Benefits of getting spanked

Many people believe that if someone likes to get spanked, it is all sexual. That is not true in many cases. Even though getting spanked has some sexual effects or enhances sexual arousal, there are many non-sexual benefits from getting spanked. 

1. Getting spanked provides discipline, direction and correction.

2. Getting spanked relieves stress. It can help relieve built up emotions. (This can be for the male being spanked and for the woman who is spanking him.)

3. Getting spanked can generate endorphins and can put you in a euphoric state.

4. Getting spanked can generate adrenaline and can give an adrenaline rush, especially if you are getting a very harsh paddling.

5. Getting spanked changes your mood. 

6. Getting spanked is a great activity for bonding. Spanking can help create physical and mental closeness.

7. Getting spanked can restore feelings of youth.

8. Getting spanked can create a feeling of accomplishment, like you were man enough to take a very painful spanking.

9. Getting spanked adds focus and clarity to your life. It keeps you grounded and humble. (I think all males should be spanked regularly.)

10. The marks left by a spanking can be an art of its own. Spanking can leave an impression.

11. Spanking can help relieve conflict sometimes and clear the air with the woman and help set the male on the right path again. The path to refocus on her and behave better.

12. In one study, spanking made people smarter. Their memory improved during tests.

13. Spankings can create memorable times together.

So spanking has many benefits. And I bet you're long overdue for a spanking.

Have you had your spanking today, sissy?

I have many implements to spank with.

And I also enjoy giving an over the knee spanking with my hand... the more intimate hands-on approach and closeness. 

The source of some text is below, but I edited it above and added to it.

SpanksGiving

I hope everyone had a Happy Thanksgiving SpanksGiving!

Bend over now!

Afterwards it's ThanksGiving time.

He's my personal slut

Here's some strapon drawings that I thought are sexy. As for the act, I love the intimate connection/closeness and pleasure of it all.

My submissive slut to take however I want.

Her sissy sub

 A photo I like...

I love it when Mistress touches me. Her touch excites me. I love it when she feminizes me and treats me like her gurl and her property. I'm so lucky.

CD Funnies

Some crossdressing funnies...

True. They started it. Lol.

The solution to ANY problem?

Okay, all, you heard it. Now implement it. Lol.

I did grow up watching Bugs Bunny and saw him crossdress more than once. We need more cartoons like that.

True for several people. But I guess people in the middle are super thin. People must be jealous.

Crossdressing and religion

Today I accidentally came across a Christian religion website that said that crossdressing is a sin and women should tell their man that they do not want him to do it. That the Bible says for people not to crossdress because it's an abomination. I guess I should never wear pants or I'm going to hell. Lol. The Bible was written by many males over a long time, was trying to suppress people and it's not fact. Even biblical historical researchers say this. In parts of it, it also encourages stoning people to death and condones the rape of women. Alot of hate, wars, and violence have been done because of idiots citing religious reasons. 

I do not think that women should say that their man is sinful and should stop expressing himself. I think more women should support and encourage the softer feminine side of him. And putting on fabrics that look and feel good and help make a person happy is not a sin.

In support of crossdressing, here's some photos of loving couples where the male is crossdressing and the woman supports and encourages it:

Enjoy exploring your feminine side.

Whether a male crossdressed on his own or I make him crossdress for me, it is not a sin. It's fun and sexy. And I love crossdressing a male and shopping for sexy feminine things for him to wear. It makes me happy.

Link on religion:

- George Carlin talks briefly on religion.

Queen to adore

There is no question of MY place, 

you simply have to know yours.

Kneel and honor your Queen. 

Always be open, loyal, honest, useful, obedient, consistent, reliable, polite, kind, and understand it's a privilege to serve me. Know that you are submissive and serving will bring you some fulfillment before contacting me. Show me that you want to please me and that you value me. 

Can you relinquish control, strive to obey and please? The more unselfish and submissive you are to me, the more attractive you become.

(Note: The photo of me is from 2010 but I do not look that different.)

Gifts received

Thank you to the secret admirer who sent me the Fetish boots that I had listed on my Amazon wishlist. I like them alot. They look great and are surprisingly comfortable. 

And thank you to the foreign admirer who made my name out of watermelon hearts. It's a very nice and thoughtful gesture. :)

Artistic side

My artistic side meets your reddened side.

I expect anyone in my life to understand that I'm an artist at heart and need to express myself when I have the desire to. It makes me happy. 

By the way, long ago back in a college art class, one of my male figure drawing teachers said something like "It's too bad you don't have a guy at home always kept in your studio so you can draw him everyday. You'd become a master artist." This above image reminds me of that. (I think that helped fuel my imagination of kidnapping a male back then.)

Holiday time

It has begun. Halloween decorations are coming down and Grinchmas decorations are going up. I want to do a fun Grinchmas/Whoville party for my kinky friends this year. I did one many years ago in 2013 and they loved it and so did I.

Naughty is the new nice this year, 

according to the Grinch.

But this year I want to have lots of green food. If anyone has ideas then let me know your thoughts. 

Daylight savings time

Daylight savings time ends at 2am on Sunday. 

That means we get an extra hour in bed.

At 1:45am, she tells him "You can handle it, my little slut. I'm just going to peg you until 2:01am". 

(But he doesn't know that at 2:00am, clocks go back an hour and become 1:00am. Cell phones automatically change the time. He's in for more than he expected. Lol.)

"I'm not done yet. It's only 1am."

Service oriented submission

A good article to read...

"Service Submission: What does service submission really mean? By female sub LunaKM.

"Service is any activity or function that you fill to make your dominant partner's life easier. This could be as simple as preparing their coffee, laying out their clothes for them or performing domestic chores."

"Service....While it's quite clear that the definition means that we are helping or doing work for someone, performing a kindness or favor, when we apply that term to D/s it tends to take on a more indepth role. Service, to me, definitely means I'm doing something for my Dominant partner, something that they find important to have fulfilled and have given me that honor to perform."

For alot more of her articles to read on service submission:

https://submissiveguide.com/skills/series/series-service-submission

For a male sub's perspective, "Some thoughts on domestic service from a male submissive":

https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/some-thoughts-on-domestic-service

Happy Halloween

I hope you all have a happy Halloween!

Enjoy some "spider infested swamp soup" I made...

I made it by blending spinach, banana, mango and strawberries. My photo from Oct. 2019. One day I want to have a fun sit down spooky dinner for kinky friends.

Enjoy your Halloween whether you're dressed up as a male or female or both.

And thank you to the sub admirer who sent me the Halloween pillows and coasters that were on my Amazon wishlist.

Hot wax play

Tomorrow I'm going to a wax play class. It's been awhile since I've done wax play so I'm looking forward to it. It'll be fun to watch the demo. And I have new fluorescent low temperature wax candles that glow in blacklight and are in many colors.

Colors of different personalities

Today I came across this graphic someone posted online for a personality test. What color are you at this season of your life?

It may help you understand yourself and others more. As for me, I'm mostly blue with a touch of gold.

Be useful in the kitchen

Good boys and gurls are useful in the kitchen. For instance, they use their strong arms to scrub the dishes clean.

"I'm all done, Mistress. Thank you for letting me be your sissymaid and be useful to you."

(I've always found males in the kitchen to be sexy, whether in male mode or as a sissymaid. I also remember when I used to have femdom tea parties with male subs only in skimpy thongs and a sissymaid all in the kitchen preparing tea and snacks while me and other dominant ladies watched, chatted and enjoyed ourselves. It was delightful.)

Femdom comic

Some images I like...

"So you think you can do a better job than my little princess, huh?" "Princess?" he replies. "I guess there's only one way to find out!"

His new outfit has him looking like a pretty sissymaid. So lovely! Let the training begin.

In trouble

Update: I wasn't feeling good this week (not a sickness). I took a break from posting often. But now I'm back and in a stern disciplinarian mood. 

"Get in line, little bitches. Confess your mistakes and laziness while I was away. And I'll deal with your ass. We both know your ego needs to be put back in line."

Strip first. I'm in the mood to give alot of pain.

It was for your own good.

You're put to bed early with a very sore red ass.

Outdoor spanking

Laundry day...

"That's it. Go hang all of our lingerie outside to dry."

Later that day...

"Oh...I didn't say try on all of the lingerie, sissy. I said take down the dry lingerie. But you do look very sexy. Stick out that sissy ass, you sexy bitch."