Unless she likes that, that's trying to top from the bottom. To me, it sounds like you instead need spankings as a reward and need a different punishment for disobedience.
Being spanked may seem like a reward at first but for it to have the proper effect I do think that it has to hurt, i need to be well beyond thinking this feels good, But i also want to have the lingering marks that both remind me of the spanking and give me some pride for having been worth spanking and accepting her right to administer it.
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ReplyDeleteSometimes I even pretend to be disobedient so that I can get what I want - get spanked!
ReplyDeleteUnless she likes that, that's trying to top from the bottom. To me, it sounds like you instead need spankings as a reward and need a different punishment for disobedience.
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ReplyDeleteBeing spanked may seem like a reward at first but for it to have the proper effect I do think that it has to hurt, i need to be well beyond thinking this feels good, But i also want to have the lingering marks that both remind me of the spanking and give me some pride for having been worth spanking and accepting her right to administer it.
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