Happy Halloween

Songs I like by Ne-Yo

I just love when songs mention or celebrate women in charge. Here's two songs I like by the artist Ne-Yo:
Miss Independent
and Closer by Ne-Yo
(they'll open in a new window)

Don't you dare move

Here's some photos that remind me of the statement "Don't you dare move". I just love restricting your movements.



You'll just love being under My control.
You have too much freedom as it is. Plus being a slave to a Woman
will make your life more exciting and fulfulling.
(Note: click each photo to enlarge it)
Quote I like: "Freedom was the desolate street i walked, until i was delivered to Her field."

Cops and Robbers

I never played "cops and robbers" growing up. But I'm in the mood to play it today. Although my version of "Cops and Robbers" is a little different. See below.

Now this is my idea of Cops...

Would you like to be pulled over, frisked and searched? ;)
(and yes I do have a cop outfit already. Roleplaying can be fun.)

And here's my idea of Robbers...

I really like this photo. I can imagine coming to you at night and taking you by surprise. I'm not your typical robber though. But you'll find out soon enough.

Puppy play

Unfortunately in my current condo I'm not allowed any real pets but I make do. In fact I love turning a male into my pet. I just love puppy play. Puppy subs can be such fun or humble. I love the look of a male in a metal cage, or in restraints, crawling, fetching, obeying my commands or drinking out of a bowl humbly.

Below is a photo of the strict Puppy Restraint System that I own. There's short chains secured to each of your ankles and wrists and then secured to your cock and balls. It'll help ensure that you stay on your hands and knees like a good dog for Me. No standing up for you. Just crawl for me, slave. You know you want to be My dog. Bark if you understand.

You're not going anywhere until I release you, My pet.

Owned

Here's another photo I enjoy. I like that she's handling him like property. I just love possessing a slave and showing him that I can touch him whenever and wherever I want and he will be made to do whatever I want.

Cute butt

Here's a black & white photo I really like. For me, I imagine it's a domme slowly removing the bedsheet off of her male sub to reveal his cute butt for her viewing pleasure and possibly for some slow sensual strapon play.

Submissive versus slave

There has been some confusion or muddiness regarding the term "submissive" versus "slave". Here's some definitions which I tend to agree with.

"A submissive is someone who is or has a desire to be submissive to another, or a submissive personality or chooses a submissive role within a relationship.

A slave is someone who has a submissive desire and has entered into a relationship with a dominant personality and has grown in the relationship to a degree of trust and communication, that they feel comfortable giving 100% of their trust to the dominant person. They trust that the dominant partner will not harm them so they offer up their limits, or safeword (if they had them), as no longer needed, they have complete and unwavering trust in their dominant partner so they offer up their bodies and soul as property to the dominant partner."

I'm ultimately looking for a slave, but that can develop over time.

Submissive office boys

Some days when I'm in my office I imagine having some submissive office boys at my feet in my office. Especially since the company where I work has some very handsome male salespeople and they just keep hiring more. We must have the best looking sales team. Some are not that bright or are married but I imagine with a little hypnosis or something they could temporarily turn into good little footboys in my office. It would be fun to just be able to say one trigger word and immediately they turn from professionals into instant obedient slaves. It would be very useful or entertaining for my breaks. I found an office domination video I like...


I also fantasize about owning a big company where I'm the boss and where certain male workers are called into my office and threatened with being fired if they do not do everything I say. For example, taking off their clothes and kneeling as my slave at work. And their performance reviews would be very interesting.

Sidenote: My immediate boss and co-worker already got down on their hands and knees and worshipped me in real life saying "We're not worthy. We're not worthy". They were praising me for a office project I was extremely creative on. Needless to say I enjoyed their little display of worshipping me. =)

Bathing My feet

It rained here today and I stepped in a puddle. I need a slave to wash my precious feet. I have a Greek-style classic foot basin and pitcher a slave can use. (I'm part greek). Well what are you waiting for, slave? Get to it! It seems like you're slacking today so if you need some divine inspiration, you'll find more photos of my lovely feet and a photo of my foot basin on My website's photo gallery page.

Today's thoughts

Long day today. Came home to an empty house. I'm normally very independent and fine by myself. I usually keep myself busy. But it's days like these where I really wished that I already had an adoring live-in male sub here to comfort me, relax me and serve Me.

I thought I'd post this prayer again since I really like it and it came to mind again today...

"The Submissive's Prayer":

Allow me the strength to answer questions I can't fathom.
Allow me the spirit to know Her needs.
Allow me the kindness to choke back retorts.
Allow me the serenity to serve Her in peace.
Allow me the love to show Her myself.
Allow me the tenderness to comfort Her.
Allow me the light to show us the way.
Allow me the wisdom to be an asset to Her.
Let me be able to show Her each day my love of my service to Her.
Let me open myself up to completely belong to Her.
Let my eyes show Her the same respect, rather I sit at her side, or kneel at her feet.
Let me learn to please Her, beyond myself.
Grant me the power to give myself to Her completely.
Give me the strength to please us both.
Permit me to love myself, in loving Her.
Allow me the peace of serving Her.
For it is my greatest wish, my highest power To make her life complete, as She makes mine.

Ideas for a Sub Hunt

I like the idea of having a sub hunt. Here's some ideas I've gathered:

-a hunt in the woods where the dominant Women chase the male prey. (ie: 15 naked or scantily clad male subs to be hunted through twenty acres of forest set with some pre-arranged traps and the males could have their hands bound in the front and depending on how long the hunt is be given a backpack of emergency/needed supplies such as a first aid kit, sunscreen, bug spray, food bars, fruit, water bottle, emergency cell phone or whistle. And maybe put a scent or perfume on the subs so the dommes can track them. The dommes could also have sketched maps of the area which show the traps, also have emergency phone, water, snack, a marker and whatever else she wants. A domme could capture a sub, write her name on him with marker and then put him in a sub holding pen or jail for the captured males. The most successful hunter could be identified as the one who'd marked the most prey and given first choice of what to do to whom. Optional: There could be a possibility of "winning" built into the game for the subs. For example, the sub might have to complete a certain task during the run, or reach a certain destination before the hunters, or stay free for a certain amount of time. If they achieve this they win rewards during take down, rather than being punished for being captured.)

other ideas:
-paintball hunt
-lazer tag hunt
-fox hunt with subs on all fours
-a hunt with the subs wearing shocking dog collars around their genitals and dommes having the remote controls might be interesting.
-or if inside a small home, blindfold the hunter and prey but put bells on the prey so the domme could hear him.
-in a maze. There are some big corn mazes during halloween for example.
-in a nature preserve or park.

Slave positions

Awhile ago I came across 2 graphics showing 25 "slave positions". They are a series of very specific body positions of the sub/slave to the Mistress to offer for service, display, servitude or play. They weren't numbered so I numbered them in case sometimes I just want to use numbers when ordering a slave. And I also heard about another pose (the kowtow) so I created a graphic showing that. So far I've only been requiring subs/slaves to know the kowtow position and to always use this pose to greet Me. But in the future I will require a sub/slave to learn more positions.

A sub is required to initially greet Me in kowtow position when first arriving in my home, then to wait til I place my lovely foot before him and I command him to kiss it and then the other one. I love this submissive act. It's a nice way for him to show his respect and subservience.

Strict yet loving

I came across this photo online of a male sub with his head in his Mistress' lap. Such a beautiful moment. While I enjoy being dominant with subs, I also enjoy it when there's tender moments like this.

Gagged for her use

I like this photo alot. First of all, I've always loved black and white photos. Having an artistic side myself, I've been meaning to take some tasteful black and white photos of males in submissive poses but haven't gotten around to it yet. One day though. Maybe when I have more time to work on my future femdom magazine. Anyway for this photo above, the guy has a beautiful form especially back and butt. And it would be so easy to just come up behind him and push his head into the pillow and then do naughty things with him.

cfnm ad

I don't know what this ad is for but I like it. ;)

Book of Revelation

I just watched a movie trailer for an Australian film called “Book of Revelation”. It's about 3 women who kidnap a man and keep him for a couple weeks. Definitely sound interesting. The beginning of the trailer where the guy is kept and chained down is a bit hot. I just put it on my netflix list of movies to rent. I'll post later after I see the movie to tell you if it's any good. Trailer at:
http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&VideoID=1854385

update: video link above no longer works. But here's a webpage about it:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Book_of_Revelation_(film)

Changing a person's nature

I come across posts online of submissive men expressing their desire to change their vanilla wives or girlfriends into dominant women. My thought is that this will most likely not work. Either a person is dominant or not. If you want a woman who is dominant then you really want a woman who is dominant because she enjoys it and wants it for herself. She realizes her power and that she really wants to control a male and gets off on it. If she does it because you want it and she is just acting to humor you... who really has the power there?

kidnap play fantasies

Would you like to be kidnapped by a sexy dominant Woman and be used by Her? I sometimes fantasize about taking an attractive male off the street forcefully or luring him away from a club, restaurant or another location...kidnapping him, taking him home then keeping him restrained, breaking his will and keeping him as my slave forever. His life would be to please Me.

I also fantasize about having a castle or large estate with a dungeon with cells in the basement just to house my kidnapped male slaves. They'd be trained to keep up the large estate, obey and please Me and serve as gagged entertainment for when I have femdom parties in the castle.

Here's some interesting video clips I found that I like that relate to my kidnapping fantasy in some way...

Nice castle to house slaves in. (I also like the song by Evanescence)

"Sylver - Why Worry" music video. Involves restraints. (gotta watch the whole thing to get it. I like the very end. I would have made better use of him though.)

A hypnoDomme teasing her caged slave (interesting. I'm interested in learning some erotic hypnosis)

Also...
I'm developing a website related to this interest of mine and am looking for more kidnapping fantasy stories to put on it and also males to model for photos. http://www.capturedmales.com/

Pampered

Women should be treated like Goddesses and have adoring male slaves. Here's a clip that I like from the tv show "Charmed" that shows a woman being pampered by her servants. Too bad the other women didn't take her seriously.

Cleaning hunk

I wish there were commercials on tv like this. It would make it alot more enjoyable and interesting.

My pretty feet

Some recent photos of My lovely feet.
I just love when a slave worships My feet.
Do you want to kiss them? I bet you do.

Her slut

I came across this photo several years ago and just recently came across it again. I've always loved it. He looks very sexy in the lace topped thigh highs while on all fours and submissively offering up his sexy ass to her. Her strapon cock reminds me of one I have too. I like how she's teasing his hole and that his panties are not completely off. Just pulled down to the side. So slutty and hot.

Greeting his Mistress

Here's a photo I like. I like his humbleness. In my mind I fantasize that he's bowing before his Mistress for the first time, presenting himself to her late at night in an empty airport parking garage after he stepped off the plane to come to her. She warned him beforehand that if he doesn't present himself correctly by stripping off his male ego as well as his clothes and bowing that he won't be going home with her to belong to her. He has to prove that he will do as she says.

Welcome to my blog

Hello
This will be my femdom diary. A place to share my thoughts on the Femdomme/malesub lifestyle, life, photos I like, etc.

-Mistress Lisa