Sunday, September 27, 2009
Changing a person's nature
I come across posts online of submissive men expressing their desire to change their vanilla wives or girlfriends into dominant women. My thought is that this will most likely not work. Either a person is dominant or not. If you want a woman who is dominant then you really want a woman who is dominant because she enjoys it and wants it for herself. She realizes her power and that she really wants to control a male and gets off on it. If she does it because you want it and she is just acting to humor you... who really has the power there?
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Mistress Lisa,
ReplyDeleteI suppose you might be right. But - what does a happily married man tell his beautiful wife when she asks what his biggest fantasy is when he has fantasized about FemDoms since his teens and he is in his forties now? I told her and she is giving it a try. I love her for trying. I know its not her biggest turn on. However after a few months she seems to be enjoying her new role more all the time.
She is really a laid back person. She was hesitant at first and still is unsure about the whole thing however she has come more in this short time than she did in the prior year.
I doubted it at first, but now I wonder if most women couldn't enjoy dominating a man if the situation was handled right.
still hoping
andy
As I mentioned, she has to realize her power and enjoy herself and do what she wants. (not do whatever kinky things you think she should do to dominate you)
ReplyDeleteBy the way, if you knew since your teens that femdomme/malesub is your desire/fantasy then why didn't you tell your girlfriend before you married her? what if you told your wife after you married her and she refused to even think about it? then you're screwed.
by the way, if you go to a regular/pansexual munch you'll see that most women there are sub unfortunately.
Looks like you lucked out. Remember to take your time, not push her and let her discover her power and enjoyment over you. Do things for her. Make her life easier and pamper her. Show her the benefits of you being a servant.