Male Chastity

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Pampered at party

I came across this photo and it reminded me of a similar photo that was taken of me a few years ago at a Femdom Tea Party I hosted in my home. I had a black feathered Victorian hat on and was drinking something. The only difference was that I had one sub using a large black feather fan to fan Me and I had two subs massaging my feet. A sub there spontaneously wanted to take a photo of me with his camera but unfortunately later told me his roll of film got ruined so I never did get the photo of Me. Oh well...I still had a great time and this photo reminded me of it.

Tantric Buddhism's worship of the Female

I received this interesting note from someone...

"I have been interested in Female Superiority and it's spiritual connection for quite a while. I have just finished a book which you may or may not be aware of. The title is "Passionate Enlightenment, Women in Tantric Buddhism" by Miranda Shaw.
Here are a few quotes from Chapter 6:

"...the man should prostrate to the Woman, rub Her feet, cook for Her, feed Her, and wait until She has eaten to partake of Her leftovers."

"The following statement becomes his prayer of aspiration" :
"I must practice devotion to Women, until I realize the essence of enlightenment".

There are other statements pointing to the male gender to worship the Female. Thought it would be of interest."

(very interesting indeed. But hopefully once they become "enlightened" they will not stop practicing devotion to Women. For that I believe brings about more enlightenment, usefulness and purpose to a male's life.)

Foreign Ads

Here's some foreign ads that came across as having a Femdom leaning to me. As far as I can tell the german billboard ad above translates into "Recommended by Huttenwarten". I'm not sure what the product is but I like their recommendation of foot and toe licking. =) Lick away, germans, lick away! =)
As for the bottom right ad of the male adoring the woman's leg on the table, I believe that one translates into "And you forget all the rest". nice. He does look very into what he's doing and that's always good to see. And I thought that the Epson ad in the bottom left about the thin scanner was funny. You don't see those kinds of ads everyday. Hmmm...I wonder if there were more ads with femdom leanings if they'd encourage males to be more submissive towards women or it would be more acceptable in the mainstream society.

Nipple play

I find this photo to be sexy. She looks dominant in this photo since she's just about to squeeze his nipple and is the one on top about to kiss him. I also enjoy that they look like a loving couple.

As for nipple play, I do enjoy playing with a male's nipples. But certain male subs have nipples that are more sensitive than others. I find that the ones that have sensitive nipples are easier to control and absolutely love my touch.

Time for your Spanking

You know your naughty little ass needs to be punished.
I doubt you've been an angel lately. Confess to Me your wrongdoings.
What's the difference between discipline and punishment?
Discipline - regular discipline keeps you in line so you don't get a big head. Or it could be just because I'm in the mood to put you over my knee.
Punishment - you are punished for your wrongdoings. you take it to try to make amends for your bad behavior. The intensity can be higher. And you can be punished through physical means or other ways such as assignments or withholding pain if you're a masochist. Some examples of wrongdoings could be that you didn't show up on time, weren't paying enough attention to your Mistress, forgot to wear your panties or you came without permission, etc.

Other/exception:
Sensual spanking - done in a way that incorporates pleasure, playfulness or sensuality. For example, in the bottom left photo above I could be slowly caressing your bottom over my knee and lightly spanking you. It can be done to heighten the eroticism or sensitivity, or to show the dynamic of the relationship by putting you in a submissive position/mode.

Smiling for strapons

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You can tell that she's enjoying what she's doing. I certainly do when I take a male sub with My strapon cock or double ended dildo. I especially love penetrating a new male sub for the first time. And/or restraining a sub in some way so he's forced to take it so I can rape his little lubed ass. I also love grabbing a male's hips and pulling him towards Me so he feels My Femdom cock deep inside him. Turning him into My personal slut is such fun...and pleasurable for both. =)

New delivery

Mmmm...I can imagine him as a new arrival/captive in my hallway.

Breakfast in bed

Another photo I like since it shows your proper place and some of the pampering/service I enjoy.

At my divine feet

Thank you to the submissive admirer from Egypt who sent me a photo he made. He took an existing photo of my feet and changed the words on the pillow to make this photo for me. That was a nice little surprise that put a smile on my face so thank you. I like subs who take time to do something nice for Me out of the blue.

Bahamas trip

I'm back from vacation. I spent Halloween weekend in the Bahamas with some friends. I went to Nassau, Bahamas and visited Atlantis in Paradise Island, Bahamas. I had lots of fun and am now feeling thoroughly relaxed. I spent time relaxing in the water at the beach, visited aquariums and exploring. It was a much needed break. Here's some photos from my trip.


(Personal photos were deleted for privacy sake)

Happy Halloween

Songs I like by Ne-Yo

I just love when songs mention or celebrate women in charge. Here's two songs I like by the artist Ne-Yo:
Miss Independent
and Closer by Ne-Yo
(they'll open in a new window)

Don't you dare move

Here's some photos that remind me of the statement "Don't you dare move". I just love restricting your movements.



You'll just love being under My control.
You have too much freedom as it is. Plus being a slave to a Woman
will make your life more exciting and fulfulling.
(Note: click each photo to enlarge it)
Quote I like: "Freedom was the desolate street i walked, until i was delivered to Her field."

Cops and Robbers

I never played "cops and robbers" growing up. But I'm in the mood to play it today. Although my version of "Cops and Robbers" is a little different. See below.

Now this is my idea of Cops...

Would you like to be pulled over, frisked and searched? ;)
(and yes I do have a cop outfit already. Roleplaying can be fun.)

And here's my idea of Robbers...

I really like this photo. I can imagine coming to you at night and taking you by surprise. I'm not your typical robber though. But you'll find out soon enough.

Puppy play

Unfortunately in my current condo I'm not allowed any real pets but I make do. In fact I love turning a male into my pet. I just love puppy play. Puppy subs can be such fun or humble. I love the look of a male in a metal cage, or in restraints, crawling, fetching, obeying my commands or drinking out of a bowl humbly.

Below is a photo of the strict Puppy Restraint System that I own. There's short chains secured to each of your ankles and wrists and then secured to your cock and balls. It'll help ensure that you stay on your hands and knees like a good dog for Me. No standing up for you. Just crawl for me, slave. You know you want to be My dog. Bark if you understand.

You're not going anywhere until I release you, My pet.

Owned

Here's another photo I enjoy. I like that she's handling him like property. I just love possessing a slave and showing him that I can touch him whenever and wherever I want and he will be made to do whatever I want.

Cute butt

Here's a black & white photo I really like. For me, I imagine it's a domme slowly removing the bedsheet off of her male sub to reveal his cute butt for her viewing pleasure and possibly for some slow sensual strapon play.

Submissive versus slave

There has been some confusion or muddiness regarding the term "submissive" versus "slave". Here's some definitions which I tend to agree with.

"A submissive is someone who is or has a desire to be submissive to another, or a submissive personality or chooses a submissive role within a relationship.

A slave is someone who has a submissive desire and has entered into a relationship with a dominant personality and has grown in the relationship to a degree of trust and communication, that they feel comfortable giving 100% of their trust to the dominant person. They trust that the dominant partner will not harm them so they offer up their limits, or safeword (if they had them), as no longer needed, they have complete and unwavering trust in their dominant partner so they offer up their bodies and soul as property to the dominant partner."

I'm ultimately looking for a slave, but that can develop over time.

Submissive office boys

Some days when I'm in my office I imagine having some submissive office boys at my feet in my office. Especially since the company where I work has some very handsome male salespeople and they just keep hiring more. We must have the best looking sales team. Some are not that bright or are married but I imagine with a little hypnosis or something they could temporarily turn into good little footboys in my office. It would be fun to just be able to say one trigger word and immediately they turn from professionals into instant obedient slaves. It would be very useful or entertaining for my breaks. I found an office domination video I like...


I also fantasize about owning a big company where I'm the boss and where certain male workers are called into my office and threatened with being fired if they do not do everything I say. For example, taking off their clothes and kneeling as my slave at work. And their performance reviews would be very interesting.

Sidenote: My immediate boss and co-worker already got down on their hands and knees and worshipped me in real life saying "We're not worthy. We're not worthy". They were praising me for a office project I was extremely creative on. Needless to say I enjoyed their little display of worshipping me. =)

Bathing My feet

It rained here today and I stepped in a puddle. I need a slave to wash my precious feet. I have a Greek-style classic foot basin and pitcher a slave can use. (I'm part greek). Well what are you waiting for, slave? Get to it! It seems like you're slacking today so if you need some divine inspiration, you'll find more photos of my lovely feet and a photo of my foot basin on My website's photo gallery page.

Today's thoughts

Long day today. Came home to an empty house. I'm normally very independent and fine by myself. I usually keep myself busy. But it's days like these where I really wished that I already had an adoring live-in male sub here to comfort me, relax me and serve Me.

I thought I'd post this prayer again since I really like it and it came to mind again today...

"The Submissive's Prayer":

Allow me the strength to answer questions I can't fathom.
Allow me the spirit to know Her needs.
Allow me the kindness to choke back retorts.
Allow me the serenity to serve Her in peace.
Allow me the love to show Her myself.
Allow me the tenderness to comfort Her.
Allow me the light to show us the way.
Allow me the wisdom to be an asset to Her.
Let me be able to show Her each day my love of my service to Her.
Let me open myself up to completely belong to Her.
Let my eyes show Her the same respect, rather I sit at her side, or kneel at her feet.
Let me learn to please Her, beyond myself.
Grant me the power to give myself to Her completely.
Give me the strength to please us both.
Permit me to love myself, in loving Her.
Allow me the peace of serving Her.
For it is my greatest wish, my highest power To make her life complete, as She makes mine.

Ideas for a Sub Hunt

I like the idea of having a sub hunt. Here's some ideas I've gathered:

-a hunt in the woods where the dominant Women chase the male prey. (ie: 15 naked or scantily clad male subs to be hunted through twenty acres of forest set with some pre-arranged traps and the males could have their hands bound in the front and depending on how long the hunt is be given a backpack of emergency/needed supplies such as a first aid kit, sunscreen, bug spray, food bars, fruit, water bottle, emergency cell phone or whistle. And maybe put a scent or perfume on the subs so the dommes can track them. The dommes could also have sketched maps of the area which show the traps, also have emergency phone, water, snack, a marker and whatever else she wants. A domme could capture a sub, write her name on him with marker and then put him in a sub holding pen or jail for the captured males. The most successful hunter could be identified as the one who'd marked the most prey and given first choice of what to do to whom. Optional: There could be a possibility of "winning" built into the game for the subs. For example, the sub might have to complete a certain task during the run, or reach a certain destination before the hunters, or stay free for a certain amount of time. If they achieve this they win rewards during take down, rather than being punished for being captured.)

other ideas:
-paintball hunt
-lazer tag hunt
-fox hunt with subs on all fours
-a hunt with the subs wearing shocking dog collars around their genitals and dommes having the remote controls might be interesting.
-or if inside a small home, blindfold the hunter and prey but put bells on the prey so the domme could hear him.
-in a maze. There are some big corn mazes during halloween for example.
-in a nature preserve or park.

Slave positions

Awhile ago I came across 2 graphics showing 25 "slave positions". They are a series of very specific body positions of the sub/slave to the Mistress to offer for service, display, servitude or play. They weren't numbered so I numbered them in case sometimes I just want to use numbers when ordering a slave. And I also heard about another pose (the kowtow) so I created a graphic showing that. So far I've only been requiring subs/slaves to know the kowtow position and to always use this pose to greet Me. But in the future I will require a sub/slave to learn more positions.

A sub is required to initially greet Me in kowtow position when first arriving in my home, then to wait til I place my lovely foot before him and I command him to kiss it and then the other one. I love this submissive act. It's a nice way for him to show his respect and subservience.

Strict yet loving

I came across this photo online of a male sub with his head in his Mistress' lap. Such a beautiful moment. While I enjoy being dominant with subs, I also enjoy it when there's tender moments like this.

Gagged for her use

I like this photo alot. First of all, I've always loved black and white photos. Having an artistic side myself, I've been meaning to take some tasteful black and white photos of males in submissive poses but haven't gotten around to it yet. One day though. Maybe when I have more time to work on my future femdom magazine. Anyway for this photo above, the guy has a beautiful form especially back and butt. And it would be so easy to just come up behind him and push his head into the pillow and then do naughty things with him.