Bdsm information for male subs

-"5 Staggering Secrets of Female Domination" Video. 

(Good points. Although I do not totally agree with her #3 secret fully which states that most dominant women do not get sexually aroused during femdom. Because I can get sexually aroused sometimes when controlling some males. But I first need a mental connection and good conversation. Example: I had a local handsome male sub serve me many times a few years ago and our problem was that he only wanted to talk about non-bdsm topics until after doing bdsm. He wanted to get his mind off work. But I only could get mentally and physically stimulated after we would have a good conversation about his work, etc. which unfortunately was after play. Talk showing his intelligence etc. is what I liked. So I learned my lesson about what I need. If we would have focused more on our mental connection and conversation first in person each time then things would have gone alot better for both of us.)

My past blog posts with helpful info:

-Some basic bdsm terms to know

-Definition of submissive

-Poem called "Slavery is/not"

-What is "service"?

-Why we love submissive men

-Courtship of a dominant woman

-10 ways to lose your Mistress

-Integrating your worlds in a partner

-Female centric versus male centric

-Topping from the bottom, and feeding dominance

- Things to do instead of masterbating

Also...

"The basis of any good relationship is honesty and trust. In addition to that, the foundation of a good committed d/s relationship is structure, discipline and communication." - from a discussion at a bdsm munch I recently went to.