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I'm trying on corsets today for an upcoming event. Do you have a corset too? If not, what's stopping you?
Corsets can also be good for giving an hourglass figure to your waist like a sexy gurl. Also good for grabbing you from behind too. ;)
The 8 traits of a healthy and empowered submissive:
1. Humble. Can accept feedback.
2. Teachable. Has a desire to learn and grow. Surrenders control.
3. Communicative. And trustworthy. Trusting you can be honest and reliable.
4. Aware of limits and boundaries.
5. Aware of their gifts and talents. And aware of areas of opportunity (areas for growth).
6. Desire to serve and support.
7. Feels empowered in their role. It's consensual power exchange.
8. Interdependent (not codependent).
This was my recap from watching the two part videos from Ms. Elle X on YouTube:
- "The good sub test: part 1" video
- "The good sub test: part 2" video
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I initially heard of her from coming across this image online:
Current mood: very horny to use my strapon fem cock.
Today, Sunday April 24 is National Lingerie Day. So slip on some sexy lingerie and/or buy some new lingerie. Enjoy your sexy self and feel the soft fabrics on your body. Have fun!
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You may be masculine and in charge to the outside world but at home, you're often my gurl. And your only responsibility is to obey me. It's easy. You just say "Yes, Ma'am" then do as I say.
"Bake me some cookies, my little bitch."
(Actually these cookies could come in handy because I'm going to a kinky picnic tomorrow.)
And I believe I found the study:
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/24263803_Social_Dominance_and_Forceful_Submission_Fantasies_Feminine_Pathology_or_Power
Excerpt:
"...preference score by gender for each of the vignette types. Men preferred the female domination scenario (men’s submission fantasy) significantly more than the women preferred the female domination scenario—F(1, 452) ¼14.87, p<.0001—reflecting women’s relatively low interest in playing the aggressive role in sexual exchanges (Mednick, 1977;Wilson & Lang, 1981). Women preferred the male domination scene (women’s submission fantasy) significantly more than the men preferred the male domination scene—F(1, 455) ¼264.42, p<.0001—suggesting that women’s predilection for forceful submission is greater than men’s preference to fantasize about forceful domination (cf. Yost & Zurbriggen, 2006; Zurbriggen, 2000). In addition, men’s preference for the scenario depicting him being dominated by an aggressive woman was greater than women’s preference for the scenario depicting her being dominated by an aggressive man,F(1, 451) ¼36.01, p<.0001. In other words, men had a higher preference for submissive fantasies than did women. Moreover, both men and women preferred the submissive fantasies over the fantasies in which they themselves were portrayed as dominant: men, F(1, 228.5) ¼50.61, p<.0001; women, F(1, 225) ¼44.21, p<.0001—that is, both genders preferred being the target of aggressive advances over being the perpetrator (cf. Yost & Zurbriggen, 2006). "
Happy Earth Day, everyone!
Tips for helping the environment:
-Recycle at home and work. Make sure there are recycling bins.
-Help with beach cleanups or other areas.
-Donate to TeamTrees.org to support planting trees.
-Donate to TeamSeas.org to support removing plastics from the sea and beaches in some of most plastic polluted areas.
-Plant your own trees or plants.
-Eliminate or eat less beef. It is horrible for the earth and your health. (1 pound of beef takes 1847 gallons of water to produce. That's 39 bathtubs full. 90% of the destruction of the Amazon rainforest is due to animal agriculture. Red meat is also a likely carcinogen according to World Health Organization. And they recently also found an inflammatory compound in it.) Try Meatless Mondays or several days of no meat. There are several plant-based products nowadays that taste like meat. Try new things.
-Cut down on using plastics and plastic bags. (It takes 500 years for plastic to biodegrade.) Use reuseable non-plastic bags.
What is "service"?
"What do you mean when you offer to serve? What do you mean when you offer to BE of service? What do mean when you offer yourself in servitude?
Do the answers to these questions bring up visions of you being bound helplessly while being exquisitely tortured, teased to the verge of orgasm?
Do you envision some Amazon Goddess sporting a huge strap-on taking you anally?
Do you envision yourself prancing around in some French Maid Costume and being asked to provide oral service to a Mistress?
Do you envision some woman sqatting over your helplessly bound body "forcing" you to serve her orally?
Or do you envision being put over her knee and spanked like a naughty little boy?
Yes, nice visions aren't they? However, not one of those visions is the definition of "serve", "service" or "servitude".
Oh, I'm sure many subs consider them to be just that, but if you check your dictionaries you won't find any mention of French Maid Costumes, bondage, strap-ons, oral sex, or any other fetish you may enjoy.
In fact you won't find any mention of fetishes at all in the definitions.
Serve is defined as:
-to work for, be a servant;
-to act in a specific capacity;
-to place food before, wait on;
-to be of assistance to.
Service is defined as:
-the occupation or duties of a servant;
-the act or means of serving;
-duties performed as an occupation.
Servitude is defined as:
-Submission to a master; slavery.
When you offer to serve a FemDomme, what you are offering (or should be offering) is the surrender of your control. You should know her well enough to trust her with your life.
When you offer your servitude to her, you are telling her that you trust her judgment, you trust her to keep you safe from harm, you trust her to know what is best for both of you, you trust her decisions and desire to follow her orders and obey her in all things.
Your offer of service is your ability to let go of your ego and your free will (control) and allow her to control you.
Serving is, first and foremost, the act of making her life easier. It is compliance with all her desires, wishes, orders. Yes, BD/SM and fetish play, more than likely, will be included as part of the relationship. But overall, the D/s aspect of the relationship will be where you have turned your control over to her and you do as she says. It is about pampering her and catering to her.
Everyday life will be a part of this, for most people do have to work, bills do have to be paid, people need to see doctors occasionally, and dentists. Then there are family get togethers, family emergencies, social gatherings with vanilla friends and also with D/s friends. For the most part, life will seem pretty vanilla, but there will be one difference. IF you have truly submitted, then your actions will be measured by how your Mistress would feel about it. Your decisions will be based upon what you are allowed, or not allowed to decide without her permission. You will treat others with respect, but especially other women. You will consider that your actions would reflect back upon your Mistress, and therefore act in a manner that would make her proud of you. There may be other constant reminders, she may insist you wear panties under your clothes at work. But you will always remember that you have submitted to her and will honor that commitment.
How can you serve your Mistress? What are the ways?
Here are some suggestions:
-Make sure her home is clean and neat.
-Make sure her clothes are clean and neat.
-Prepare her favorite foods for her.
-Prepare her bath.
-Rub her feet after she comes in from working all day.
-Offer her a massage if her day was very stressful.
-Offer to do her manicure and pedicure.
-Have her favorite music playing or find her favorite show or movie on TV.
-Surprise her with flowers.
-Serve her coffee as soon as she gets up in the morning.
-Ask what clothing she wants laid out for her.
A happy, contented, pleased, relaxed woman is a woman who will then have no problem torturing you, using you, or even indulging you with a fetish or two that are your favorites...just to show you how much she really appreciates your service and submission to her.
So, what are you offering?
-Personal service only (oral, massage, bathing)?
-Play sessions only (spankings, facesitting, strap-on, whippings, cbt)
-Domestic service only (household chores, errands)?
-OR are offering the whole package?
These are the things you need to be clear about in your own mind first and foremost before approaching a Mistress and offering to "serve" her. Along with how committed you wish to be to the D/s relationship, if at all.
- MsLyn"
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Feeding off of your sensitive neck...sinking my teeth...taking what I want: your essence, your whole self, your soul...you. Even if you have to struggle at first to give me all of what I want. In the end, it just works better if you surrender fully. You know you want to offer your delicious neck to Me. Mmm...sweet, my prey.
What you'll get used to...
For males that need some behavior modification because they have too big of an ego or are out of hand...
I saw a video of comedian Nikki Glaser on the Joe Rogan show who said she quit her drinking addiction right after reading this book below. And other celebrities have quit their addictions after reading books by this same author, Allen Carr. So I thought I'd share. On Amazon.com he has books on many addictions. Here are some:
See all his book titles on Amazon HERE. Several people have addictions to something. But the question is: Do you want to change and continue to improve yourself?
Current mood: horny, forceful and dominant.
(This looks like the new strapon cock that I bought back in September but mine also vibrates.) "Get on it, my little slut! You're going to satisfy me and then you may cum."
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Happy World Party Day!
