Back from Beyond Leather

I'm back from vacation. I attended the "Beyond Leather" 2010 bdsm conference in Fort Lauderdale and had a great time.
I took some fun bdsm classes including: "Interrogation and Abduction" by Hardy Haberman, "Foot Bondage" by Cherries Jubalie, "Evil, Mean and Nasty" by Lqqkout, "CBT (cock and ball torture)" by Hardy Haberman, "Consentual Non-Consent" by Sybil Herman, "Suspension" by Lqqkout, "Roleplay" by Utah Rox, "Military Bondage" by GrayDancer, "Rustic Furniture: Objectification" by Cherries Jubalie, "Bondage 101/201" by Leon Grossman, and "Cerebral Copulation" by Hardy Haberman.

(By the way, I've been attending various bdsm conferences and classes since 2002 so if you want to see a more extensive list of classes I took or taught, then view my stats page on my website.)

And I just loved the energy at the bdsm conference and that everyone is so openminded and knowledgeable.

"Legend of the Seeker" videos

Some hot video clips from the "Legend of the Seeker" tv show. They show the Mord Siths which are some dominant looking (and evil) women. I wish they would show more of them on that show but alas they usually don't. Anyway enjoy. ;) I just love seeing a male helpless.

Beyond Leather

It's official. I'm now registered for the "Beyond Leather" bdsm conference on April 23-25 in Fort Lauderdale, Florida and am excited and looking forward to it. ;) Lots of kinky vendors to buy things from, watch nightly performances like a bigger "Lube Wrestling" match with males, many bdsm classes and more. And among the many classes, I hear there's "consentual non-consent", "roleplay" and "interrogation and abduction" classes so those should be interesting.

What's important

There is nothing more beautiful and right to Me than a male submitting to a Woman. One who is focused on pleasing Her and not mainly focused on his kinks. (And I may have many kinky interests but the quality of a male, his character and his willingness to be helpful are more important to Me. And that he knows he sincerely wants a loving female-led authority/relationship in his life.)

“A true submissive gains pleasure from serving the needs of his Domme”

Time to be My bitch

"I get these cravings...to be a bitch. And then I can't help but do what you want." - a male sub.

I just read that online and it turned Me on. I just LOVE making a male my bitch...my slut and penetrating him...entering him with My femdom cock and using him however I want. Mmmmm...we both know you want to be My slut. I do so enjoy it.

Slavery is/not...

I came across this bdsm poem online and enjoyed it so I thought I'd share.

"Slavery is / not..."
(Author: slave david stein, under the Guardianship of Master Steve Sampson © 1998)

slavery is not about suffering . . .
. . . slavery is about service.
slavery is not about humiliation . . .
. . . slavery is about humility.
slavery is not about pain . . .
. . . slavery is about being present.
slavery is not about being used . . .
. . . slavery is about being of use.
slavery is not about control . . .
. . . slavery is about letting go.
slavery is not about your desires . . .
. . . slavery is about giving to others.
slavery is not about abuse . . .
. . . slavery is about acceptance.
slavery is not about proving anything . . .
. . . slavery is about being real.
slavery is not about contempt . . .
. . . slavery is about respect.
slavery is not about how you look . . .
. . . slavery is about how you care.
slavery is not about denying yourself . . .
. . . slavery is about being open.
slavery is not about punishment . . .
. . . slavery is about discipline.
slavery is not about being unable to escape . . .
. . . slavery is about being committed.
slavery is not about submission . . .
. . . slavery is about obedience.
slavery is not about fear . . .
. . . slavery is about trust.
slavery is not about sex . . .
. . . slavery is about love.
slavery is not about pleasure . . .
. . . slavery is about happiness.

Visit to Hippocrates land

For those who don't know, I'm currently on a 100% raw food diet. And today I visited the Hippocrates Health Institute in West Palm Beach, Florida since they had an Open House day talking about their LifeChange program based on raw foods and answering questions and there was a great raw food buffet.

My goodness...what an absolutely beautiful piece of property. Very private, lots of acres with very lush tropical gardens and beautiful buildings. Plenty of space for lots of people. I certainly imagined taking over that place and converting it into my matriarchal eco-village. But alas they'll never give that property up since they are highly successful with people coming from around the world to be taught and healed by a raw food diet there. But it helped me recommit and think that I have got to find the right private piece of property for My vision of a matriarchal community.

(ps- And no I do not force subs/slaves to eat raw. I think a person has to learn for themselves what is the ideal diet for them. As for me I do think a raw diet is the healthiest on the planet since cooking destroys up to 85% of nutrients and all enzymes. But if anyone is interested in seeing what I eat on my raw food diet, I also run a health blog since health and nutrition are some of my other passions.)

Ads - domestic use

Here's a few magazine ads I came across where the male looks submissive. Such a good boy...


“A true submissive gains pleasure from serving the needs of his Domme”

Today's desire

Today I have a strong desire to see a humble male locked in chastity under my complete control. To see him all locked up with Me holding the key excites Me and gives me a power rush. I'd enjoy it and I believe it's the ultimate gift of submission and trust.

(Pictured at left is the CB-2000 I own and the right photo is the Sentinel that I'm curious about. I just love metal. I'm also looking into other devices.) I believe that if all males were under masterbation and orgasm control by Women then the world would be a much more agreeable place. ;) "Come on, boy, you know you want to be under My full erotic control and please Me."

Pampered by males

A nice photo of a woman being pampered and looking happy. I also liked that her massage table looks like it's called "master". How appropriate. =) And I encourage males to look into how to pamper and relax a woman. (massage books, pedicure, getting some lotions, learn to focus on her happiness. Kinkiness is great but I like being pampered.) A good article to read: "What is service?"

"The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others." - Gandhi

Position to greet Me in

A sissy greeting his Mistress/Owner


Nice outfit but I instead prefer seeing my slaves in the Kowtow position when I arrive. Looking very humble before Me.

Her slave

A captured slave waiting for his Mistress to arrive home. He's trained to stay on the bed from 6pm until the moment he hears her drive up. Then he shuffles to greet her.


"Welcome home, Mistress" he says humbly as he kisses her feet and then cleans the dirt off her lovely shoes.

You are meant to be owned

Here are a few photos I enjoy, with my captions...

"Owning and training slaves ran in the family. All her strong-willed sisters owned males and trained them to their liking. It was understood by all that males are here to be useful to Females and worship them. It's their place."


Some come of their own free will and are commanded to disrobe upon arrival for they won't be needing their old clothes anymore.
Or the slave is stripped by a Woman.

And others are taken...


But all the males eventually learned their place, accepted their fate and were at peace in their new home serving as they should.


Here's a quote I like:
“So long as man remains free he strives for nothing so incessantly and painfully as to find someone to worship”
~ Fyodor Dostoyevsky (so true)

Bdsm Quiz

Here's an interesting quiz I came across:
"Do you have an inclination for bdsm?"

I Scored as Dominant.
"It's nice to be in charge and get what you want. And being in a position where people will do what you say is exciting."

Dominant: 100%
Sadist: 75%
Experimental: 61%
Bondage: 25%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur: 25%
Vanilla: 25%
Degradation Lover: 11%
Submissive: 0%
Masochist: 0%
Switch: 0%

Valentine's

Valentine's day is coming. Worship your Goddess.

Characteristics I seek

Some characteristics I seek: Honesty, Integrity, Loyalty, Submissiveness, Intelligence, Respectfulness, Usefulness, Openmindedness, Reliability, Thoughtfulness, Sincerity. Ask yourself if you have those qualities or could learn to develop them so I do not waste my time with you.

I'm back

I'm finally back online after a long break. I moved and it took longer than expected to get my new internet connection established in my new home in naples florida so I haven't been online since christmas. Glad to be back now. Happy new year to everyone by the way. And I'm still unpacking and also setting up my new home and larger dungeon (converting the garage) but everything is coming along great!

Happy Holidays

Merry Christmas!

such a nice present

Kept

So helpless, so vulnerable, so kept...MmmmmI'm going to love getting my hands on you. I'm going to keep you captive and teach you to be my perfect slave and slut. you look so sexy just waiting for Me, your new owner.

Strapons

Since I have a strapon fucking on my mind tonight (which is not unusual for nighttime), I'll share a few photos I like. Enjoy. ;)

BDSM conference in April 2010

I am planning to go to the "Beyond Leather" bdsm conference on April 23-25, 2010 in Fort Lauderdale florida and will be looking for someone to go with and share a hotel room with. It's not until April 2010 so there's plenty of time. I went to the first one in 2008 for this annual event and it was alot of fun. It had bdsm vendors, many bdsm workshops/classes, bdsm theater performances at night, nice hotel, dungeon space, etc. I've gone to alot of bdsm conferences over the past 10 years in various cities but this one had a nice exciting atmosphere to it.

I could use a laugh

Here's some funnies I like:

Since I do not dominate women, I just imagine that last image is a cute sissy forced to bend over.

12 good traits to have

These were on my mind today...

Femdom Article of the Day:
The 12 traits of a good slave/husband (inspired by scout law)
(once you click that above link it'll open in a new window. Close that window to return here)

Quote of the day:
“True strength lies in submission which permits one to dedicate his life, through devotion, to something beyond himself.”
- Henry Miller, American author and writer, 1891 -1980.

(I have that quote hanging up on the wall in my dungeon/playspace)

Update on sub hunt in woods

I'm shutting down the FemDomme/malesub munch that I ran for the past almost 8 years since interest is low and I'm busy in my personal life trying to buy a house, femdom, and creating my art. Last night I had the last event for my munch/group. It was a holiday party and enjoyable. It was good to see old friends and a couple new people and also the kinky gift exchange was very fun. It was a combined event with another local munch.

One of the members of that munch offered his home with 3 acres to have an event at for the other munch. He was looking for ideas so I told him about my idea of a Sub Hunt and he said he has the private woods to do it in so I'm excited. It looks like I could possibly make this one a reality. He even said he has a little fenced in corral area that I could use as a holding pen for captured subs. =)

Here's a photo I found on the web that reminded me of the sub hunt idea.
"you think you could run and hide in the woods and not be captured by us dommes. silly boy".

Visas to the US

I've had some males visit me from other states and countries in the past. People out out the country usually ask me if they need a visa or not to visit me in the United States. Here's a website I know that tells about Visas: http://travel.state.gov/visa/visa_1750.html

The US does have a program called "Visa Waiver Program" that allows visitors from 35 specific countries (ie: Australia, United Kingdom, Spain, etc.) to temporarily visit the US for up to 90 days without a visa for the purpose of business or pleasure. See the above link for more info.

Also no visas are needed for citizens of Canada, Mexico or the Bahamas. Residents of other countries should research info for their country.(example: Africa, Greece, etc.)

Amusing Kidnapping Photos

As some of you can tell from my previous blog entry about kidnapping and my capturedmales.com site I'm developing, one of my Femdom fantasies is kidnapping a male and turning him into my captive slave. Here's a few kidnap play photos that amuse Me.

For the left photo I think: While shopping for the holidays, I found a great present just for Myself. What every woman needs...a captured male to become an obedient slave. Next year I'll just need to ask Santa for a new car with a bigger trunk. ha. ;)
For the right photo I think: Wow they're having a great sale at Bloomingdale's. I'll have to treat myself to a shopping trip as a reward for having done such a nice job at kidnapping you, slave.

Femdom related Ads

Here's some Ads for shoes and accessories. They look like they have a strong Femdom leaning. One boy looks like he's submissively waiting on the floor for his Mistress' arrival with his head bowed. And the other male looks forcefully controlled by a Woman. So nice.

Realize your potential in a Female-led relationship

Worshipping his Mistress and being useful to Her means that
he becomes an asset to Her and enables him to have purpose, care, structure, discipline/accountability and helps soothe his submissive soul (his need to please a woman and help make her happy).

Be My Footrest, slave

Over the years, I've been collecting photos on my computer of UNIQUE bdsm furniture I like, with the hopes that I'll be able to find a way to incorporate some of them into my larger home in the future. In my previous entry, you've already seen the cage bed I like. Here's another example of something I liked to have.
There's nothing like restraining a slave to be My real footrest...all nice and trapped and available to me whenever I want. So good to have some useful furniture to kick My feet up on after a long day. =)

This illustration by Sardax also reminds me of the above furniture piece but I think the above one would be more secure. I'd keep you in shackles and use your face as I please. You're not going anywhere until I say. "Shhh...no talking, my little captive toy. Furniture should be seen and not heard" I say as I shove My lovely foot in your mouth.