Bdsm Quiz

Here's an interesting quiz I came across:
"Do you have an inclination for bdsm?"

I Scored as Dominant.
"It's nice to be in charge and get what you want. And being in a position where people will do what you say is exciting."

Dominant: 100%
Sadist: 75%
Experimental: 61%
Bondage: 25%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur: 25%
Vanilla: 25%
Degradation Lover: 11%
Submissive: 0%
Masochist: 0%
Switch: 0%

Valentine's

Valentine's day is coming. Worship your Goddess.

Characteristics I seek

Some characteristics I seek: Honesty, Integrity, Loyalty, Submissiveness, Intelligence, Respectfulness, Usefulness, Openmindedness, Reliability, Thoughtfulness, Sincerity. Ask yourself if you have those qualities or could learn to develop them so I do not waste my time with you.

I'm back

I'm finally back online after a long break. I moved and it took longer than expected to get my new internet connection established in my new home in naples florida so I haven't been online since christmas. Glad to be back now. Happy new year to everyone by the way. And I'm still unpacking and also setting up my new home and larger dungeon (converting the garage) but everything is coming along great!

Happy Holidays

Merry Christmas!

such a nice present

Kept

So helpless, so vulnerable, so kept...MmmmmI'm going to love getting my hands on you. I'm going to keep you captive and teach you to be my perfect slave and slut. you look so sexy just waiting for Me, your new owner.

Strapons

Since I have a strapon fucking on my mind tonight (which is not unusual for nighttime), I'll share a few photos I like. Enjoy. ;)

BDSM conference in April 2010

I am planning to go to the "Beyond Leather" bdsm conference on April 23-25, 2010 in Fort Lauderdale florida and will be looking for someone to go with and share a hotel room with. It's not until April 2010 so there's plenty of time. I went to the first one in 2008 for this annual event and it was alot of fun. It had bdsm vendors, many bdsm workshops/classes, bdsm theater performances at night, nice hotel, dungeon space, etc. I've gone to alot of bdsm conferences over the past 10 years in various cities but this one had a nice exciting atmosphere to it.

I could use a laugh

Here's some funnies I like:

Since I do not dominate women, I just imagine that last image is a cute sissy forced to bend over.

12 good traits to have

These were on my mind today...

Femdom Article of the Day:
The 12 traits of a good slave/husband (inspired by scout law)
(once you click that above link it'll open in a new window. Close that window to return here)

Quote of the day:
“True strength lies in submission which permits one to dedicate his life, through devotion, to something beyond himself.”
- Henry Miller, American author and writer, 1891 -1980.

(I have that quote hanging up on the wall in my dungeon/playspace)

Update on sub hunt in woods

I'm shutting down the FemDomme/malesub munch that I ran for the past almost 8 years since interest is low and I'm busy in my personal life trying to buy a house, femdom, and creating my art. Last night I had the last event for my munch/group. It was a holiday party and enjoyable. It was good to see old friends and a couple new people and also the kinky gift exchange was very fun. It was a combined event with another local munch.

One of the members of that munch offered his home with 3 acres to have an event at for the other munch. He was looking for ideas so I told him about my idea of a Sub Hunt and he said he has the private woods to do it in so I'm excited. It looks like I could possibly make this one a reality. He even said he has a little fenced in corral area that I could use as a holding pen for captured subs. =)

Here's a photo I found on the web that reminded me of the sub hunt idea.
"you think you could run and hide in the woods and not be captured by us dommes. silly boy".

Visas to the US

I've had some males visit me from other states and countries in the past. People out out the country usually ask me if they need a visa or not to visit me in the United States. Here's a website I know that tells about Visas: http://travel.state.gov/visa/visa_1750.html

The US does have a program called "Visa Waiver Program" that allows visitors from 35 specific countries (ie: Australia, United Kingdom, Spain, etc.) to temporarily visit the US for up to 90 days without a visa for the purpose of business or pleasure. See the above link for more info.

Also no visas are needed for citizens of Canada, Mexico or the Bahamas. Residents of other countries should research info for their country.(example: Africa, Greece, etc.)

Amusing Kidnapping Photos

As some of you can tell from my previous blog entry about kidnapping and my capturedmales.com site I'm developing, one of my Femdom fantasies is kidnapping a male and turning him into my captive slave. Here's a few kidnap play photos that amuse Me.

For the left photo I think: While shopping for the holidays, I found a great present just for Myself. What every woman needs...a captured male to become an obedient slave. Next year I'll just need to ask Santa for a new car with a bigger trunk. ha. ;)
For the right photo I think: Wow they're having a great sale at Bloomingdale's. I'll have to treat myself to a shopping trip as a reward for having done such a nice job at kidnapping you, slave.

Femdom related Ads

Here's some Ads for shoes and accessories. They look like they have a strong Femdom leaning. One boy looks like he's submissively waiting on the floor for his Mistress' arrival with his head bowed. And the other male looks forcefully controlled by a Woman. So nice.

Realize your potential in a Female-led relationship

Worshipping his Mistress and being useful to Her means that
he becomes an asset to Her and enables him to have purpose, care, structure, discipline/accountability and helps soothe his submissive soul (his need to please a woman and help make her happy).

Be My Footrest, slave

Over the years, I've been collecting photos on my computer of UNIQUE bdsm furniture I like, with the hopes that I'll be able to find a way to incorporate some of them into my larger home in the future. In my previous entry, you've already seen the cage bed I like. Here's another example of something I liked to have.
There's nothing like restraining a slave to be My real footrest...all nice and trapped and available to me whenever I want. So good to have some useful furniture to kick My feet up on after a long day. =)

This illustration by Sardax also reminds me of the above furniture piece but I think the above one would be more secure. I'd keep you in shackles and use your face as I please. You're not going anywhere until I say. "Shhh...no talking, my little captive toy. Furniture should be seen and not heard" I say as I shove My lovely foot in your mouth.

Cage bed

Here's a photo I found on the web of a bed that I would love to have in my new dungeon. I like that the slave would be trapped in a cage underneath Me. Lots of possibilities for teasing him too. Another use would be to restrain a slave on top of the bed and tie rope to the poles.
(It doesn't look like it would be that hard to make. I already have a full-sized futon mattress pad that I could use on top.)

Sardax's illustrations

Being an artist and a domme, I am especially drawn to Femdom illustrations. Sardax is one of my favorites. Here's some examples of his illustrations I enjoy. Above: I think I sense some fear in his eyes...Mmm.
And nicely wrapped and hard too. He's going to make such a fun toy to train and play with.


The left photo: I can think of a couple males I'd love to slap across the face hard. The right photo: To me, it looks like an image from processing a newly arrived captured male slave. They check out his teeth, tongue length, sensitivities, prod his hole, milk him, chastise him and document his stats for future reference in a file. He's then taken to the dungeon for some training and tests of compliance.

Before and After training

Before training: Fresh meat newly arrived. He's a little angry that a Woman outsmarted him, kidnapped him and restrained him but his anger and spunk only amuses Me. Soon he'll learn.

After training: Now his life has some purpose. He's being used and taught how to serve his superior. He's at his rightful place, his slave soul gets the feeling of fulfillment, purpose and he's also owned and loved. What more can a male want? Fulfilling his destiny to serve a strict dominant superior Woman like Me is what he's here for. 
Related:
-during training he'll learn slave positions

You're Mine tonight

Sometimes I imagine coming for you at night and taking you against your will

Male Chastity

This summary is not available. Please click here to view the post.

Pampered at party

I came across this photo and it reminded me of a similar photo that was taken of me a few years ago at a Femdom Tea Party I hosted in my home. I had a black feathered Victorian hat on and was drinking something. The only difference was that I had one sub using a large black feather fan to fan Me and I had two subs massaging my feet. A sub there spontaneously wanted to take a photo of me with his camera but unfortunately later told me his roll of film got ruined so I never did get the photo of Me. Oh well...I still had a great time and this photo reminded me of it.

Tantric Buddhism's worship of the Female

I received this interesting note from someone...

"I have been interested in Female Superiority and it's spiritual connection for quite a while. I have just finished a book which you may or may not be aware of. The title is "Passionate Enlightenment, Women in Tantric Buddhism" by Miranda Shaw.
Here are a few quotes from Chapter 6:

"...the man should prostrate to the Woman, rub Her feet, cook for Her, feed Her, and wait until She has eaten to partake of Her leftovers."

"The following statement becomes his prayer of aspiration" :
"I must practice devotion to Women, until I realize the essence of enlightenment".

There are other statements pointing to the male gender to worship the Female. Thought it would be of interest."

(very interesting indeed. But hopefully once they become "enlightened" they will not stop practicing devotion to Women. For that I believe brings about more enlightenment, usefulness and purpose to a male's life.)

Foreign Ads

Here's some foreign ads that came across as having a Femdom leaning to me. As far as I can tell the german billboard ad above translates into "Recommended by Huttenwarten". I'm not sure what the product is but I like their recommendation of foot and toe licking. =) Lick away, germans, lick away! =)
As for the bottom right ad of the male adoring the woman's leg on the table, I believe that one translates into "And you forget all the rest". nice. He does look very into what he's doing and that's always good to see. And I thought that the Epson ad in the bottom left about the thin scanner was funny. You don't see those kinds of ads everyday. Hmmm...I wonder if there were more ads with femdom leanings if they'd encourage males to be more submissive towards women or it would be more acceptable in the mainstream society.

Nipple play

I find this photo to be sexy. She looks dominant in this photo since she's just about to squeeze his nipple and is the one on top about to kiss him. I also enjoy that they look like a loving couple.

As for nipple play, I do enjoy playing with a male's nipples. But certain male subs have nipples that are more sensitive than others. I find that the ones that have sensitive nipples are easier to control and absolutely love my touch.

Time for your Spanking

You know your naughty little ass needs to be punished.
I doubt you've been an angel lately. Confess to Me your wrongdoings.
What's the difference between discipline and punishment?
Discipline - regular discipline keeps you in line so you don't get a big head. Or it could be just because I'm in the mood to put you over my knee.
Punishment - you are punished for your wrongdoings. you take it to try to make amends for your bad behavior. The intensity can be higher. And you can be punished through physical means or other ways such as assignments or withholding pain if you're a masochist. Some examples of wrongdoings could be that you didn't show up on time, weren't paying enough attention to your Mistress, forgot to wear your panties or you came without permission, etc.

Other/exception:
Sensual spanking - done in a way that incorporates pleasure, playfulness or sensuality. For example, in the bottom left photo above I could be slowly caressing your bottom over my knee and lightly spanking you. It can be done to heighten the eroticism or sensitivity, or to show the dynamic of the relationship by putting you in a submissive position/mode.

Smiling for strapons

.
You can tell that she's enjoying what she's doing. I certainly do when I take a male sub with My strapon cock or double ended dildo. I especially love penetrating a new male sub for the first time. And/or restraining a sub in some way so he's forced to take it so I can rape his little lubed ass. I also love grabbing a male's hips and pulling him towards Me so he feels My Femdom cock deep inside him. Turning him into My personal slut is such fun...and pleasurable for both. =)