Rules

Behavioral rules: 

1. You will serve, obey and please me, trusting my skill, experience and responsibility and my concern for your well being and you will respect and defer to me at all times and trust my judgment and my knowledge. I have our best interests at heart and want to make our lives together fulfilling, meaningful, happy and fun. You will behave respectfully to me at all times. You are to address me as Mistress, Goddess, My Queen, or Mistress Lisa when not around regular vanilla folks. Around vanilla people you are to address me as Ma'am, unless told or discussed otherwise. 

2. You will be grateful for all I give and show you and will acknowledge and thank me at all times. If I discipline you, you will thank me for your correction specifying why you needed correction so I can see you understood the reason. You will perform whatever tasks I set you immediately as a token of respect and obedience.

3. You will wear my collar and any other temporary or permanent markings with pride and with gratitude.

4. If you need to be punished you will accept that punishment without question. If you argue or try to talk me out of it the punishment will be automatically increased.

5. I will decide what clothes you are and are not allowed to wear and will give specifications of clothes and how and where I want them worn.

6. When not busy doing work or chores/commands, your rest place is submissively on the floor near my feet unless I indicate otherwise.

7. You understand that you may voice opinions and concerns and that I will always take account of your views. However you accept that my decision is always final and once made MUST NOT BE ARGUED WITH.

8. You will be open and honest to me always. And I want you to express your emotions and concerns to me so that I may know there are no misunderstandings or hidden problems and can address any such as required. You will be open and honest about your behavior so that you may be corrected if needed.

9. You will listen with your full attention to my words and comment as required. I like conversation and good communication and I have not put any general restrictions on when you may speak however I expect you to learn when it is a good time to take care over what you say.

10. You will willingly expand your limits to give pleasure to us both and will strive to overcome your fears and limitations.

11. You must trust that I will never do anything to you that I do not know how to do, and that the care and preparation I take is a mark of respect for you and your safety.

12. I will decide when you are allowed to orgasm. Orgasm is a privilege not a right.

13. You will gladly wear a chastity belt, plug or other toy whenever I specify as a sign of your submission without question.

14. When you move up to being my live-in sub, you will accept responsibility for the smooth running of the home, keeping it clean tidy and laundry washed and a comfortable place for us both to live. 

15. You will learn to accept that things you have regarded as your right are now privileges which can be revoked. (privileges must earned) The better you behave and carry out your duties the easier things will be. If you have a good request at times, you are free to speak and may ask it. But I make all final decisions.

16. Your body is my property and you will understand that you have a duty to take care of it with the same care that you would look after any of my property. You have a duty to look after your health, fitness, diet, weight and to take any medication promptly and as prescribed. You must visit the Doctor at the first sign of any medical problem. You must exercise regularly to keep fit so you are able to perform any task given. 

17. You are not to permanently mark my property without my permission. 

18. You will be proactive in your service at times too. For example, if you see something dirty then be good and clean it. And you will continually learn new things in order to be better and more skilled. 

Also, here is a graphic that I made around 2013 of some rules for a live-in sissy:

 

Forced strapon

Current mood: 

I'm in the mood to kidnap a male and then roughly force him to take my strapon.

He had no choice. When she gets horny, she takes what She wants.

"Take it, my slut!"

Updated 5 love languages

Here's my updated results from the quiz on 5lovelanguages.com which show how I feel loved.

40% Gifts 

27% Words of Affirmation 

20% Quality Time

7% Physical Touch

7% Acts of Service

Regarding gifts, I like any gifts....that could be a handwritten note, a special photo just for me, or other gift that shows that you spent some time thinking of me. I am not materialistic at all and can buy my own things. But it is the gesture/thought and time that counts. A way to see you took time to show appreciation and care.

I like all 5 including quality time, physical touch and acts of service. (Being domme, I expect acts of service from subs.) But gifts and words of affirmation are just my top ways I feel appreciated and loved/cared for.

Sissymaids

 

A submissive sissymaid must look good, be useful and strive to do the best every day in order to be a good asset and servant for Mistress. While I do not agree that a sissymaid should look in the mirror several times a day to check makeup (time is better spent cleaning), I do want the sissy to look feminine at all times when cleaning or doing other household chores.

Her toy

 

Him: Helpless and irresistibly aroused under her touch, rendered defenseless by her calculated ministrations. In submissive ecstasy.

Her: Calmly pleased by her power over him, by the ease at which she seduced and manipulated him into a quivering object of vulnerability, her toy to do with as she wishes.

Happy Birthday to Me

 It's the month of my birthday. Show your appreciation and please Me.

Good boy!

Watching the jogger

 

"Don't look at me like that. You shouldn't have been jogging by my estate alone every day and therefore tempting me. When I see what I want, I get it. And now that's you! Ooh I have plans for you."

Later that night....

"Get to sucking my cock, my new slave. Don't make me say it again."

Happy New Year!

I hope everyone has a great 2021. Happy New Year!!! Goodbye, 2020!

Let's dance!

October is for costumes

Hooray it's October! My favorite month due to my favorite holiday, Halloween. It's a great month for Halloween treats, decor and especially costumes. You can be whatever you want to be....even a crossdressed Robin or a Batman locked in chastity by Batgirl. lol.What do you want to be?

Sold maid

"I am sorry it is a little embarrassing for you but I really am most grateful. These ladies are here to invest in my business so the right impression is vital and you look perfect. And as I promised if all goes to plan, Andrew, I will never ask you to pay me another penny in rent on your college room ever again."

He replies, "I do feel silly, but I am happy to help you out, Miss Jones." (not knowing what he's really there for)

Woman on phone in other room: "Stage one in latex and exceptionally pretty. I believe enhancement would create something truly breathtaking. Bidding will be high, Madam, do I have unlimited clearance?" Then "Yes, Madam, thank you, Madam. I shall deliver him to the manor this very evening. Good bye."


And now for transport...

then arrival...

"Ah my new delivery is here. And in pink just like I wanted my new slave purchase to be. How lovely! I look forward to our times together. I'm going to transform you into the perfect obedient sissymaid for me. Welcome to your new life. You belong to me now!"
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And here's more taken sissymaids waiting to be transported to their new Owner's home...

and then...

A Mistress' newly purchased sissymaid property doing her chores.

A chastity device is one way to help ensure a sissymaid's compliance and instill more of a submissive mindset.

In time, the kidnapped sissymaid learns to love being at Mistress' feet and serving her. It's really where the sub belongs.

Your diagnosis

"You're not feeling well? Let me feel your hands. 

Oh my! It seems you have a bad case of Sissie-itis."

I have the perfect prescription for you...

"I have to turn you into a sissy. It's for your own good. 

Don't worry. You'll learn to like it. You may even love it."

"Wow. It's wonderful. I feel so much better in the party frock.

I love being a feminine sissy! Thank you, sissy-itis."

Good Melody maid

A lovely sissymaid who serves very well.

Swimmers are secret sissies

Did you know that swimmers on competitive swim teams are secret sissies? Yes, they are. That's why they shave their whole bodies. Yep, even Olympic swimmers are secret sissies.

 

Remove all that hair.

So much better when smoother and sissier, don't you agree?

Even their underarms are smooth.

Sure some sites say they shave their bodies to improve race time but I think tiny hairs can hardly slow down a human being. But I think they shave because they like being sissy smooth. And even some athletic websites say they like to shave because of the look and feel. Their skin feels more alive. So they like that smoothness. They like the feel.

Raise your hand if you like it and admit you're a sissy and like being smooth shaven.

I knew it! You like all that smoothness and you're secret sissies.

Being all smooth enables you to look feminine when dressed in pretty things and feel the fabrics more.

Now put on your real sissy bathing suit...

 So smooth, satiny, and a plump round butt. You have to be a sissy.

So cute, smooth and sexy.

Embrace the sissiness.

You get to wear sexy things.

And wear pretty soft fabrics against your smooth skin.

Now you just need a good woman to serve who likes and understands males like you who like wearing feminine things and being sissy smooth.

 Being useful to a woman makes you more appealing to her,
and more focused for you in your down time from swimming practice and makes better use of your time. A lucky sissy is an owned sissy who serves, is encouraged, and loves to please Her.

Chrissy Institute

 

From troublesome teen to satin sissymaid.

So much better for everyone.

Pretty panties are in your future from now on.

And you'll learn to serve your Mistress well.

 

"Thank you, Mistress"

School time

This kind of school below would be good inside Femquility (my idea for a female-led matriarchal residential cohousing community). Students from in and out of the community could attend. My vision for Femquility always included a place called "The Learning Center" for classes for adults, but it would be good to have a separate school/academy for young people too.

And this below photo looks like it could be a photo of a submissive male/sissymaid listening to the teacher at "The Learning Center" and taking notes.

In service to Mistress

A good sissy is useful and glad to serve.

Sissy now has purpose and direction. 

And loves helping to make Mistress happy.

Sissies live a good life with their Mistress

The good life of a sissy...

-Loving attention from their Mistress
-Get to be pretty/attractive for their Mistress

-They get to please.

-Lucky obedient sissies are taken by their Mistress/owner's strapon cock whenever She wants.

New costumes

I noticed that the 3wishes.com website had a great sale going on so I ordered some outfits that I'd like see on a submissive cd one day. Adding more stuff to my crossdressing room.

I think these could be fun.