Foot Care Fridays

Fridays are for Foot Care extraordinaire. That means extra special pampering and worship. (a tip to subs: take some time this weekend to learn about pedicures and foot massage)

Here are 2 ads involving foot worship...

Another photo I like:

"Lick slowly, slave, and savor your Goddess' feet. Breathe in my scent, taste my soft skin and worship every inch. Take your time and make sure it feels good for Me while I eat the breakfast you've prepared."
Related: Some photos of MY feet only and some more are on My main Gallery page of my personal site.

Turned into a sissy slave Part 2

(First read Part 1 here.). After Mr. Bradley was told he would now live as a sissy slave, he screamed out "nooo" like a little bitch. Obviously he needs to behave better. Whaaaaaaack!

"Quit your whining, sissy, and just accept your new place...because you aren't leaving anytime soon. You were sold to us. And you're a sissy slave now since you couldn't behave appropriately towards Women when you were a guy. So think no thoughts of the past. We have burned all your male clothes anyway."

"But maybe you need a little help with your thoughts and accepting your new role in life. Let me introduce you to our new machine, The MindBender and Extractor. Your female kidnappers gave it to us for 6 months use with our slave purchase of you."

"You see...you just sit back all nice and restrained like you are, with your head held still and earphones attached, and watch my new hypnosis video I had inserted into its video and sound function. The video is called "Welcome to your new sissy life". It will extract your tough macho male thoughts and replace them with nice obedient sissy slave thoughts. It's a new hypnosis video so let me know how you like it. Oh but I'm sure you're going to love it and can't stop watching it. =) Also, there's a penis encasement sheath attached to this machine. That way you can't see your naughty penis again. And it will pump you and extract the seed out of you powerfully after the 30 minute video is complete and you hear me say "Cum now, sissy!", and then everything starts over again. The machine can run automatically for 6 hours straight. So from now on, you will only be allowed to cum if you are listening to a video here or if commanded to do so. Since this machine is new, you'll be the first test dummy. Aren't you lucky? I'll be back to check on you in a couple hours."

"I have a feeling that your mindset and attitude will be very improved. It has to because if you're not to our liking within 6 months with this sissy slave mind re-training program, then we may have to sell you. Oh but I think that you're going to make a lovely soft obedient sissy slave and slut. You may even become an excellent wife."

Slave position 12 or Nadu

Slave position #12: Nadu - The slave kneels with knees spread apart, back straight, chest out and head held up. Eyes look down out of respect, and hands are placed palms-up on thighs. (The palms are upward to show tenderness and vulnerability. And the head held up shows some pride in being her slave. Legs are open for easy access and viewing.)

"Twelve, now!" (His Mistress is pleased with the performance/obedience of her new slave and that's what matters.)

Related link:
-slave positions

Tea Service

Submissive males serving tea to Ladies.
(whack) "Hurry up, boy, we don't want my tea to get cold, do we?"
This photo reminds me of when I had Femdom Tea Parties for the Femdomme/malesub munch I used to run, except the male servants would wear thongs or panties...something small/skimpy to cover up the genitals while the ladies drank their tea and chatted. In addition to tea, I had the males be useful and also serve various food such as a fruit tray, finger sandwiches, chocolate tray, crackers and cheese tray, etc. It was delightful. And any mistakes by the males were kept track of on a chalkboard and later in the evening the males were paddled for them by all the ladies. And then each male servant gave a lady a relaxing foot massage at the end of the night. It was great. One day I'll do another one.

Related link:
-FemaleSuperiority.com (My longer description of my femdom tea parties and munch were described in Elise Sutton's book "The FemDom Experience" since she published my words in her book.)

Women kissing

Enjoying a lovely kiss.
(Two lovely ladies softly kissing, and the
male kissing a woman's feet as he should.)
"I've missed you. I have been so busy with life, a new venture and training my new male slave I've acquired below. He does perform so much better now though. I'll show you." "Boy, now go make us some peppermint tea while we get reacquainted a bit more."
The previously free male responds:
"Yes right away, Goddess, as you wish." =)

Wrapped up just for Me

I took an inventory recently of all the plastic wrap, bondage tape, and duct tape (far right tower) I have and here's a photo of what's left. Hmmm...what to do with all this? Oh I can think of a few ideas. ;)
First step: Get supplies...check...got them.

Second step: Restraining, gagging and kidnapping you in the middle of the night when you're groggy and everyone else living near you is sleeping. (Easier to put you in the back of my car)

Third step: Arriving to my home

And telling you your new place in life and some rules of the house.

Fourth step: Doing whatever I want with you. You're Mine now.

The last boy you see over there in the distance is one I kidnapped and am storing for a female I know. But you're lucky. I'm keeping you for my own and for now I want to see your pretty, expressive eyes while I milk and torment you. Oh this is going to be fun.

Chaste boy

No unauthorized cumming without my permission. You and your little seed belong to Me now. And I want these balls to start filling up now, understood?

(The steel male chastity device I own called The Sentinel.)

The new alternative to a sperm bank - Part 2

(Read Part 1 first). Below is some info for Ladies who have hired me to kidnap and store a reluctant male of their choice for the purpose of taking his sperm against his will for whatever use she has in mind.

For sperm quality and quantity INCREASE:
- Ladies, choose a male kidnapping victim (your sperm donor) with a higher level of intelligence than other males. Smarter ones usually have more and healthier sperm.
- Here at my holding facility, the male eats a Healthy Diet we specify to increase sperm health and production. (mostly fruits and veggies, nuts, fish). The diet is recommended for at least three months but as the female client it is up to you when his seed is extracted.

- At my facility, I have natural Supplements made solely for increasing sperm production.(Semenax or Volume pills). Volume pills can increase sperm count by up to 500%...but it takes 3-7 months to achieve while he's in my holding facility. A 20% increase may be seen in 1-2 months. (Warning: side effects can be bigger orgasms for the male, increased testosterone and bigger appetite for sex. Therefore several restraints are strongly recommended for seed collection.)
- A longer duration of sexual stimulation before ejaculation increases sperm quality. (teasing, torment, and frustration is beneficial)

- The male does not exercise or ejaculate for 3 days before seed collection. This increases sperm quality. So 1-2 weeks before the seed collection, males are milked every 3 days to keep your new sperm fresh in his balls.

For sperm quality and quantity DECREASE:
- quality, volume and motility decrease with the age of a male.
- Sperm are heat-sensitive, and cannot endure high temperatures such as from saunas, long hot baths, or long-time tanning bed sessions. Sperm quality can be lower in the summer. It is recommended that ladies choose a male that does not have a dark tan or is in the sun alot.
- A very hard hit or crush to the balls can result in a permanent or temporary inability to produce sperm. Good knowledge for ladies seeking to stop his sperm production.
- Environmental toxins (Phthlates are in vinyl, pvc, the regular jelly rubber sex toys, plastic food containers, personal care items such as liquid soap, shampoo, cologne, etc. Also in some plastic drink bottles.) During our surveillance of the male in the wild we will find out if he regularly drinks from plastic bottles.
- Cell phone useage has been shown to significantly decrease sperm motility, viability and quality. During my surveillance I will tell the lady if he uses a cell phone alot.

- Tobacco smoking, drugs, prescriptions, or long term stress. This is also looked for during surveillance.
- An unhealthy diet can lead to things such as zinc deficiency which means lower sperm quality. We will test the male for vitamin deficiencies.
- Lack of exercise or excessive exercise. (try not to choose couch potatoes or professional athletes).
- Drinking alot of cola may also decrease sperm quality by 30%. We will watch his drinking habits.
- Soy products decrease sperm quality due to the high content of a type of phytoestrogen called isoflavones. This can also have a feminization effect on him so some ladies have opted for a heavy soy diet for him after final sperm collection.

Seed Collection/Extraction:
- I collect sperm in sterile glass containers during extraction. I do not keep sperm in latex condoms because the quality decreases with 60-80% per hour, rendering the sample unusable in not too long.
- I collect in the afternoon since sperm quality is better in the afternoon than in the morning. (Adrenaline is higher during awakening)
- We can restrain him and you can rape him (forced intercourse). Seed samples obtained via sexual intercourse contain 70-120% more sperm compared with sperm samples obtained via manual masturbation. Sexual intercourse also generates a 25–45% increase in ejaculate volume, mainly by increased prostate secretion. We do not know why but it is hypothesized that sexual intercourse subdues an inhibition from the central nervous system. (A real woman or one that tries to mimic a real one such as a fake plastic blow up doll or an automated seed collecting machine can do the job.)
- Seed can be collected via masturbation, prostate massage, artificial vagina, penile vibratory stimulation (vibroejaculation) and ElectroEjaculation (Seed extraction from Electrical stimulation).

- Other methods include forced milkings by hand, mouth, penis pump or machine devices. Hand methods can include manual pumping after a period of male chastity, manual pumping after or during toy or strapon penetration, or forced bi sex until he cums. For the humiliation factor, make him have sex with a blow up doll or blow up animal until he cums. (Souvenir video is optional)
- Collection with an automated seed collecting device.

Restraining methods can include:
- Having him encased in My VacBed that only has a hole for the mouth and penis. He is trapped inside by vacuum suction to his whole body and fully vulnerable to me or another female.
- Having him restrained down with strong leather or metal shackles.
- Hands restrained behind his back. Or him restrained to My CBT stand that traps his cock and balls and restrains his hands. These can be used with a Seed Collecting Device.

Hands-free Seed Collecting Devices:
- The "Sperm Collector" machine by Sanwe Medical Equipment co. ltd. (Model Number SW3701)
(Chinese made automated laboratory equipment with seed collection and premature ejaculation desensitization training function). View Video.
Product Features:
1) The device can simulate the movement of a woman's vagina in the process of collecting the seed. (comfortable for the male if that's what our female client wants.)
2) Provide a full range of visual and auditory stimulation (We altered this device so it can have the exact pre-programmed visual and auditory effects our female clients want, as well as restraints attached for the male.)
3) Private used seed collection sheath can eliminate contamination of the seed.
4) All-round isolation measures can prevent cross infection.
5) Can make seed collection fast and safe here. So it is the best clinical equipment of seed collection available today.

- Venus 2000. An automated stroking device by Abco Research Associates. Via the controls, it can stroke slow or super fast. It has an Adjustable Stroke Length and also a Variable Stroke Speed From 8 to 300 Per Minute. It's custom made and can even enable a Climax Without an Erection. Also has optional nipple stimulation. We can also use it to train against Premature Ejaculation or just for torment. This can also be used in combination with our VacBed since the penis is exposed, or we can hook him up to a restraining chair.

- Electric play by using an E-stim Systems Tens unit on the cock and a metal anal plug. Series 2B has 17 modes and has two main settings which can be used: The Sports setting and the Tens setting. The unit can give him painful stimulation and make his cock throb, thrust or cum at yours or my command. (Also possible: e-stim Series 1 remote with built in motion sensor up to 150ft. The Series 2b device can also be audio triggered by normal audio sources such as CD's, and ABox device can be sound driven according to the audio. This allows you to control the output just from the level and tonal qualities of a female's voice, or from an audio source. If all is quiet then the male subject is not going to be zapped..but make a noise and he will. This can be useful for his voice training and obedience. Also the Series 2B e-stim device has an optional digital PC link that allows the male's electro stimulation to be controlled over the internet. That will enable a female to sit back at home while she tortures a male at a secure location. (Continued torture of a male at my holding facility is an additional fee. Female clients should contact me for details.)

Seed quality testing:
- I can collect a seed sample through milking him and directing the sample into a clean glass cup. For those ladies interested, a sample can be collected during intercourse or forced milking in a special type of condom known as a collection condom. Collection condoms are for testing sperm quality and are made from silicone or polyurethane, as latex is somewhat harmful to sperm. Samples are then tested in the lab or the lady can use our home kit if she wants to take it home and send it in herself for testing.

Freezing your new sperm for later use:
- The @Home Sperm Freezing Kit contains the materials and instructions necessary in order to produce a usable sperm sample at a lady's home or at our holding facility. The charge is $725 for the processing, freezing, and storage of the specimen for one year. The storage cost of each subsequent year is $350.00. The frozen sperm can remain potent for decades.
- CryoChoice: Another home kit we use for sending off sperm for freezing/storage. $599-$699 for testing and one year storage.
$139 for each additional year.

How much sample to collect?
An average ejaculation will produce approximately 5 vials of sperm. It is typical to use 1-3 vials for artificial insemination. Much less may be required for advanced procedures such as ICSI.

Another service I offer to a lady after we take a male is to train him to increase his stamina sexually. This is for ladies who have chosen to purchase a male after our acquisition so he becomes her sex slave. Mind reprogramming is also offered.

Procedures available from facilities elsewhere:
- Intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI, pronounced "icksy") is an in vitro fertilization procedure in which a single sperm is injected directly into an egg. (This procedure can overcome male infertility problems if the male donor you've chosen unknowingly is not in the best condition fertility-wise)
- Testicular sperm extraction (TESE) is the process of removing a
small portion of tissue from the testicle under local anesthesia and extracting the few viable sperm cells present in that tissue for the purpose of ICSI. It is recommended to men who are unable to produce sperm by ejaculation. (So in this case, our kidnappers will collect the male, temporarily put him to sleep by anesthesia and deliver him to a medical facility run by femdom friendly doctor or surgeon)
- Castration (chemical castration, or a physical removal of his balls). Side effect: the penis will shrink. Some ladies may want this.
- Vasectomy for male sterilization after final sperm collection by our female client. This is good for birth control or to show your control.

1 or 2 weeks before the seed is needed by a female client, the acquired male is milked by our nurse every 3 days to keep it fresh and new in the balls for top quality. It's done in a variety of ways.

Related link: View My Part 1 here.

The new alternative to a sperm bank

My way would be a little different than others.

First a female in need goes throughout her normal everyday life and when she comes across a male she is interested in (for his sperm/genes), she approaches him. If he rejects her for some reason and he's not marked in some way as married or owned, then she calls my office. I then do surveillance on him for a few days to see his daily habits of where he goes and to learn more about him. And then my acquisition team and I set out to take him forcefully by surprise.

Into my car he goes. Ah I do like the thrill of a new capture.

He's then put in my holding facility til the lady arrives.

Although sometimes I like to try out a new captive
and break him in Myself.

And teach him a few lessons before the other lady arrives.

He's the one you selected, correct? Miss, would you like to now purchase him as your slave, punish him or are you just interested in his seed? If the latter, we have a few interesting ways to acquire it.

(to be continued. Update: See Part 2)

How to do neck and shoulder massage

A great skill I love for a sub to have is to do massage. Most people, including myself, carry tension in their neck and shoulders at times. Here are some instructional video links I like for how to do neck and shoulder massage.

-How to do a shoulder massage:
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xgfnbk_how-to-do-a-shoulder-massage_lifestyle

-How to give a neck massage (and shoulders included):
http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-give-a-neck-massage-part-i

-How to massage away shoulder pain:
http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-massage-away-shoulder-pain

-How to do a neck massage:
http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-do-a-neck-massage

Remember practice makes perfect.

How to look like a dinosaur

Okay I'm talking about Cupping but he does kind of remind me of the Stegosaurus dinosaur below. =)

So what is Cupping? Basically it's vacuum suction of the skin. This can be done via a handheld suction pump (regular/air cupping as in the first pic above), or by using fire (fire cupping). With fire cupping, an alcohol soaked cotton ball on a pair of forceps is ignited by fire and put underneath a sterile glass cup. The glass cup is rapidly placed on the skin surface. The flame expels air from the cups, causing a negative pressure which creates the internal vacuum suction on the skin.

Cupping is said to increase circulation, relieves swelling, and is used for many conditions, including back pain, shoulder pain, neck pain, common colds, influenza and more. (I would say the sensation experienced by cupping and any results of cupping depend on the individual.)

Cupping has been practiced for thousands of years as part of ancient Chinese medicine and some other cultures. It is said to release rigid soft tissue and stubborn knots, drain excess fluids and toxins, loosen adhesions and lift connective tissue; and bring blood flow to stagnant skin and muscles.

The bdsm/alternative community has also used it. And also hollywood celebrities such as Gywneth Paltrow have had it done. Actress Gwyneth Paltrow caused media frenzy after a cupping session when she showed up on the red carpet with marks on her back from a fire cupping session to improve her health. See a short video about her and hear a good explanation about cupping at:
http://www.ostenzen.com/newsflash/cupping-marks.html

Some massage therapists or spas offer cupping and you can sometimes hear them call it 'Massage Cupping' or 'Medical Cupping' but it's all the same. And marks from cupping are very common. This can last to a couple minutes to several days. I would say that harsh marks are more common with fire cupping because there's a chance of getting burned. As for me, I just use the regular handheld suction pump(air) because a cupping set was given to me as a gift by an admirer long ago and it can be fun to see a submissive's skin suctioned up or see some circular marks left. And so far I haven't seen any severe marks with the handheld suction pump so it's probably safer.

I will say that if you're a person who is going to do cupping on someone else then try to be knowledgeable about placement and realize that cupping to one person may feel differently to another. Some experience pain and some don't. And some mark more easily than others. Follow the directions that come with your cupping set. For example, mine says to start with up to 5 or 6 cups with someone new and place them on the person from a few seconds to up to 5 minutes. (Note: I did go to a Cupping class at a bdsm conference one year and most of the people having it done to them liked it and said it felt good but I was curious how Fire Cupping felt so I had the instructor try it on my back and Fire Cupping was very painful to me but that may be because I have back problems and therefore didn't like the heat/suction on it. But I have done regular air cupping on my arm and had no problems.)

I'm basically doing this blog post about Cupping because I recently stumbled across a webpage promoting a bdsm porn video that had fake bad information on it. So I thought I'd clear things up.

Related links:
-MassageCupping.com
-The art of massage cupping therapy
-Video on Gywnyth Paltrow and reporter's explanation on cupping.

Acceptance

A good slave accepts his Mistress' cock whenever She wants.

Mardi Gras Party recap

I hosted a Mardi Gras Masquerade Party at my home last night for the kinky Ladies group I co-lead and it went fantastic! Fun times, great food, decorations, music, beads, sexy women in sexy masks and outfits, and I did a hot wax play demo on someone in my dungeon. The only bad thing is that I have some cupcakes left over and now they're begging me to eat them...and I do like to hear begging...and eat chocolate. =)

The invitation I previously put together for the party

Good boy

I just love seeing a male being useful in the kitchen or doing other domestic chores. Mmm...So sexy. =)

Bring your male slave to work

Reminder: Ladies, Monday is "Take your male slave to work" day. =)

Related posts/Other days of the week:
- Monday is Take your Male Slave to Work day
- Tuesday is Sexy Nude Male Carwash Day
- Fridays are for extra Foot Care

A good male wife knows to worship her feet

A male wife worshipping his dominant wife's feet while she relaxes after dinner.