Drink from Me

A collared slave drinking the golden nectar of his new Owner.

Related link:

-Collar and its meaning.

Captured and raped slaveboy

"Ssshhh...you are My captured slave now and that's all that needs to be said. You will give Me pleasure. I have captured you fairly. You are now Mine to do with as I please. There is no escaping. All of the doors are locked tight and my bodyguard is guarding the front door. So just shut your pretty little mouth and do as you're told."

"This is Mine too. I have watched you for awhile now and I want it."

"You are an instrument of my pleasure now, slaveboy.

Start slow and don't cum or you will be whipped severely."

"Yes, Mistress", he replies.

"Now it's My turn. Open up your tight hole

and take my strapon cock like a good whore.

Every part of you is Mine. Oh, you'll learn to like it."

With more training, he became the perfect slave for his Mistress, and learned to love his place. It was like he was meant to serve Her.

Femdom Poems

I've always loved poetry. So about 10 years I challenged some online admirers to submit poems they had written to please Me. Here's some of those poems I liked. I thought I'd share...

"My Mistress"
by sub ben

My Mistress,
hot leather and lace
sexy confident and strong
confident knows she is worshipped
strong demands discipline
daring expand boundaries
intelligent knowledge sponge
free...Her world
My Mistress is a diva.

---

"Blissful Surrender"

Blissful surrender, my sweet conquerer
I am your prisoner and slave,
chained not by metal links that can be broken,
but by your mind and will I am yours
desires unspoken by needs I am driven
to serve you totally, sweet Mistress
bound in a silken trap I never want to escape from
my body, my very identity, all I am is your property
to do with as you wish
and I wouldn't want it any other way

Sucking strapon

"It's time to suck my femdom cock, my slut. Open up!"

Drag-alicious attire

One of my kinky female friends regularly performs at a drag show and she knows several of the drag queens (males/trans) who perform there. So for the January event for the Kinky Ladies group I co-lead, one of the local drag queens will be coming and doing a fun arts & craft project with us ladies. The drag queen will be teaching us how to turn boring old t-shirts into hot sexy new garments.

So why a drag queen, you ask? Who else knows better on how to find something and make it fabulous than a drag queen? Drag queens all over have been crafting their own wardrobes so they can accentuate their best assets. I think it's going to be very fun. And she might just give us a private drag queen performance too. Confused? Check out this video below for some examples of transforming t-shirts.

My video of my sissy panties

Below is a video clip I made back in July 2010 when I first got my mini-camcorder and was testing it out. So far it's the only kinky video I made. In it, I am showing off some of the sissy panties I own. I've always enjoyed shopping for panties to see on male subs. I especially think that lace or pink is sexy on males. It turns me on. Enjoy seeing the panties. Maybe it'll inspire you to go panty shopping after viewing it. =)

Things to do instead of masterbating

Do you masterbate too much? Do you have too much free time and do not know what to do with yourself? Do you have time between seeing your Mistress and need something else to do? Do you smoke or drink sometimes because you're bored? Do you want to develop yourself more?

Here's Some Solutions:

1) Take a class in person or learn online. This can be creative, mental or physical. Do you have a hobby or interest that you've wanted to try? Or can you work on a new skill or interest that may help you be more valuable/beneficial to a dominant woman?

Examples:
 - Learn a language (this could prove beneficial for travel for example. You can learn any language for free using the Duolingo website or app. Spanish would be a good one to learn.)
- Self Defense or Martial Arts (Some YMCA's offer adult karate, TaeKwonDo, judo, tai chi, etc. This can help develop discipline, self control, strength and your new skills could help you to be a better body guard for your Mistress).

- Learn how to make or repair something.
- Sewing (Some craft stores such as Joanne Fabrics offer sewing classes, and some towns offer adult education classes at local high schools. Or learn on Youtube.)
- A hobby (example: learn to play a musical instrument. That could entertain others)
- If you're a sissy/crossdresser, you could go online on youtube.com and look for videos on makeup tips.
- Get some instruction in fitness.
- Learn something new online (For example, a skill such as how to cook something...ie: whole food plant-based recipes. Don't know where to look to learn new things online? See "Top 40 useful sites to learn new skills")
-There are alot of classes online on many things.

2) Volunteer your time. There are plenty of places that need volunteers. For example: Can you help the elderly or homeless in some way, such as getting them food?

3) Exercise. (ie: weight lifting, running, cycling, walking, exercising to videos online, etc.)

4) Read. (especially books or webpages that will help improve your life or skills. Ie: giving massage, pedicures, tea service, etc)

5) Clean or organize things in your home.(practice make perfect and one day you may be cleaning your Mistress' home)

6) Write. Write stories, articles, thoughts (keep a journal or blog), write poetry, etc. (Possibly something to show to others or your Mistress).

7) Plan activities with the dominant woman in your life or plan how you might show a special dominant woman in the future that you appreciate her. (ie: a trip or something romantic, etc.)

8) Learn about Nutrition and watch useful videos. (since most conventional doctors have never taken a class or have had time to do research). Take control of your own health. Topics to research: Nutrition, how to juice, how to grow sprouts, how to prepare raw food dishes, how to make green smoothies, how to grow a vegetable garden, etc. You can learn through books, through instructors, dvd's and/or through online videos. (NutritionFacts.org posts one new nutrition related video per day. RawTeacher lists some living food instructors. YouTube.com has videos on everything. You can even find some full length documentary films on health there or videos on how to grow your own food.)

9). Practice being more feminine. (makeup, walk, manners, voice, etc. There's tutorials on YouTube.com.)

10.) Practice slave positions. You can find a link to them in the right column of my femdom blog if you're viewing the web version.

11.) Learn about your Mistress or a person who you want to be your Mistress. Learn to ask questions about her as a person/woman, not just her dominant side.

12. Learn about 5 love languages. Do you know what your love language is or your partner's? There's a quiz on the 5 love languages website.

Those are just a few things off the top of my head. I'm not against masterbation. I just think some people do it too often and most could use their time more productively. And haven't you heard that you can go blind if you masterbate too much? lol.

PS- Reading and masterbating while viewing my femdom blog is allowed. Other than that, see the list above. =)

What's beneath your pants?

I find this picture sexy...

Secretly a sexy owned sissy slave in chastity underneath his regular pants. Only his Mistress/Owner and him know his sexy secret.Thus helping to create a better bond and also please his Mistress, as well as feel more owned and belonging to Her.

My top 10 blog posts of all time

Now that the year is coming to an end, I thought I'd post the list of the "Top 10 Blog Posts of all time" according to the stats of my blog that tell the number of page views per blog post. (It won't show me a full year...the longest is of "all time"). Here they are. The most popular are towards the top.

-Slave positions (3102 pageviews)
-Sardax's illustrations (2268 pageviews)
-Realize your potential in a Female-led relationship (1128 pageviews)
-Kidnap play fantasies (874 pageviews)
-Loving Female-led images (552 pageviews)
-The new alternative to a sperm bank (435 pageviews)
-The sissy bride (405 pageviews)
-The 12 traits of a good slave/husband (395 pageviews)
-The sale of a slave (317 pageviews)
-Training -taught to greet his Owner (314 pageviews)

New Year's Resolutions

It's time to start thinking of your New Year's Resolutions. What do you want for next year? Anything you can improve about yourself?



Remember to keep a positive attitude.

Some of my new year's resolutions are to try to get more sleep, to get fit, to drink more water, to get more sun and to travel more. I already started to put together My Pinterest travel page showing some of the places I want to visit.

My Stockings are Filled

Merry Christmas to all. Be sure to put out your stockings for Santa (or Mrs. Claus to fill). Here's Mine...

My feet in stockings.

Warming up for the holidays

A submissive should be useful whenever he can.
Here his Mistress is now feeling nice and warm.

The Best Present to be cherished

"My heart is yours, Mistress. I belong to you."

He is thinking he's happy that he's now Hers,
while she strokes his hair tenderly and lovingly.

Quotes:
- “Trust is feeling totally safe and secure while knowing you're totally vulnerable."
- "To get what you've never got, sometimes you've got to do what you've never done."
- “Only through complete surrender to a woman can a man know peace, contentment, and happiness.”

Clear roles are key

Being Pounded

Roses are red and so is your ass

My current mindset: Sadistic. (As soon as I got into my car today, I heard a male being paddled on the radio by a domme and he was screaming out. Ah music to my ears. There's many males out there who could use a good beating. I do think I could have done a better job beating him though.)

Roses are red,

Male butts should be black and blue,

It's time for a Christmas beating for you!

Some of my "teaching" implements presented on a silver tray
and laying on my red velour Rose printed bedspread.

"Get on the bed and present your ass, sissy. NOW!!!"

Looking at his Mistress/Owner who is about to beat his ass.

More pain for the extra naughty.

At Left: My Voodoo cane- thick dual canes with skull and also some baby alligator teeth from the Everglades.

Middle: Two thick leather belts bonded together in a handheld paddle for better control.

At Right: Dragon's Tail made out of a rubber-like material that stings.
(Note: My Rose bedspread was a gift from an admirer overseas years ago...thanks to his generous VictoriasSecret.com gift certificate at the time they were selling bedding items online. It's red satin on one side, and very soft red velour with roses on the other side.)

Related post:
-My dungeon goodies.

You've got mail

Over the years, I've always gotten emails from people asking for my advice about something related to femdom, but lately it has increased because alot of the people are visitors from my blog who write me personally. They usually say they like my blog and also have a question. So I have a new policy: If you want My advice on something then you can still email me but I will only answer on my blog and post your question/letter (but keep your name and email address totally private). That way other people may benefit from the discussion and I won't get the same types of questions asked.

Country song I like

In the past, I've never been much into country music but a few months ago most of the times I got into my car this country song below came on the radio and it happened for several weeks. (It's from 2003 but I never heard it before a couple months ago when it repeatedly kept showing up in my life). Anyway, it made me feel very good when I listened to it and also later when I viewed this video for it. So I thought I'd share. I also went out and bought the music cd (her greatest hits cd which has this song), so it's the first country cd I bought. Shania Twain has a beautiful voice and it's a lovely song called "Forever and For Always". Enjoy.

Slavery is/not

I posted this poem a couple years ago but I thought it's worth showing again...

"Slavery is / not..."
(Author: slave david stein, under the Guardianship of Master Steve Sampson © 1998)

slavery is not about suffering . . .
. . . slavery is about service.

slavery is not about humiliation . . .
. . . slavery is about humility.

slavery is not about pain . . .
. . . slavery is about being present.

slavery is not about being used . . .
. . . slavery is about being of use.

slavery is not about control . . .
. . . slavery is about letting go.

slavery is not about your desires . . .
. . . slavery is about giving to others.

slavery is not about abuse . . .
. . . slavery is about acceptance.

slavery is not about proving anything . . .
. . . slavery is about being real.

slavery is not about contempt . . .
. . . slavery is about respect.

slavery is not about how you look . . .
. . . slavery is about how you care.

slavery is not about denying yourself . . .
. . . slavery is about being open.

slavery is not about punishment . . .
. . . slavery is about discipline.

slavery is not about being unable to escape . . .
. . . slavery is about being committed.

slavery is not about submission . . .
. . . slavery is about obedience.

slavery is not about fear . . .
. . . slavery is about trust.

slavery is not about sex . . .
. . . slavery is about love.

slavery is not about pleasure . . .
. . . slavery is about happiness.

Holiday Funnies

A few holiday comics I like...

Sshhh...Santa loves his thong panties.

(He also has a good collection of stockings at home)

Mmm...he does look delicious like that.

Snowmen are getting more and more personal these days.

Pampering Her and her feet

Such a good boy!

I know I really love it when my feet are pampered by a male submissive such as through a good foot massage, an attentive foot bath where he washes my feet, having my toenails painted, or foot worship with his warm mouth. It makes me feel special.

Related post:
-Foot fetish and my new experience

Adult Nursing Relationships

 

Fetish of the day: Adult Nursing Relationships (ANR). It's basically adult breastfeeding, lactation or nipple sucking....nursing. It can involve milk or not. I'm fairly new to hearing about it.(within the last year). I've never tried it and am not into infantallism but the adult nursing does spark some curiosity mainly because of the closeness associated with it.

A male sub wrote this about it:
"I have had 2 girlfriends in my life that have let me nurse from them, not just briefly sucking boobs but really nursing. It was the most bonding, relaxing and comforting thing I have ever felt and neither of them produced milk for me. ... Both of them have had children and commented how much it made them miss nursing. They did both say that it was very peaceful and relaxing. ... Both did start calling me baby and I called them both mama but they were only pet names, we didn't live as baby or mommy kind of thing. They did both took it upon themselves to get some nursing bras and tops/dresses. They both liked to have me in their lap positioned as much like a baby as they could. I didn't mind, the whole thing turned me on. I loved the closeness and tenderness, oh and have I mentioned how much I love breast :) They would both stroke my hair, caress me and jack me with their other hand, loved that. They would say "Come nurse mama" when they were ready, that was always hot. Both got very wet which I loved, it made it very nice for me to return the favor to them ;) It was great for play and after play. They would get me in their lap and grab their breast and guide it to my mouth and say, "come on, latch on" (Hot!) and they would encourage me with, "come on baby, get a good nurse, suck them in". (Wow) They would sometimes lean forward and smother me a bit with their breast (Hot) as we would just about finish up and things start to turn sexy, they liked me to nurse both nipples at the same time, that was hot and sexy and got them going which in turn got me going."

I searched online and did find an adult video on it: Click here.

You need to be filled with my strapon cock

My current mood: horny

She takes what is Hers...penetrates him and fills him up good.

"Ssshhhh honey. Just spread your legs wider so I can get my whole dick in your ass. I'm feeling very horny tonight."

 

(note: I have that same corset in the second photo and have enjoyed that position too.)

Season's Beatings

 Quiet in the night, Mrs. Lisa Claus comes for the naughty ones.

Season's Beatings

(Instead of coal, the naughty ones got something new this year)

"Kiss my hand and thank me for your beating if you want me to come back to this hidden dungeon." (Being a smart boy, he obeys.)

(note: first and last illustrations were quickly altered by Me)

Christmas Present

The lucky sissy awaiting his Owner's arrival.

And I saw this cute holiday music video recently...

Enjoying Herself with a strapon

Here's two strapon photos I like since it looks like she's really enjoying herself. Plus it does not look like he can escape...he just is forced to take her femdom cock thrusting into him until she's satisfied.

Tis the season for giving

I will be hosting a Winter Wonderland themed holiday party this week for the kinky ladies group that I co-lead. The holiday party will benefit the "Cape Coral Bootstrap Homeless Ministry" since ladies are encouraged to bring items and monetary donations for that charity. The charity goes out into the woods and other areas of Cape Coral looking for the homeless. It provides food, clothing and other things to the homeless in cape coral and fort myers. Tis the season for giving so if you would like to donate online, click here.

Xdress

I noticed that Xdress.com has some sexy photos on their site such as these...

It says "The one thing women want to find in their stockings at christmas is their husband." (cute saying but actually I think husbands should have their own stockings, panties, etc.)

"Cheeky little panties"

A sexy french maid

"Old fashioned holiday fun" (shows sissy panties with bows)
(Oh...Is Santa leaving restrained presents now? Hmm...I did see holiday patterned duct tape at some stores.)

Golden nectar drinking

A new illustration I came across...

"Drink up, slave. Drink from Me."

It reminds me of a photo I came across years ago...

He looks like he makes a good toilet for his Mistress and gets every last drop of her golden nectar. My future live-in slave will get to experience this.

D/s Christmas Poem for sissies

D/s Christmas Poem (sissy edition)

'Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house
Not a creature was stirring, not even my spouse
The paddles were hung in the cupboard with care,
In hopes that his bottom soon would be bare

The children were nestled at grandma's in bed,
While visions of sugar-plums danced in their heads;
And the sissy sub in his pretty nightie, and I in my cap,
Had just settled down for a long discipline chat,

When out of his mouth there arose such a clatter,
I sat on the bed as he sassed "Hey what's the matter?"
I pulled him across my knee in a flash,
Pulled down his lace panties to bare his cute ass.

His bottom was white as the new-fallen snow
But would soon give way to the luster of a healthy red glow,
When, what to my wondering eyes should appear,
But a large wooden paddle, to redden his rear,

With long hard swings, both lively and quick,
He knew in a moment it won't be a picnic.
In rapid succession the paddling came,
I shouted, and called out his no-nos by name

"Now, SASSING! Now, SMOKING! And STAYING UP LATE!"
I paddled him hard and continued his fate.
He begged and he pleaded and I knew he would bawl!
His bottom, his thighs I covered them all!

As I held him down tight I listened to him cry,
When the paddle met him, there were tears in his eyes,
So I spanked and I spanked and the paddle it flew,
With the lecture of love that came with it too.

The wiggling and kicking of each big foot
The paddle would soon make his little ass cook.
As I drew back the paddle, again it was sound,
Down on his bottom it came with a bound.

He was a beautiful and sexy sissy, from his head to his foot,
But his soul was all tarnished like ashes and soot;
A bundle of guilt he had on his back,
I took them away with each paddle wack.

His eyes -- how they twinkled! With tears that weren't merry!
His cheeks were red as roses, his thighs like a cherry!
His beautiful wig was drawn up in a bow,
And his bottom was now not as white as the snow

I let him get up and put the paddle on the shelf,
I kissed him and hugged him and I love him more than myself;
A wink of my eye and a twist of my head,
Soon let him know it was now time for bed

I spoke not a word, but went straight to work,
I tucked him in bed; then turned with a jerk,
And laying my finger aside of my nose,
And thinking inside, "The sissy’s bottom is red as a rose"

Now discipline is not as easy as a whistle,
And it won't go away like the down of a thistle.
Now to all of you who love spankings so dear,
"MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL, AND TO ALL A RED REAR!


(note: original author is unknown. It used to be about a female sub but I changed it to a sissy male version and changed a few other words.)

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