Law of attraction and self talk

Here are some good points that I liked from an article I read on the law of attraction...

"The law of attraction: Whatever you hold in your mind on a consistent basis is exactly what you will experience in your life.” In short, what you focus on, you attract.

If you put negativity into the world, you’ll feel like you're living under a cloud. But if you practice gratitude and put positive energy into the world, you’ll attract positivity in return.

If you believe you are capable of achieving your dreams, you’re inspired to pursue those dreams. But if you believe you’re incapable, there will be no impetus to inspire you to action.

How to put it into practice...

IDENTIFY YOUR LIMITING BELIEFS

Beliefs are things you are certain about, whether about yourself, other people or the world.

Limiting beliefs are the stories we tell ourselves: “I’ve always been shy”, "I'm difficult" or “I’ll never learn to love working out.” They come from past experiences and results, your environment and the knowledge you’ve picked up over the years – and they affect every aspect of your life. Identifying them is the first step.

REWRITE YOUR STORY

“We will act consistently with our view of who we truly are, whether that view is accurate or not.” What we tell ourselves is what we believe.

Changing your self-talk is essential to learning how to use the law of attraction  – and also one of the hardest parts. In order to attract positivity, you must not only speak and act outwardly in a way that manifests your goals. The law of attraction starts within: You must stop negative patterns and truly believe in yourself.

SHIFT YOUR FOCUS

“Where focus goes, energy flows". Don’t focus on failures  – focus on the lesson you learned. Don’t focus on your past  – focus on all the potential your future holds.

CREATE HEALTHY HABITS

But how can you make sure your body and mind operate in peak state? You can start with goal visualization, meditation and gratitude – three practices of highly  successful people.

Visualizing your goals for 10 minutes each morning sets a positive and empowering tone for your day. Meditation can increase your mindfulness and help you find your center and focus your thoughts. And practicing gratitude helps you live in the moment and radiate positivity."

Smooth submissive

 

In my opinion, a sissy sub is best smooth shaven, in stockings and garters, and locked in a chastity device with Mistress holding the key. Her locked property ready to serve.

A chaste sissymaid making a nice dinner for Mistress.

Sissymaids should clean up afterwards, of course. Chores are for subs. Be useful. 

Kiss your Mistress' feet in gratitude for the chance to have served her. 

Chastity is your future

 

It's appropriate for sissy clitties to be all snug and locked away. Accept it.

"The only thing chastity takes away is access to your penis. In return, it gives arousal, contentment, confidence, makes feminity and submissiveness bloom, and lets you fully enjoy sex in the receptive role. All things you love. Is that really such a bad deal that you want to take off the cage?"

Forgiveness

 

Sissymaids

Here are some photos of sissymaids that I like...

Do as you're told.

Reviewing the sissymaid's look and curtsey.

Riding Mistress' strapon (after Mistress got turned on by the sissymaid bending over while cleaning in a short skirt.)

"Mmm...your ass is Mine, my sexy gurl."

Mistress and her sissy

 

A Mistress and her owned sissy sub. She's proud to own her sissy who has taken to her training very nicely and is a good gurl for her.

Blog tips

In 1 month, it will be the 12th Anniversary of My Femdom Blog. So I thought I would give a few tips on the blog.

1. If you click "web version" located at the bottom (instead of mobile version) then you can "follow" my blog, and also see the many categories of my blog. Example of categories: "Photos of my stuff" or "Black and white photo".

2. As of August 1, I believe email notification is discontinued by Blogger. But I believe following is still available.

3. If you like my blog posts then write comments on the specific posts you like. You can even write anonymously. Seeing comments helps me to want to post more. And also lets me know there's people out there reading them. 

My Vampiress story

 

An admirer asked me where to find my erotic vampiress story that I wrote in the past. It is on my Captured-males.com website. It is the 4th story on the page and is called "Dark Predator". Enjoy!

Sensual strapon lovemaking

Current mood: I'm feeling very sensual and feminine today. And I'm in the mood for some sensual strapon lovemaking. 

First connecting over a romantic meal together.

Then at home after dinner:

"I want you now. You ready?" 

"Yes, Goddess."

"That's good. Lick my femdom cock, my pet."

Finally inside him...slowly penetrating him and slowly moving in and out and enjoying the moment together. Moaning in pleasure together. 

This video clip is a good example of the sensual pegging I am in the mood to give today.

All pink

Pink is a color associated with feelings of love and happiness. And dressing up may help you feel good. Also, wearing something silky or satiny will feel good against your skin. Or wearing something lacy will help you feel girly.

(I think the above outfit looks good on the sissy sub. Very pretty. I found that photo online a long time ago and today I finally spotted that outfit online here on Amazon.)

Cleaning up society

 

Tired of seeing males being violent or unruly in society and having repeated offenses, Mistress Lisa set out to fix that problem and get them off the streets. Her Fem Patrol scouts the town. This batch of males was caught trashing and robbing a convenience store, and have done so in the past too. So her team snatched them up quickly. "Move along, boys. Your first stop is Hangman Hall to meet the boss and learn some humility."

Mistress Lisa delights in penetrating the male leader of the gang with her strapon. 

The next step is that they are completely shaven, put in chastity, chest plumped, makeup applied, put into a pink sissymaid uniform, heels, and then a wig. 

The unruly males have now been transformed into pretty pink sissymaids. Mistress wishes them a good night. "Good night, gurls. Don't go anywhere. Haha. Be sure to get some rest. You have lots of sissymaid training tomorrow. Our rich female clientele will be arriving to the slave auction in 3 weeks and we have to get you gurls ready. Sleep tight."

Spanked sissy

 

It's about time your ass is spanked, sissy. You need at least one good spanking everyday to remind you who's in charge. Now quit wiggling. I want to see my handprint on that little ass I own.

Chaste sub

I want your clitty looking pretty for me...all wrapped up and bound in chastity and under my tight control. I know you want to look lovely and be my sexy sissy gurl. 

Hand the keys over to me.

Rules

Behavioral rules: 

1. You will serve, obey and please me, trusting my skill, experience and responsibility and my concern for your well being and you will respect and defer to me at all times and trust my judgment and my knowledge. I have our best interests at heart and want to make our lives together fulfilling, meaningful, happy and fun. You will behave respectfully to me at all times. You are to address me as Mistress, Goddess, My Queen, or Mistress Lisa when not around regular vanilla folks. Around vanilla people you are to address me as Ma'am, unless told or discussed otherwise. 

2. You will be grateful for all I give and show you and will acknowledge and thank me at all times. If I discipline you, you will thank me for your correction specifying why you needed correction so I can see you understood the reason. You will perform whatever tasks I set you immediately as a token of respect and obedience.

3. You will wear my collar and any other temporary or permanent markings with pride and with gratitude.

4. If you need to be punished you will accept that punishment without question. If you argue or try to talk me out of it the punishment will be automatically increased.

5. I will decide what clothes you are and are not allowed to wear and will give specifications of clothes and how and where I want them worn.

6. When not busy doing work or chores/commands, your rest place is submissively on the floor near my feet unless I indicate otherwise.

7. You understand that you may voice opinions and concerns and that I will always take account of your views. However you accept that my decision is always final and once made MUST NOT BE ARGUED WITH.

8. You will be open and honest to me always. And I want you to express your emotions and concerns to me so that I may know there are no misunderstandings or hidden problems and can address any such as required. You will be open and honest about your behavior so that you may be corrected if needed.

9. You will listen with your full attention to my words and comment as required. I like conversation and good communication and I have not put any general restrictions on when you may speak however I expect you to learn when it is a good time to take care over what you say.

10. You will willingly expand your limits to give pleasure to us both and will strive to overcome your fears and limitations.

11. You must trust that I will never do anything to you that I do not know how to do, and that the care and preparation I take is a mark of respect for you and your safety.

12. I will decide when you are allowed to orgasm. Orgasm is a privilege not a right.

13. You will gladly wear a chastity belt, plug or other toy whenever I specify as a sign of your submission without question.

14. When you move up to being my live-in sub, you will accept responsibility for the smooth running of the home, keeping it clean tidy and laundry washed and a comfortable place for us both to live. 

15. You will learn to accept that things you have regarded as your right are now privileges which can be revoked. (privileges must earned) The better you behave and carry out your duties the easier things will be. If you have a good request at times, you are free to speak and may ask it. But I make all final decisions.

16. Your body is my property and you will understand that you have a duty to take care of it with the same care that you would look after any of my property. You have a duty to look after your health, fitness, diet, weight and to take any medication promptly and as prescribed. You must visit the Doctor at the first sign of any medical problem. You must exercise regularly to keep fit so you are able to perform any task given. 

17. You are not to permanently mark my property without my permission. 

18. You will be proactive in your service at times too. For example, if you see something dirty then be good and clean it. And you will continually learn new things in order to be better and more skilled. 

Also, here is a graphic that I made around 2013 of some rules for a live-in sissy:

 

Forced strapon

Current mood: 

I'm in the mood to kidnap a male and then roughly force him to take my strapon.

He had no choice. When she gets horny, she takes what She wants.

"Take it, my slut!"

Updated 5 love languages

Here's my updated results from the quiz on 5lovelanguages.com which show how I feel loved.

40% Gifts 

27% Words of Affirmation 

20% Quality Time

7% Physical Touch

7% Acts of Service

Regarding gifts, I like any gifts....that could be a handwritten note, a special photo just for me, or other gift that shows that you spent some time thinking of me. I am not materialistic at all and can buy my own things. But it is the gesture/thought and time that counts. A way to see you took time to show appreciation and care.

I like all 5 including quality time, physical touch and acts of service. (Being domme, I expect acts of service from subs.) But gifts and words of affirmation are just my top ways I feel appreciated and loved/cared for.

Sissymaids

 

A submissive sissymaid must look good, be useful and strive to do the best every day in order to be a good asset and servant for Mistress. While I do not agree that a sissymaid should look in the mirror several times a day to check makeup (time is better spent cleaning), I do want the sissy to look feminine at all times when cleaning or doing other household chores.

Her toy

 

Him: Helpless and irresistibly aroused under her touch, rendered defenseless by her calculated ministrations. In submissive ecstasy.

Her: Calmly pleased by her power over him, by the ease at which she seduced and manipulated him into a quivering object of vulnerability, her toy to do with as she wishes.

Happy Birthday to Me

 It's the month of my birthday. Show your appreciation and please Me.

Good boy!

Watching the jogger

 

"Don't look at me like that. You shouldn't have been jogging by my estate alone every day and therefore tempting me. When I see what I want, I get it. And now that's you! Ooh I have plans for you."

Later that night....

"Get to sucking my cock, my new slave. Don't make me say it again."

Happy New Year!

I hope everyone has a great 2021. Happy New Year!!! Goodbye, 2020!

Let's dance!

October is for costumes

Hooray it's October! My favorite month due to my favorite holiday, Halloween. It's a great month for Halloween treats, decor and especially costumes. You can be whatever you want to be....even a crossdressed Robin or a Batman locked in chastity by Batgirl. lol.What do you want to be?

Sold maid

"I am sorry it is a little embarrassing for you but I really am most grateful. These ladies are here to invest in my business so the right impression is vital and you look perfect. And as I promised if all goes to plan, Andrew, I will never ask you to pay me another penny in rent on your college room ever again."

He replies, "I do feel silly, but I am happy to help you out, Miss Jones." (not knowing what he's really there for)

Woman on phone in other room: "Stage one in latex and exceptionally pretty. I believe enhancement would create something truly breathtaking. Bidding will be high, Madam, do I have unlimited clearance?" Then "Yes, Madam, thank you, Madam. I shall deliver him to the manor this very evening. Good bye."


And now for transport...

then arrival...

"Ah my new delivery is here. And in pink just like I wanted my new slave purchase to be. How lovely! I look forward to our times together. I'm going to transform you into the perfect obedient sissymaid for me. Welcome to your new life. You belong to me now!"
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And here's more taken sissymaids waiting to be transported to their new Owner's home...

and then...

A Mistress' newly purchased sissymaid property doing her chores.

A chastity device is one way to help ensure a sissymaid's compliance and instill more of a submissive mindset.

In time, the kidnapped sissymaid learns to love being at Mistress' feet and serving her. It's really where the sub belongs.