Happy Halloween

I love Halloween since it's a chance to bring out costumes, decorations and creativity. Here's a photo of my kitchen stove on halloween one year in the past when I decorated each room of my home in a different theme and had a femdom party. The kitchen was a Witch's kitchen with an unusual, slithering supper being cooked up. =) Mmm...looks good, doesn't it?

Skills to learn

I think that sub/slaves should be continually learning and improving themselves. Learn skills to make yourself more valuable as a male sub to your current or future Mistress/Goddess. What skills should you learn? Well since every Woman is different, that really depends upon what the Woman in charge likes and is looking for in a servant. Below is an example of my wishlist for a sub's skills.

Some skills I personally would love in the PERFECT live-in male sub for me would be:
-cleaning and laundry (how to care for delicates)
-giving great massages (highly valued! especially back, neck and shoulder massage)
-spa pampering (pedicure, aromatherapy, lotions)
-sewing (I used to have a sub that would mend my garments)
-preparing cooked vegan food and/or raw vegan food. I have books. (Update: I became vegan on 2/1/15)
-making a nice breakfast in bed
-fixing things around the house/handyman skills
-tea service (I used to host femdom tea parties and hope to again in the future)
-building some things
-learn a language (ie: spanish, italian, etc. Useful for travel/vacations)
-male bellydancing (I have a website for this and instructional dvd). This can include actual bellydancing or a performance with fake big knives. (I used to host Femdom Harem parties for the Femdom munch I used to run and the males performed for the Ladies and they were enjoyable to watch.), or pole dancing to amuse and excite me.
-knows his way around a gym (keeps fit)
-how to grow sprouts at home (ie: sunflower sprouts, wheatgrass)
-how to change a flat tire; car maintenance
-being romantic and showing appreciation.
-poetry
-gardening (growing fruits and veggies, and watering flowers)
-learning how to be a good urinal for me as my live-in
-learning slave positions

I would want a personal submissive/slave of Mine to learn some new skills before and while in service to Me.

Mistress Lisa

Below me and taken

Not Me, but it does show one of my favorite positions to use a strapon cock or double ended dildo. On top, me holding him down with my body pressed up against him while I take him and get pleasure.

Steel collar and cuffs

I noticed this photo shows the locking stainless steel collar and matching wrist and ankle cuffs that I own for a male sub/slave to wear. So I thought I'd share it and some quotes.

"So long as man remains free he strives for nothing so incessantly and painfully as to find someone to worship."
-Fyodor Dostoyevsky

"Freedom was the desolate street i walked, until i was delivered to Her field." -anonymous

Submission

Some images I like and interesting quotes.

"Boyfriends need to understand that if women are worshipped, the world will be a better place.” -Nicole Kidman

"Submission is not thinking less of yourself...
but thinking of yourself, less." -anonymous

"Success means that we sleep at night knowing that our talents and abilities were used in a way that served others." -anonymous

Stocks to keep you in place

A piece of bondage furniture I like. I may have to get the local kinky craftsman to make me one of these.

Right now I own two individual stocks for ankles and wrists, and a custom made stockbox to put them in. I had them design something special according my box design. Sort of like this but better:

And I do enjoy it.

When Barbies get kinky

Some photos I found on the web in the past...

The real reason why Ken has a permanent smile on his face.

You never know what goes on in people's homes.

It looks like Barbie also has a crossdresser/sissy too. "Suck it, sissy!"

Link of the day: NerdFitness

Link of the day: NerdFitness.com
Want to get fit or need motivation to improve your life? Or do you want to get in the best shape possible for a current or potential Mistress? Check out that site since it has many motivational articles and success stories. It has certainly inspired me. It also is funny at times. You can find the top posts on that site at:
http://nerdfitness.com/blog/top-posts/

And Ladies, be sure to check out Staci's success story on that site:
http://nerdfitness.com/blog/2011/07/21/meet-staci-your-new-powerlifting-super-hero/

Paddling

Here's another photo from the web that I like. In my dungeon, I also have some paddles like hers.

Some boys just need a good incentive to behave better next time. I believe a punishment has to hurt so that it's remembered.
It also reminds me of a good quote I read online from a domme:
“To me, a sensual, loving domme recognizes her lover's need to be guided and reprimanded. Some men have way too much freedom in this world and run wild within that and they need a strong woman to remind them of what is good behavior.”

When was the last time you've been over a Woman's knee?

"Oh...Stop squirming, sissy,

this is for your own good!"

Some Funnies

Some funny things I came across that are related to strapons...

Sign says "Do not disturb. It's disturbing enough."

I like to keep kinky things around my house but this is a little too much even for me. =)

(I of course think she shouldn't stop but should make him her obedient bitch instead.)

Link of the day: Worshipping your wife

I found another blog I like (besides Mine of course), so here's the
Link of the Day: http://worshippingyourwife.blogspot.com/

“If you want your wife to be a Goddess, worship her.”
— Clairette de Longvilliers

(by the way, I'm looking for a long fan like that. I just have big handheld fans right now, which are good but I do enjoy many ways of being pampered.)

Her new property

(My thoughts of kidnapping a male are strong today.) ;)

Her new acquisition has arrived. Her associate has done well this time. "Shall I take him to his new cage?" she says. "Yes do so. I will mark him and then I have to return to my office and then will use him tonight. Be sure to make sure he's throughly checked out medically while I'm gone."

Time to brand her mark on him. He's now part of her household.

He's restrained tightly while she inspects every inch of the new slave. "You're very tight. Your Mistress will delight in the fact that you have a virgin ass for her to take."

"Come with Me, slave, so I can try you out my new property and see how well you behave."

His first lesson: sucking his new Mistress' cock. "Do well and show Me that you have a skilled mouth and accept your new place. And then I'll keep you and let you cum. But if you don't do well, you're really going to wish you had. Now open up wider, my little slut."

"That's a good boy."

One husband's daily routine

Hello,
I read this wonderful account of one submissive husband's daily routine with his wife so I thought I would share it. He wrote:

"My submissive life is just beginning so I am still developing a daily routine; following is what I get to do so far. I would really appreciate any ideas anyone has for new ways to treat my beautiful princess.
The alarm clock is on my side of the bed so I wake my love at whatever time she has instructed. I wake her by gently rubbing her neck, back and shoulders. Once she is awake I go and start her shower after it is nice and warm I return to the bedside and let her know her shower is ready. I then take a towel and pop it into the clothes dryer and turn it on wrinkle release, a quick warming cycle. While her towel is warming I go and prepare something light to eat, yogurt, a bagel, toast or a muffin. I get my queen a cup of coffee, a little sugar and a little cream. I hurry back to the bathroom with her warm towel and light breakfast, I don't want her to finish with her shower before I return. I sometimes get to help her dry but generally I just leave the items. I make the bed, pick up her pajamas from the floor, fold them and place them on the counter in the bathroom for the next days use. My love always sleeps in the nude and drops her pj's on the floor as she is getting into bed at night. When my wife has finished getting ready for work, I pick up her towel and straighten the bathroom. I take her dishes back to the kitchen; I wash the dishes after she has gone. I start her car and make sure the temperature controls are set at a comfortable level. If she has indicated she wants, I pack something for her to take for lunch. I walk her to the door, I kiss her, tell her how beautiful she is, I address her as my queen and tell her how much I love her. I also thank her for allowing me to serve her needs. After she leaves I go the computer and send her an email that will be waiting for her to arrive at work. In the email I greet her as "My Beautiful, Beautiful Princess" and I open with a "Good Morning", I again tell her how beautiful she is (I don't think I can say this too much), I tell her that providing happiness is my purpose, I state that my desire is to serve her. I always share my hope that she has a great day, I tell her that I love her and I close by addressing myself as "your loving, obedient husband". I do this everyday without fail. I do all of the laundry, I do most of the housework and I cook most of the meals. Every night my queen gets a foot massage; I like to set aside at least an hour for this pampering. I am so happy in this new lifestyle, I love serving my dominant wife. Life is Good!"

--Such a good boy. To all: If you live with the special woman of your life, how do you show her you care and are her adoring servant?

Related article: "What is service?"

More Sardax femdom art

More femdom illustrations I like by Sardax. These particular ones involve feet in some way.

A submissive male admiring the feet of his domme/wife.

"Oh I told you if you'd come home with Me, I'd let my beautiful feet touch you and tease your cock. I always keep my word."

A Woman relaxes while surrounded by her adoring slaves.

Fetish Con and Latex Vacuum Bondage

Sorry I haven't posted in awhile but I've been busy. One of the events I went to was FetishCon in tampa, florida. While it's not my favorite bdsm conference I go to, I do enjoy browsing the toys and corsets of the kinky vendors, as well as educating myself through their various bdsm classes. This time my favorite new classes were Plastic Wrap Suspension (yes people can be suspended via plastic wrap) and also a Latex Vacuum Bondage class. The latex vacuum bondage was taught by KinkEngineering.com and featured their Vac Beds and Vac Cubes.

The uniqueness of the stuff that KinkEngineering produces is that they can create just about anything you want (colors, decals, unique pieces) and all their stuff doesn't require a vacuum to be hooked up and turned on all the time. Now as some of you have read in my past blog post, I currently own a VacBed but not made by KinkEngineering. Mine is still good though and features a hole for the mouth/breathing and a hole for a cock to peek through. I did love playing with a couple guys in their VacCubes so I hope to get one of those some day as well. I had fun flipping the VacCube over so that I can access different parts of a guy's body and me and a domme friend applying ice, spanking and tickling to some guys while they were in it. It was fun. =)

Kowtow slave position

If you read my post on slave positions, you'll know that I like to see a male greet Me in the Kowtow position. Here's another photo of that position.

I feel it shows the proper level of respect and humbleness that a sub/slave should show towards his Goddess.

A little history lesson:
"Kowtow is the act of deep respect shown by kneeling and bowing so low as to have one's head touching the ground. ...In Han Chinese culture, the kowtow is the highest sign of reverence. It was widely used to show reverence for one's elders, superiors, and especially the Emperor, as well as for religious and cultural objects of worship. In modern times, usage of the kowtow has become much reduced."
-wikipedia

(I'm doing my part to help bring the position back. ;) )

A strapon collage I made

A strapon collage I made using photos I like. One day I hope to have a live-in male slut/slave/partner in a loving Female-led relationship.

Loving Femdom couple

Tenderness and masculinity displayed in an unusual way. (It makes me think he's sitting on her lap with her strapon cock deep inside him as they lovingly kiss.) Usually you see photos of women sitting on men so I found this image particularly refreshing. Plus I just love black and white (and sepia toned) images.

A loving couple enjoying a tender embrace. (he's such a good boy for her. And he feels safe in her arms, like a warm blanket enveloping him...knowing he belongs to Her)

Foot worship

I just love receiving foot worship. Even the cartoons are doing it. =)

Masculinity and Submission

It seems to me that some people (usually males) have the stereotype that most submissive males are weak or doormats and I think that could be the furthest from the truth. From my 15 years of experience of being into Femdom and from running a Femdomme/malesub munch for 8 years, I can tell you that the male subs that I have met have been wonderful individuals, not weaklings. And personally I think it takes good self-awareness to realize who you are and it takes strength for a male to go against what mainstream society says they should be (the stereotype of males being macho or in charge all the time), and instead put aside all that crap and fully submit to the Woman in his life. That he embraces a confident Woman's guidance and strength and wants to please Her.

Here's some quotes I've collected over the years from various people on the topic of male submission and that I agree with or like:

* "There is little in this world more beautiful than a male submissive, confident in his sexuality, desire and choice." (quote written by a woman)

* "There is nothing more beautiful than a man who will give some of his light so that you may shine." (quote written by a woman)

* "i know a lot of male submissives who are only submissive to one person.(depending on their inclination male or female) to the rest of the human race, they are totally male and many of them are alpha type guys. to be submissive to a person in a relationship doesn't mean being submissive to the rest of the world." (quote written by a male)

* "I am a male slave and have been off and on for years (am a switch but lean more towards the submissives side with the right Mistress). However, I am extremely masculine - I was taught to be a gentleman and Chivalrous to the lady I am with (and that most defiantly includes the Mistress that owns me). I will go out and fight for my Mistress and bring her back what ever it is she wants and then kneel at her feet and let her take anything else she wants as my body and mind is hers to do with as she sees fit.” (quote written by a male)

* "Remember that submission is not thinking less of yourself... but thinking of yourself, less. And what could be more beautiful than a male really wanting to please a woman and do whatever it takes to make her happy." -Me (Mistress Lisa)

* "A smart woman does not judge her man by society's standards. The only standard that matters is if he makes her happy." (quote by a woman)

"I adore you mistress, I will lay at your feet, obedient and humble, submissive to your wishes." - Mark Antony to Cleopatra 69 - 30 B.C

Tender moment

I've always loved black and white photos. This one I like also for the fact that it looks like a tender moment where she's embracing him while partly laying on top of him...her arm over him and he looks like he belongs to her. They both look like they're having a tender moment and are both satisfied. (Now in my kinky mind I also think it's because She's just got done pegging his cute butt and they're both worn out, happy and content now as they enjoy a close embrace together.)

She owns his ass

This is Mine.
Side note: I just love seeing a strong masculine back and cute ass. And I love how She looks like she's confident in knowing that he belongs to Her. She's showing off what's Hers.

Today's mood

Today's mood: feeling pampered and happy.

Worshipping his Goddess

A femdom drawing I came across that shows a male worshipping his african Queen. It's actually unusual for me to find african american women in femdom related art (not sure why that is) so I thought I'd post it. And coincidentally her goddess clothing reminds me of the photo of me from 2009.

Categories added

fyi...I just added Categories to my blog. You'll see them in the right column. That way you can find my blog posts by topic (ie: strapon, foot worship, photos of me, photos of my stuff (like toys/playspace), bondage, kidnapping (a male), pampering, etc.)

CFNM Party

I'm excited. I'm going to my first CFNM party later this week. CFNM means "Clothed Female, Nude Male". According to the party invitation: "This party is for the ladies: to tease, taunt, and otherwise torture the nude male attendees. The men are there to serve and amuse us ladies; ladies are gathered to subject the men to our whimsical desires. We will have a couple of fun organized little party games meant to humilate the boys." Oh it sounds fun.

Worship my Femdom cock

Not me but a photo off the web that I like..."Come on. Open your little mouth and show Me what a little slut you are for Me. you know you want to try it. Be My whore."

Why We need Women to rule our world

Interesting Link of the Day:
A video on youtube called
"Why We Need Women To Rule Our World"

Pic of the day: houseboy

One of the benefits of having a houseboy/slave is being able to feel up the help whenever She wants. (Ooh he does has a cute ass that looks very grabbable.)