Realize your potential in a Female-led relationship

Worshipping his Mistress and being useful to Her means that
he becomes an asset to Her and enables him to have purpose, care, structure, discipline/accountability and helps soothe his submissive soul (his need to please a woman and help make her happy).

Be My Footrest, slave

Over the years, I've been collecting photos on my computer of UNIQUE bdsm furniture I like, with the hopes that I'll be able to find a way to incorporate some of them into my larger home in the future. In my previous entry, you've already seen the cage bed I like. Here's another example of something I liked to have.
There's nothing like restraining a slave to be My real footrest...all nice and trapped and available to me whenever I want. So good to have some useful furniture to kick My feet up on after a long day. =)

This illustration by Sardax also reminds me of the above furniture piece but I think the above one would be more secure. I'd keep you in shackles and use your face as I please. You're not going anywhere until I say. "Shhh...no talking, my little captive toy. Furniture should be seen and not heard" I say as I shove My lovely foot in your mouth.

Cage bed

Here's a photo I found on the web of a bed that I would love to have in my new dungeon. I like that the slave would be trapped in a cage underneath Me. Lots of possibilities for teasing him too. Another use would be to restrain a slave on top of the bed and tie rope to the poles.
(It doesn't look like it would be that hard to make. I already have a full-sized futon mattress pad that I could use on top.)

Sardax's illustrations

Being an artist and a domme, I am especially drawn to Femdom illustrations. Sardax is one of my favorites. Here's some examples of his illustrations I enjoy. Above: I think I sense some fear in his eyes...Mmm.
And nicely wrapped and hard too. He's going to make such a fun toy to train and play with.


The left photo: I can think of a couple males I'd love to slap across the face hard. The right photo: To me, it looks like an image from processing a newly arrived captured male slave. They check out his teeth, tongue length, sensitivities, prod his hole, milk him, chastise him and document his stats for future reference in a file. He's then taken to the dungeon for some training and tests of compliance.

Before and After training

Before training: Fresh meat newly arrived. He's a little angry that a Woman outsmarted him, kidnapped him and restrained him but his anger and spunk only amuses Me. Soon he'll learn.

After training: Now his life has some purpose. He's being used and taught how to serve his superior. He's at his rightful place, his slave soul gets the feeling of fulfillment, purpose and he's also owned and loved. What more can a male want? Fulfilling his destiny to serve a strict dominant superior Woman like Me is what he's here for. 
Related:
-during training he'll learn slave positions

You're Mine tonight

Sometimes I imagine coming for you at night and taking you against your will

Male Chastity

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Pampered at party

I came across this photo and it reminded me of a similar photo that was taken of me a few years ago at a Femdom Tea Party I hosted in my home. I had a black feathered Victorian hat on and was drinking something. The only difference was that I had one sub using a large black feather fan to fan Me and I had two subs massaging my feet. A sub there spontaneously wanted to take a photo of me with his camera but unfortunately later told me his roll of film got ruined so I never did get the photo of Me. Oh well...I still had a great time and this photo reminded me of it.

Tantric Buddhism's worship of the Female

I received this interesting note from someone...

"I have been interested in Female Superiority and it's spiritual connection for quite a while. I have just finished a book which you may or may not be aware of. The title is "Passionate Enlightenment, Women in Tantric Buddhism" by Miranda Shaw.
Here are a few quotes from Chapter 6:

"...the man should prostrate to the Woman, rub Her feet, cook for Her, feed Her, and wait until She has eaten to partake of Her leftovers."

"The following statement becomes his prayer of aspiration" :
"I must practice devotion to Women, until I realize the essence of enlightenment".

There are other statements pointing to the male gender to worship the Female. Thought it would be of interest."

(very interesting indeed. But hopefully once they become "enlightened" they will not stop practicing devotion to Women. For that I believe brings about more enlightenment, usefulness and purpose to a male's life.)

Foreign Ads

Here's some foreign ads that came across as having a Femdom leaning to me. As far as I can tell the german billboard ad above translates into "Recommended by Huttenwarten". I'm not sure what the product is but I like their recommendation of foot and toe licking. =) Lick away, germans, lick away! =)
As for the bottom right ad of the male adoring the woman's leg on the table, I believe that one translates into "And you forget all the rest". nice. He does look very into what he's doing and that's always good to see. And I thought that the Epson ad in the bottom left about the thin scanner was funny. You don't see those kinds of ads everyday. Hmmm...I wonder if there were more ads with femdom leanings if they'd encourage males to be more submissive towards women or it would be more acceptable in the mainstream society.

Nipple play

I find this photo to be sexy. She looks dominant in this photo since she's just about to squeeze his nipple and is the one on top about to kiss him. I also enjoy that they look like a loving couple.

As for nipple play, I do enjoy playing with a male's nipples. But certain male subs have nipples that are more sensitive than others. I find that the ones that have sensitive nipples are easier to control and absolutely love my touch.

Time for your Spanking

You know your naughty little ass needs to be punished.
I doubt you've been an angel lately. Confess to Me your wrongdoings.
What's the difference between discipline and punishment?
Discipline - regular discipline keeps you in line so you don't get a big head. Or it could be just because I'm in the mood to put you over my knee.
Punishment - you are punished for your wrongdoings. you take it to try to make amends for your bad behavior. The intensity can be higher. And you can be punished through physical means or other ways such as assignments or withholding pain if you're a masochist. Some examples of wrongdoings could be that you didn't show up on time, weren't paying enough attention to your Mistress, forgot to wear your panties or you came without permission, etc.

Other/exception:
Sensual spanking - done in a way that incorporates pleasure, playfulness or sensuality. For example, in the bottom left photo above I could be slowly caressing your bottom over my knee and lightly spanking you. It can be done to heighten the eroticism or sensitivity, or to show the dynamic of the relationship by putting you in a submissive position/mode.

Smiling for strapons

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You can tell that she's enjoying what she's doing. I certainly do when I take a male sub with My strapon cock or double ended dildo. I especially love penetrating a new male sub for the first time. And/or restraining a sub in some way so he's forced to take it so I can rape his little lubed ass. I also love grabbing a male's hips and pulling him towards Me so he feels My Femdom cock deep inside him. Turning him into My personal slut is such fun...and pleasurable for both. =)

New delivery

Mmmm...I can imagine him as a new arrival/captive in my hallway.

Breakfast in bed

Another photo I like since it shows your proper place and some of the pampering/service I enjoy.

At my divine feet

Thank you to the submissive admirer from Egypt who sent me a photo he made. He took an existing photo of my feet and changed the words on the pillow to make this photo for me. That was a nice little surprise that put a smile on my face so thank you. I like subs who take time to do something nice for Me out of the blue.

Bahamas trip

I'm back from vacation. I spent Halloween weekend in the Bahamas with some friends. I went to Nassau, Bahamas and visited Atlantis in Paradise Island, Bahamas. I had lots of fun and am now feeling thoroughly relaxed. I spent time relaxing in the water at the beach, visited aquariums and exploring. It was a much needed break. Here's some photos from my trip.


(Personal photos were deleted for privacy sake)

Happy Halloween

Songs I like by Ne-Yo

I just love when songs mention or celebrate women in charge. Here's two songs I like by the artist Ne-Yo:
Miss Independent
and Closer by Ne-Yo
(they'll open in a new window)

Don't you dare move

Here's some photos that remind me of the statement "Don't you dare move". I just love restricting your movements.



You'll just love being under My control.
You have too much freedom as it is. Plus being a slave to a Woman
will make your life more exciting and fulfulling.
(Note: click each photo to enlarge it)
Quote I like: "Freedom was the desolate street i walked, until i was delivered to Her field."

Cops and Robbers

I never played "cops and robbers" growing up. But I'm in the mood to play it today. Although my version of "Cops and Robbers" is a little different. See below.

Now this is my idea of Cops...

Would you like to be pulled over, frisked and searched? ;)
(and yes I do have a cop outfit already. Roleplaying can be fun.)

And here's my idea of Robbers...

I really like this photo. I can imagine coming to you at night and taking you by surprise. I'm not your typical robber though. But you'll find out soon enough.

Puppy play

Unfortunately in my current condo I'm not allowed any real pets but I make do. In fact I love turning a male into my pet. I just love puppy play. Puppy subs can be such fun or humble. I love the look of a male in a metal cage, or in restraints, crawling, fetching, obeying my commands or drinking out of a bowl humbly.

Below is a photo of the strict Puppy Restraint System that I own. There's short chains secured to each of your ankles and wrists and then secured to your cock and balls. It'll help ensure that you stay on your hands and knees like a good dog for Me. No standing up for you. Just crawl for me, slave. You know you want to be My dog. Bark if you understand.

You're not going anywhere until I release you, My pet.