Quizzes about me

Here's some quiz results from some quizzes that I took a few months ago...

Quiz #1: https://sexvalues.github.io/

A quiz about sexuality. Here are my results...

Personally I think that the first one on attraction proves I'm mostly into crossdressers because I like masculinity and femininity. The feminity questions mentioned liking softness and feminine clothing. 

Quiz #2: https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language

A quiz on how a person feels loved the most. 

My results...

My top love language is "receiving gifts". I like the time it takes and thoughtfulness. I'm not materialistic at all. And it does not have to be something that's bought or expensive. Something handwritten, creative or homemade is wonderful. (Handwritten notes, letters, stories, poems, cards, art, giving me something personal that recognizes my preferences, etc.) I like thoughtfulness and the effort it takes.

My second love language is a tie between "words of affirmation" and "quality time".

(I enjoy all five love languages. But I did notice that "quality time" got more important to me since the last time I took the quiz years ago.)

Quiz #3: VIA institute on character. Find out your top strengths out of 24 character traits. https://www.viacharacter.org/

Here's the top 5 traits for me: Honesty, love of learning, perspective, humor and creativity.

Honesty is very important to me, and I do have a love of learning because I'm always learning something. 

Discover your character strengths by taking the quiz HERE.

July holiday and my Bday

Enjoy the red, white and blue!

(Some things in my crossdressing room)

Happy 4th of July! 

And also, my birthday is this week so happy birthday to me. (But I'm claiming all of July as my birthday celebration month.)

Give yourself to Me.

And for those wanting to give in order to show appreciation for me, 

here is my Amazon wishlist.

Pegging

I love pegging. I did some pegging twice yesterday:

I wore them out after pegging them. Lol.

That can also happen in the other type of pegging I love to do. ;)

Little Miss Muffet outfit

Here's one of the pink outfits in my crossdressing room...

Whatever outfit or panties you have or want, take time to dress up in something girly and express yourself and have fun. And wiggle that bootie. ;)

Creative time

Current mood: Creative

I've been feeling very creative lately. And I found a portable acrylic art set today for a great deal at a store and made a quick "sissy subbie" sketch to try out the pencils. 

I want to try out the new paints, but here's a glimpse of some of my past paintings I made:

(I used oil paint for the huge painting and acrylics for the smaller paintings.)

Hmm..maybe you're my next creation...

Office boy dilemma

Taking advantage of her cute male secretary...

Keeping your word

 The importance of keeping your word...

If you do not keep your word, you lose credibility of your words. Do not say any words you do not mean.

I'm flexible to a point

I'm flexible. Sometimes I'll want you in a more feminine look when you're doing what I want and sometimes I'll want you in a more masculine look when you're doing what I want. (But you'll still wear panties.) I like a crossdresser's capability of having 2 looks in 1 person.

He serves and is useful. A useful male submissive is a good male. Plus the strength in his arms is put to appropriate use when doing his chores. And pleasing Mistress is always good.

Related past blog posts:
- Sexy male subs
- Feminine sissymaid

Restrained for her pleasure

Current mood: horny and also wanting to see a male helpless.

"You'll be my bitch from now on."

Over the knee spanking

Current mood: In the mood to have you over my knee.

"Whaaack! This is for your own good. You need regular discipline spankings for maintenance...to help keep your ego in check and remind you who's in charge. You'll thank me later."

Her gurl

"Hold still, sissy. I'm making you girly and sexy for Me. I know it's what you want too."

"I'll make you into my sexy gurl and obedient sub and you'll love it. Just relax and surrender yourself completely to me."

Walgreens shopping for kink

Sometimes I go into a regular shop and look to see if they have anything kink related. Here's what I saw in Walgreens...

They have eye pencils and mascara in a new Covergirl line called "Exhibitionist". (And it lasts 24 hours and is waterproof...for the crossdressing exhibitionists out there that like to go to the beach and swim. Lol.)

They have lip balms and lipstick in the Milani line called "Fruit Fetish". (And another brand had fake nails called "Jelly Fetish".) 

Quick drying nail polish made by Sally Hansen that has proceeds that benefit the LGBTQ community. (June is Pride month)

Temporary body tattoo marker. 

I got this a few months ago. What do you wish I wrote on you?

Top categories of my blog

Tip: I have about 1,053 posts on my blog. And each post is tagged with a different category. You can see "categories" listed in the right column of the "web version", not "mobile version". But here are my top categories which means the ones I have posted about the most:

- Crossdressing (292 posts)

- Strapon (179 posts)

- Events (95 posts)

- Foot worship (85 posts)

- Artwork (80 posts)

- Kidnapping (75 posts)

- Funny (74 posts)

- Tips or advice (72 posts)

- Sissymaid (68 posts)

- Domestic (66 posts)

- Bondage (65 posts)

- What I seek (64 posts)

- Loving (63 posts)

- Chastity (54 posts)

- Spanking (41 posts)

And currently my blog has 1.72 million page views.

Owned obedient sissy sub

An obedient sissy sub listening to his Mistress and obeying her.

 

Related post:
-The same sissy kneeling next to his Mistress.

My pet play gear

Don't you wish you could be my pet? Last week I layed out most of my stuff for puppy play and kitten play. Here is a photo of some things I own.

Your cage and toys are waiting

And I also have more restrictive bondage things for pet play that are not pictured.

Also related, I came across this photo of a couple dressed for Halloween and I thought the puppy was awesome.

Cruella Deville and her dalmatian pup.

I think he needs a collar, leash and puppy bondage mittens. ;)

Lingerie for you

I like submissive males in lingerie for starters. But I have many kinky and regular interests. And I have alot going on lately.

Lace on a male sub is especially sexy to me.

Basic strapon rule

Current mood: dominant, commanding, no-nonsense. In the mood to get my way.

"Now get on your knees, slut, and suck my fem cock! You're here to please Me. You know you want to."

Taco Tuesday

Happy Taco Tuesday!

Time for tacos and touching your butt.

Tonight's tacos I made: Bbq chickn tacos (with white cheddar mac and cheeze. Everything was plant based. Very good.)

And now time for butt touching...

Present your butt to me, sissy.

Kinky coffee shop in San Francisco

After I published my previous blog post about my idea for a Femdom coffee shop, coincidentally I surprisingly found out that there is a kinky coffee shop which exists in San Francisco called Wicked Grounds cafe and boutique. 

Video about it: 

https://youtu.be/9ZPFZpofFqs

They sell beverages like coffee, tea, milkshakes, etc. And they sell kinky items like rope, kinky books, toys and more. They also hold bdsm educational events and munches there. And they are a kink friendly and LGBTQ friendly environment. I heard a review from a female who went there and was able to kneel on the floor at the table while the dominant enjoyed a beverage. It's more kinky towards the night. They are located in San Francisco's Leather and LGBTQ area where there are some other kinky stores nearby such as shops that sell leather items for the kink and lgbtq communities.

The cafe's website is https://wickedgrounds.com/

(They almost closed in 2018 but donations via patreon saved them and are continuing to keep them open.) 

I'd like to visit them one day, as well as other kinky places in San Francisco I have in mind. The cafe sounds similar to my previous idea for a cafe.

Femdom coffee shop

A photo that I like...

I can imagine having a Femdom coffee and tea shop in the future. Ladies can either bring their own male sub or have one of the shop's subs pamper and serve them. 

There would be masculine male subs and feminized sissymaids available to serve. 

And of course servants wouldn't be allowed to sit with female customers. Female empowerment magazines and books would be available. And the cafe would have a list of additional femdom services available. And events such as femdom munches and some classes could be held there too. It could be a community hub for encouraging female control of males.

Another past cafe idea:

- Gender bending maid cafe in a japanese style.

A couple's date night

The couple enjoy a lovely evening out.

Then back at home, he submits to her.

Feeling up sissy

When you're mine, I can touch you however I want.

Internal well being

What I'm learning and focusing on (more than past years) is meditation, positive affirmations, self love, and inner happiness.

Tips:

-Spend time away from social media and news.

-Cultivate inner happiness. Spend time with  yourself with no distractions. Meditate. It can uplift your mood.

-Spend time in nature to reduce anxiety and stress and encourage peace and relaxation.

-Feed your mind positive things daily. And do things that help bring enjoyment to your life.

-Fill up your cup emotionally. Then give to others too. Sometimes giving can help bring more good feelings to you too.

-I recommend watching motivational or self development videos on YouTube. (I am currently watching this video from Wayne Dyer while I work.)

A potion for you

"I'm glad you drank the whole potion. I have plans for you."

Later back at her house...

"Oh I see you're finally awake. I see you look a bit confused and surprised. But there's nothing to be confused about. I simply turn rebellious or misbehaving boys into sweet obedient gurls. And you accepted your new fate by gulping down the drink I offered you. Don't you know, don't take things from strangers? Oh we're going to have some fun. The red wig I put on you already looks more appropriate for you. But there will be more to come." (Devious laugh)

BeyondLeather

As mentioned, I had such a great time at the BeyondLeather 2022 bdsm conference in May in West Palm Beach, FL. So I already signed up to attend next year at BeyondLeather.net

Next year, it'll be my 9th year attending. I've had some great times there, such as in 2008 I met my friends Sissymaid Kelly and his domme wife Ms. Demonica visiting from out of state. They presented two workshops "The art of Forced Feminization & Transformation" and "Formal Tea Instruction & Service" where subs served us tea. I also gave them a little tour of Fort Lauderdale and took them to some kinky stores. It was fun. Here's a photo of them at the Fort Lauderdale hotel where BeyondLeather used to be at. (It moved to west palm beach now)

He was such a good looking, polite sissymaid. He had his own sissymaid website about himself at one point so you can still find many past photos of him on various blogs. (Unfortunately a couple years later he decided he no longer wanted to crossdress, and both him and his domme wife disappeared off of interacting on bdsm sites to become more private.) 

But they were good inspiration to others and I enjoyed their workshops at BeyondLeather. Her and I were both leaders/headmistresses of different chapters of Club FEM (femdom munch) back in 2008 so we knew each other online before we met. But I always like in person interactions.