate the boys." Oh it sounds fun.

Worship my Femdom cock

Not me but a photo off the web that I like..."Come on. Open your little mouth and show Me what a little slut you are for Me. you know you want to try it. Be My whore."

Why We need Women to rule our world

Interesting Link of the Day:
A video on youtube called
"Why We Need Women To Rule Our World"

Pic of the day: houseboy

One of the benefits of having a houseboy/slave is being able to feel up the help whenever She wants. (Ooh he does has a cute ass that looks very grabbable.)

Link of the day

Link of the day: http://www.xdress.com It's a site that sells feminine or sexy things for males to wear. I just love it when a male sub wears something sexy for me.

Here's some of the items that I like from that site:



(Each image links to the corresponding page on their site. Simply close that window to return back here)

Quotes of the day

Some good quotes I like by Walt Disney:

“The more you like yourself, the less you are like anyone else, which makes you unique.”

"Too many people grow up. That's the real trouble with the world, too many people grow up. They forget. They don't remember what it's like to be 12 years old.”

"If you can dream it, you can do it. Always remember that this whole thing was started with a dream and a mouse.”

"Think, Believe, Dream, and Dare."

"When you're curious, you find lots of interesting things to do.”

(he's certainly right about that last one and all the other quotes. If someone is bored all the time, all that says to me is that they're not very curious about life. Create some fun, learn new things, and take the time to enjoy life. And if you're not like other people then celebrate that. Why be "normal" afterall?)

Superheroes

WonderWoman versus Superman. Who would win? My guess is on WonderWoman. And if he was smart then Superman would surrender to her. Why settle for boring Louise Lane when he could be with WonderWoman? Speaking of superheroes, I came across this image/book online about the fetish art from the co-creator of Superman:
Available on amazon.com
I like the cover art...the strong Superman being overpowered and then trained to do as she wishes. The style of art/characters also reminds me of another artist I posted about recently, Puyal. Here's a few examples of his work:

Yes Superman should be taken and put in his place. Where is WonderWoman these days? For Me, I've always known I wanted a male slave but I do acknowledge that watching WonderWoman on tv did help me to have a bit of a role model. I liked how she would rope and trap a male so he was helpless. I think girls need more strong female role models these days. Hmmm...I wonder if society will ever get to a point where there would be cartoons or shows for girls specifically made to influence them to conquer or control boys? That could help change things.

And I think that if WonderWoman did exist in real life these days, she'd probably be alot like Me when it comes to relationships...wanting to be in control and liking seeing a male helpless beneath her. Doing whatever She wants with him.




Oh yes...WonderWoman rocks and her spirit still lives on. =)

The First Bite

The way you walk...you are so sure of yourself and filled with confidence. I see you walk in the darkness with the moonlight highlighting you from above. You get closer to me. I feel my desire growing...wanting a taste of your flesh, your blood. Soon I will have you near me and get my first taste of you, as I sink my teeth into your delicate flesh. Close your eyes, I whisper. It will be over soon and you will be Mine. It's what you want too.