Serving me at home

 

"I'll take some iced tea and a foot massage now, sissy. And then you can back to your chores like a good gurl."

Dressing up

 

That would be me: I love crossdressing subs and think it's hot, sexy and fun. I love having a sub model different outfits or lingerie for me. And I'd love to go shopping with a sub for outfits, lingerie, shoes, makeup, etc. I also think it would be fun to go to the spa with a sub one day. Let's get girly together.

S & M and Caning

For the masochists and unruly males out there in the world...

Some males just need a severe beating sometimes to reinforce that their place is on their knees. And I do love caning and have a sadistic side...

Some of my canes.

The Whangee cane with the many notches is my latest favorite since it stings and hurts alot. Bend over, slave! (Devious laugh)

I own it. Chastity helps you

 

That little locked up clitty cock belongs to Me. You really should be thankful that chastity is helping you please Me. You've had the power over it for too long. It's My turn!

Now let me explain the situation:

Now go put on the chastity cage now!!

Alice in Wonderland party

One of my ideas for the future is to have a kinky Alice in Wonderland tea party for kinky ladies and served by a sissy sub or two. Maybe I'll do it for a future big birthday party. It'll be great fun.

Here is the Alice in Wonderland outfit that I already have for a sub. I have it all...the dress, petticoat, wig and stockings:

Do you want to dress up cute like Alice and serve tea and snacks at a future party? I also have a pink Cheshire cat costume for a sub and a Queen of Hearts costume for Me.

Some interesting themed finger sandwiches that are cool to make and serve to ladies.

I like to have fun imaginative parties. It's been a few years since I've had theme parties for my kinky friends but I hope to do parties again in the future.

On a related note, if you want to see one of my past themed parties, check out my post about my "Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory" birthday party for me with my kinky friends. That was so much fun!

Marked and Owned

 

A couple of male subs written on by their dommes they have served.

If you serve me in person very well and prove you're a great sub for me then one day I may decide to write on you stating that you're my sissy slut.

And then over time those temporary marks may just turn into practice for the real thing. The day will come when I decide to see you prove how serious you are and I'll place a permanent tattoo or brand claiming you as Mine. It will please me to see you marked as my little sissy bitch for us and anyone to see. You'll be my collared owned sissy gurl for life. It's your destiny. You want this. It's an honor to show you belong to Me.

Topping from the bottom - articles

 Here are some good articles to read on "topping from the bottom". 

- 5 ways to recognize topping from the bottom.

-Ways in which feeding dominance is not topping from the bottom.

Procrastinating on your domme's commands for no valid reason can be a form of "topping from the bottom". If I give a sub a command or assignment then I expect it done soon, not when the sub feels like it some day in the future at his leisure. The sub really needs to decide if he does want to be in a Female-led relationship with the domme and also value what she wants and wants her control or not. A submissive being obedient to her wishes is also a show of respect to her. Strive to do your absolute best for Her.

Laboring for Mistress

 Happy Labor Day, everyone!

Sissy kitty gets taken

I imagine it's Halloween night and they've both dressed up as sexy kittens and came home at night after a party for some of their own fun...

"Meow for me, my cute sissy kitten."

Strapon sucking

 

It's a sissy sub's duty to suck Mistress' fem cock whenever She wants. 

Whether freely as above

Or restrained and forced...

"That's a good gurl. Suck your Owner's fem cock to show you love it and accept your place."

Sissymaid training

 

A lovely sissymaid taking care of Mistress' home like a good gurl.

Hugging

I'm human and sometimes I just need a warm hug from someone who cares about me, and it's especially heightened due to all of the social distancing I've had over the past 1.5 years. Also, I believe I heard that humans are best with at least 3 hugs a day. That means I'm due about 1642.5 hugs. I'd like to cash in please. Lol. One good hug would be nice for starters.

Mmmm...

Some hobbies

While most of you know that I'm dominant and love coming up with blog posts including creative fantasies with images, I am also multi-dimensional and am creative in several other ways too. 

For instance, I have several ideas for femdom events, I love decorating & hosting parties, I'm working on a brand new femdom advice website, I sometimes cook new things, and I love being artistic. (Drawing, painting, jewelry design, and more). Here are some jewelry designs I made, including making the 4 silver pendants from scratch. And a drawing I did.

Some of my artistic designs 

and silver pendants I molded.

And my mind usually seems to be coming up with several interesting or exciting ideas for what I can do with or to a future submissive that's with me. I usually do not tell a sub all of them ahead of time because I like surprises and telling them all takes away some of the fun for me in my mind. Plus I want a sub's mind to focus on service and being a good sissy/submissive. And having a good useful sissymaid will also help free up some time for my ideas and hobbies, and help me to relax more.

You wish you were Mine

 

Kidnapped sissy

 

"Oh you're not going anywhere, sissy. I captured you fair and square. You're my gurl now. And you're staying put."

"It's your destiny to serve Me."

"Do you really want to escape? You're not going anywhere. You admitted you wanted to be my sissy and I am holding you to your word!", Mistress says as she then uses her remote control to send several distracting vibrations to your butt plug to make you jump to amuse Her. "Now go to the punishment room, sissy. I'll be in shortly."

Hunting males

I read someone's post online which said:

"How many remember "Lil Abner Comic Strip"? There was a day when Women captured men...An Outdoor Event - Men were given a head start and the women chased them..Captured them For ;-)) ... Love to renew the Day as an event, Find a Private Field/Maze - Woman can carry Rope, Handcuffs,Ties. After Capture: "etc" (Women's Decisions). I Love to do a Photo Shoot of the event."

Well I read that above and have never heard of that comic strip so I did an online search and found some of the images. It seems to be a hill billy comic with some showing a hunt of women hunting down men for a Sadie Hawkins Day hunt...

I thought those comics were funny and interesting. For a long time, I've had the fantasy of organizing a sub hunt where women hunt down the males. There's an entire category of my blog for posts related to a "sub hunt".

Here is my past blog post with some of the ideas for the sub hunt.

I am open to other ideas. I think it would be cool to have a holding pen for the captured males and women could capture them however they want. And online I recently came across a location that might work in the future but I would like to check it out in person.

Panties and chastity for you

 

"Sissy, don't cover up your little bulge. I know you didn't put on your chastity device to lock up your little clitty like you should."

"You have to abide by my rules if you want to belong to me!"

"Read my rules. And on second thought, I want you feminized as much as possible. You behave more submissively that way. Now go lock up that clitty and hand me the keys!"

"That's much better! Now you look more appropriate for a sissy."

"Feminization, chastity, and pleasing Me are your future. And you'll learn to accept and love it! Do you understand me?"

Meditation

I've been looking into meditation for mood improvement, centering and stress relief. And I came across this guided meditation video which I enjoyed. Just make sure your volume is on, then play it and close your eyes and listen to it. Click this link: Guided meditation with Mooji & Russell Brand.

Funnies

Some funny graphics I saw and enjoyed...

Q&A mailbag

 

Hello all,

I have been getting more questions lately from admirers so I thought I would answer some of those questions here so that I'm not repeatedly asked the same types of questions. 

So here goes...

Question: "I would like to know how would you start training your submissive boyfriend, Mistress."

Answer: Every woman is different and wants different things. And she may want different things from different people at different times. I can only answer for myself. In all my past relationships, they have all been different depending on my frame of mind at the time, my desires at the time, the level of attraction, emotions, what I sense in the person, and if I felt a rare deep connection or not. So there is not one universal way.

As for any dominant woman looking for a submissive boyfriend/partner, I wouldn't say start to "train" a male. The word "train" sort of brings up some odd thoughts of a robot to train. It's more complex and human than that. Instead I would say a male "learns" what I like by getting to know me and my likes/preferences, standards, etc through our communication together. And I would get to know him. Over time, we would develop trust, chemistry and a relationship. And if I wanted him to be my sissymaid, then I would show him and tell him what I want done in my home. And if I wanted him to dress up for me at my home then I would go into my crossdressing room and pick out what I want him to wear. (Outfit, panties, stockings, wig, shoes, etc.) And I would apply his makeup to turn him into a pretty sissymaid/gurl for me. And if I wanted anything else, then I would say, show and explain.

Question: "How to become a better sissymaid for Mistress?"

Answer: Listen, be attentive, be useful, be honest, be respectful, be quick to obey me, and strive to learn new skills and what I like. (What tea I like, what food I like, how to prepare meals I like, learn what I don't like, etc.) And for sissies (crossdressers), I think for a potential sissymaid of mine it would great for him to practice at home by trying to look his sissy best. (Having his own clothes, makeup, panties, chastity device, shoes, stockings, and shaving.) I love seeing what purchases he has made or look he has. And having an unselfish attitude of wanting to be of service to me is important. Especially since I need and want regular help/service from a sissy around the house. And in addition to cleaning and looking like a sissymaid, if he knows how to cook some plant-based meals and/or how to give a good massage then that would be really wonderful. I also have massage books and plenty of plant-based recipes to follow. 

Question: "Is it that bad if a man is sensitive, shows emotions, cries, craves for the love of his Mistress and Owner, is weak or prefers to adopt a role that patriarchy has given more to Women?"

Answer: No, of course not. I love it when a male shows his emotions to me...lets down his wall he may typically put up for the rest of the world and lets me in. It's very attractive to me. Especially if I see his vulnerable side, learn of any weaknesses he has, learn his feelings or desires for me. That takes trust and strength and is valued. And I do not believe in adhering to what a patriarchal society tells you to do or behave. Be authentic. Be unique. Express yourself.

"I have taken the path less travelled on and that has made all the difference!"

Halloween is coming

Hooray! it's September. One month closer to Halloween, which is my absolute favorite holiday. I love decorating, the costumes, parties, Halloween stores, etc. I have hosted several kinky Halloween parties in the past where I decorated every room in my home with a different theme and had friends over. Such great fun. And I also love having and decorating a black Halloween tree. Here's a photo of my tree from the past:

"Be a good subbie or you won't get any good presents under my Halloween tree. If you're naughty, you just get naughty presents. Lol."

I also think that Halloween is a great time for crossdressers and others to buy costumes, wigs and stockings. I have alot of wigs now.

And I think Halloween is also a great opportunity for parents to encourage young boys to crossdress and bring out their softer girly side.

He looks so pretty dressed up like Cinderella. By the way, that looks extremely similar to the Cinderella dress that I have in my crossdressing room for subs.

And it also reminds me of my fantasy of one day having a bunch of sissies dressed up as princesses or fairytale characters and we do a sissy shopping trip together at a local outdoor mall that has had a trick or treat costume night in the past. Visiting different stores for shopping and treats and interacting with the sales people there to bring a smile to people's faces. :)

The secret of a long and healthy life

 From the book “Hippocrates LifeForce: superior health and longevity” by Brian R. Clement, PhD, NMD, NNC. 

(He is also director of the Hippocrates Health Institute in Florida which is the number one Wellness spa in the world)

The secret of a long and healthy life:

"You have probably heard about the existence of certain islolated groups of people who live to one hundred years of age and beyond while remaining in good physical and mental health. One of these groups lives off the coast of Japan on the island of Okinawa and is among the most studied populations on the planet.

A saying carved into a stone bench marker in Okinawa reads, “At seventy you are but a child, at eighty you are merely a youth, and at ninety, if the ancestors invite you into heaven, ask them to wait until you are one hundred, and then you might consider it.” That proverb reveals an attitude about living that helps to explain why the residents of Okinawa experience the longest disability-free life expectancy in the world.

Studies of the Okinawan diet reveal an emphasis on the consumption of dark green vegetables, sweet potatoes, bean sprouts, seaweed, onions and green peppers.  By contrast, meat, poultry, and dairy account for just 3 percent of their overall food consumption. With this diet fully ingrained into their lifestyle and culture, the rate of people living to one hundred years of age is six times higher than in the United States and other Western countries.

If you think the Okinawans may have a genetic predisposition toward longer lives, you would be wrong. When Okinawans leave the island and adopt the meat-and-dairy eating habits of other countries, they quickly fall prey to the same health problems that afflict the rest of the world’s populations.

Harvard Medical School geriatrician Bradley J. Willcox, who spent a decade studying the food habits and lifestyle of Okinawa residents, cites four factors that account for their longevity: a low-calorie, plant based diet, regular exercise, a strong spiritual tradition, and a positive outlook on life...

Another intensively studied group of people are members of the Seventh-Day Adventist Church in California, who adhere to a mostly vegetarian diet. A 2001 study in the Archives of Internal Medicine evaluated the health and diets of thirty-four thousand members of the church and found that those who ate the least amount of meat lived nearly ten years longer than those who regularly consumed animal products. Their incidence of disease in all categories was also significantly lower than meat eaters.

These finding have received broad support from other dietary studies for at least four decades. Two studies appearing in the Journal of the American Medical Association in 1961 and 1966, for instance, observed that people who do not eat meat live longer and suffer fewer chronic health disorders than meat eaters.”

(The book mentions a lot of things and also goes on to stress the importance of drinking pure healthy water and raw food. “All of our physical and mental functioning operates on and through electrical frequency. To extend our lives, we must create a continuous wave of positive electrical activity. This means we need a constant infusion of the essence of life-force that comes from organic living food.”)

If you want help going plant-based or just eating more healthy meals, check out the Forksoverknives.com website.

Relationship advice

Great relationship advice I heard:

Make a list of the characteristics and qualities you want in a partner and then be those qualities yourself.

Qualities I seek and also possess myself:

1. Honesty

2. Trustworthiness

3. Caring

4. Kindness

5. Respectfulness

6. Good sense of humor

7. Integrity 

8. Empathetic

9. Loyalty

10. Friendship

11. Intelligence 

12. Tries to learn and improve

13. Authentic

14. Playful or fun loving

15. Open to new experiences

16. Emotional maturity

17. Good communicator

18. Good listener

Respect

 

I would like to hear the opinion of my submissive but I always make the final decision. I respect other people's intelligence and thoughts. But he should also respect that I'm the leader and decision maker when we're in a Female led relationship.

A submissive's kiss to the foot of his Domme can be a show of respect and love. I love having my feet kissed, massaged and cared for by a devoted submissive male.

Him also obeying me is a sign of his respect to me as the dominant one, and that he wants and values the Female led relationship.